Why do my parents always beat me, and why do my parents beat me?

They think that because they raise you, they have the power to beat you, which is a misconception, but unfortunately, they are indeed connived.

You can ask them if they hit you right, if they say that they beat you because you did something wrong and punish you, you can ask them that you are wrong, but they punish you in the wrong way, can you change your mistakes from now on? I think the answer is no, maybe they can give you a satisfactory answer.

Every parent has his own difficulties in beating his child, because there is no parent in the world who does not love his child, beating you is to let you grow up quickly, I think you should take a look at Bi Shumin's "Child, Why I Beat You".

It's not right for mom and dad to hit you! But from their hearts, it's still good for you!

How can any parent not love their children, are you right?

As children, we need to put ourselves in the shoes of our parents and think about whether there is something wrong with us. Or if there is something that makes our parents think that we are doing something wrong, we have not explained.

Communication is important among family members. Is there anything the family can't say? The key is to have faith in your parents and tell them what is in your heart! I don't think your parents will hit you again in the future.

Maybe you've them off and are too disobedient, maybe they're in a bad temper.

Regardless of your fault, first of all, their education method is not right, and there is a lack of communication and communication between you. Are they grumpy? Then talk to them when they are in a good mood and tell them that you actually love them very much, don't want to make them angry, and will definitely do better in the future!

Of course you have a problem.

What parent would hit someone for nothing?

Generally speaking, only one of the parents is a little rougher. You're lucky that you can meet two. Sorry for the joke.

If you are not a problem child, I suggest you find your grandparents. Let them take care of their children.

Alternatively, you can seek the protection of your local agency for the protection of minors (if you are a minor).

Maybe your mom and dad need a punching bag

Maybe you're too disobedient.

Hehe! That's what traditional education looks like in China!

You often heat them up and get angry that they have problems there.

The worst beating I ever received when I was a kid was my mother, because I came back late, waited until I got home in the middle of the night, and let me stand on the wall and sweep the floor, and kept hitting my legs. Parents' love for their children is serious and serious, they want their children to be good, and they all hate that iron is not steel, girls are outside, if they come back late, it is not as worry-free as boys, girls go out, if they fool around with some indiscriminate people, it will be girls who will suffer in the future, so it is normal for parents to discipline girls strictly, but it is normal to take into account the child's self-esteem.

Another time, my mother also beat me so hard that I remember it vividly, and he even whipped me with his belt, and I never dared to come home very late from now on, even as long as I was asked to come back at what time? I definitely didn't delay, and this was a lesson, and I was still a little hateful at the time, but it was only when I grew up that I understood my mother's love. Parents are worried when girls come home too late, and the same is true for boys.

So no matter how many beatings we have been beaten and scolded by our parents when we were children, if it weren't for the kind of domestic violence abuse, it was all from our parents' hearts and we were seriously taught as long as we wanted. Let's be better, they just don't want us to suffer, they just want us not to take a detour, so don't resent them.

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That summer, I was playing with fire at home, and the hay next to the stove was lit by me, but fortunately it was a spark, and it didn't burn, because my father found out and found it early, otherwise it really burned.

It was very hot in the summer, and I didn't have any clothes on, so my father used bamboo branches to whip me, and the modus operandi was commonly known as stir-fried meat with bamboo shoots. The scar is commonly known as the "pig terrier".

I really don't want to remember it anymore, it's really too painful, and now when I write it, I feel a dull pain all over my body, that is, my whole body is beaten, the hiss is cracking, my mother can't hold it, fortunately, my little brother didn't break it, otherwise I would really have to be cruel to my dad for the rest of my life.

I still remember a Chinese New Year, when it was still in the small tile house in the countryside, the New Year's taste was very good, and I didn't know what I said wrong when I was going to set off the artillery at 12 o'clock during the New Year, my dad was a big ear fan, and I was immediately blindfolded, and then I don't remember what happened, the process was too painful, and the brain was selectively deleted.

Extended Material: What does it mean to be beaten?

It's to fight to the death! I don't want to die, Lao Tzu will fight with you!!

Ah Dad, don't fight anymore, it hurts too much

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My mom and my dad always got into fights.

For the handling of family relationships, I have some suggestions: 1. Be humble, don't be cautious about everything between family members, give each other more opportunities to be right, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts caused by confusion, and family affection is priceless. 2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself. 4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts. 5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, everything wants to open the mind, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

My childhood memory is that my parents were very good to me and would always accompany me, but sometimes I was really disobedient and made them angry, I remember the first time I was beaten because I didn't tell them that I was secret, I went outside to play fast, and they walked for a long time to find it, they were very angry and beat me I knew they were for my own good, I was very young at that time, and I may not understand their feelings.

Parents have been looking for a long time.

When I was young, my parents often reminded me not to talk to strangers when I went out, and not to eat what strangers gave me, because at that time, I was really small and ignorant, so every parent wanted to ensure that their children spent every day safely and soundly. But children sometimes go out to play, generally speaking, they will tell their parents to go **, but sometimes, they may forget and go to another place.

At this time, if you haven't come home at dinner time, your parents may go out to look for you, because if you haven't come back for too long, your parents must be very anxious. At that time, my parents will go to all the places you can go to look for you, and they will find me far away from home, and I will play there by myself, and they will have to walk a lot, and they will be very anxious in their hearts. When he found me, he must have been very angry, and of course I was inevitably beaten.

That was the only time my parents beat me, but I still remember it vividly, and I never left their sight after Heng Zen.

If a father beats his mother, he may report it to the police, and if he causes slight injury, the public security organ will punish him in a disorderly procession, and if he beats another person, or intentionally harms another person's body, he shall be detained for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days, and shall be fined not less than 200 yuan but not more than 500 yuan; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for up to 5 days or fined up to 500 RMB.

Article 43 of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China "Whoever assaults another person, or intentionally injures the body of another person, shall be detained for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days, and shall also be fined between 200 and 500 RMB; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for up to 5 days or fined up to 500 RMB. In any of the following circumstances, they are to be detained for between 10 and 15 days and fined between 500 and 1,000 RMB: (1) Gang beating or injuring others; (2) Beating or injuring a disabled or hidden disease, a pregnant woman, a person under the age of 14, or a person over the age of 60; (3) Repeatedly beating or injuring others, or beating or injuring multiple people at a time.