How to comfort a patient with advanced lung cancer?

The best thing to do is to be accompanied! I have experienced this painful and contradictory experience firsthand, watching my otherwise healthy father become thinner and more painful and unable to do anything about it! The patient found that there was not much change in the early stage of the disease, and as time slowly began to lose weight, the cancer cells devoured the patient's body!

The contradiction is not to tell the patient the true condition, to tell the patient, generally will not be able to bear the evil consumption, the spirit can not stand the blow, once the illness can not afford to be, the patient will leave this world in a few days, leaving his wife and children! It is inhumane not to tell because everyone should have the right to know, especially their own illness, and my final choice was to hide it in the early stage and tell my father in the later stage. From the discovery of lung cancer to the time I left our father, my father extended his life for three years and two months! No regrets.

As a family member of a terminal cancer patient, you should be able to say two things. My grandmother was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer in October. At that time, the doctor said that it would last for one to two months, so let's start preparing.

So all the children from other places went back to see each other for the last time. If you want to talk about the mood, it's actually okay, after all, when the age is up, even if it's gone, it's a joy and a loss. Everyone can accept this fact.

However, the good news is that the results of the examination have been relatively stable during this time. Now everyone's mentality is to hope that grandma can have a New Year.

As a family member, I really don't know how to comfort, the doctor said let's prepare for the future, I have a lot to say to him, I want to see him, no visa, thousands of miles away I don't know how to say, I was just trembling, my mind was blank. He went through three years of fighting cancer, and if it was broken, it was cut off. Chemotherapy, and finally all broken, transplant.

Coma, ICU for half a month. Discharged from the hospital, returned to China, half a year later, cancer cells spread, mutation, lung infection, surgery, coma, notify the family. He said that he couldn't let go, it was still us children, and I was afraid that he wouldn't be able to wait for his grandson to be born.

Since it can't be cured, I hope he will suffer less. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, who have worked hard all their lives and exhausted their bodies.

At the end of September 2019, my grandmother was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer that had spread, at that time