2 men who both love me How do I choose

Updated on society 2024-02-24
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a blessing to be loved, especially for women. And getting married means that you have a responsibility to be responsible for the A1 and 3-year-old babies who love you. If A2 really loves you, then he should keep his pure love with you, and he should silently bless you and help you when you really need it.

    At the same time, he should also find his own happiness, instead of "waiting for you". Love is a kind of selfless giving, he has always loved you is his business, maybe loving you is happy for A2, so you have nothing to be sorry for him. I hope you cherish the happiness you have now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you trying to cheat on your husband? You're married, you have your own family, your own children, don't be emotionally attached to other men, and if you don't love your husband, tell him, otherwise he'll be very sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You and A1 are going to have a good time. A2's thing is not your fault, A2 is so stupid, you should learn to give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now that you have a family, stick to A1 and cut off any contact with A2.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to let him know that you and your husband and children are living well, and you don't need him to worry about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He's called foolishness! To truly love one is not necessarily to "have, to be together." As long as the loved ones are happy and happy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ha ha. Teach you how? It's too conspicuous to write here. Hi me!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. If you feel like you're attracted to both of them in some way, you might consider trying out a relationship and seeing who fits your requirements best. If you feel like you only want to associate with one of them, then you can consider their strengths and weaknesses or just rely on intuition and make a decision.

    Whatever your choice is, it's important to remember that your ultimate choice is made by you and not imposed on you by someone else.

    Both men love me, what should I choose.

    It's not easy to choose this question because everyone's situation is different, and you need to consider many factors, such as what they can bring you in the future, how deep their feelings are for you, and whether you can be happy with them. Before making a final decision, you can have a good talk with them to see what the best option is between the three of you.

    If you feel like you're attracted to both of them in some way, you might consider trying out a relationship and seeing who fits your requirements best. If you feel like you only want to associate with one of them, then you can consider their strengths and weaknesses or just rely on intuition and make a decision. Whatever your choice is, it's important to remember that your ultimate choice is made by you and not imposed on you by someone else.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. If you feel that you have more feelings for two men, and who you like more, then choose whom.

    Both men love me, what should I choose.

    Hello. If you feel that you have more feelings for two men, and who you like more, then choose whom.

    Loved both.

    Both have their own merits.

    It depends on what decision you want to make from it. If you have an idea of relationship development, then you can get to know and consider both men in depth before making a choice. If you just want to get friendship and support from two people, then you can also continue to have a friendly relationship with them.

    Whatever you choose, respect your decision, truly understand your thoughts and feelings, and choose what best aligns with your needs.

    What is the current attitude of the two of them towards you, we have to analyze their thoughts clearly, and only by knowing ourselves and the other can we survive the battle.

    Both want to marry me.

    Headache. One was met when I was in college, and we broke up after two months of talking, and the other was after I went to work.

    Then you can choose who is more compatible with you according to your own personality, work and rest, work, hobbies, or who you prefer in your heart? Who cares a little more about you? In this regard, choose a better partner, and at the same time, follow your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The first one, of course, but the most important thing is which one you prefer.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Choose the first one, and those who have money must spend their ......

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, I'm just suggesting this, be realistic, choose the second one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, a woman has to think about the rest of her life, who can't get along with money, but if he cares, then it's a different story.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I feel like I'm the first to be a little more grounded. It's better to live a dull life!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I think the second! Money....

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You say what you want is long-lasting love! And long-term love is built on shared hobbies, values, and love!

    First of all, although your ex-boyfriend loves you very much, but you don't know each other well, and you always quarrel, it means that you have different values!

    Secondly, you say that you love your current boyfriend, then you should follow your feelings, it may be hard to choose the person you love, but at least you won't feel guilty about the person who loves you!

    Based on the above two points, you have a reason to give up on your ex-boyfriend!

    Let's talk about your current boyfriend, you know each other, you love each other, he is good to you, in fact, many conditions have been met! In fact, height is not a problem, those are floating clouds, as long as you don't care about yourself, in fact, no one really minds! Ask yourself, is it his person who loves him or his height, are you willing to give up his height for the sake of his person!?

    In fact, the answer is in your heart!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, do both of them really love you? What do I love about you? Otherwise, they will all be dumped. If you love one of them, choose that one ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's all loneliness that causes trouble!

    What a good age of 20 years old, since you went to a prestigious university, why not study better? I believe that there will be better choices in the future! Maybe I'm more old-fashioned, but what I know about falling in love in college and finally "growing old with my son" is not high.

    As far as you are concerned, the balance in your heart is no longer too right, and you will find some "excuses" for your "choice", which is human nature, but you must think about it calmly: Why "high school classmates also say how good he is"? Sometimes the "bystander" can see things that the person concerned does not see.

    Then again, it is not known what kind of person a person who "loves me even more than his parents" is. You are a smart person, since you want "long-term love", just endure the loneliness for a while! (You'll find your Prince Charming when you go to work!) )

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course it's the one who loves you love, love is not gratitude and guilt.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since you like your current boyfriend, make it clear to you from before, don't delay.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you spend your whole life with someone you don't love and don't understand, no matter how much he loves you, isn't it a tragedy?

    In your statement, you already know that your scales are tilted in favor of your current boyfriend, because of guilt you will hesitate, but it will be painful for everyone

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Be quiet and think about what you want, just follow your heart

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then you choose the current one, you can't be too greedy, if you are too greedy, your two boyfriends may leave you because of your inattentiveness, or choose the current one.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Choose the one you love the most, but the one you love the most.

    Gotta be the one who loves you the most!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Love is selfish.

    Hesitation only puts oneself in a state of confusion and vacillation.

    Know how to make trade-offs.

    Not just for yourself, but for the two boys.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Choose the one you love so you won't regret it!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your opinion.

    Do you like him or not.

    Follow your heart and hesitate again, two boys, you are hurt.

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