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Maybe the mother's personality is more impatient, and the mother who is angry and wants to live is more anxious, so she can only let her, don't quarrel with her, don't make her angry.
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I want to die, but I don't really want to die. Just listen to her and forget it.
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Little sister, I understand that you are already adults, too much personal freedom constraints will indeed bring us trouble, should be free age, to do some of the things we want to do, to go to some of the places we want to go is our true thoughts, you are not wrong.
For this problem, I think you can sit down with your mother and communicate well, let him know what you really think, he must also be worried about your personal safety from his own point of view, mutual understanding and more communication will definitely solve the problem.
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From your description, let me analyze the reason:
1. When the child grows up, the mother's thinking has not kept up, and she is still at the stage where you are a child, and the child is very worried about her safety. This falls under the umbrella of overprotection.
2. Your mom must be lonely. Your departure, or wanting to fly alone, caused her to be unaccompanied.
3. Your mother's desire to control is a personality issue. It's hard to correct for a while. It is recommended to read some books on Chinese studies, such as the books of Lao Tzu and Zhuangzi. Bearish on life.
2. Solve the problem of loneliness. Dad's company, learning to read a book as a distraction. Add some spiritual pursuits. Participate in some peer organizations and activities. Learn some books that look down on the world and learn to let go.
In fact, you should also sympathize with your mother, just like a little bird about to fly away, and her mother looks at her back with an inexplicable anxiety. Long live understanding.
Finally, I wish you happiness.
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The best thing to do is to put yourself in your mother's shoes and understand your mother. It's enough to calm your heart.
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If you are about to be angry with your mother, then it is caused by your mother's own problems, you should tell your mother to tell your mother to stop saying such angry things to you, and you won't worry.
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Don't be angry, say calmly if you have something, it's very hard for your mother to come back in October, he is not artificial, and she is not malicious, so you must not make your mother angry, and say calmly if you have something.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? You go out for a run, and your mother calls you back to have two ideas, one is afraid that you will run in the heat, and that he is unwilling to let you go out to parkour, so it's okay to spend more time with her, you don't want to be angry with your mother, your mother is all for your good, you can explain it to your mother.
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There is no problem that cannot be solved, and there is basically a generation gap between parents and children now, and there is a big difference between their thinking and children's thinking, so when we encounter problems and differences, we must take the right way to deal with them and resolve them.
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I was pissed off by your mother, so what should I do? Because what is your mother doing? He always twists your affairs, you can communicate with your mother, two people communicate together, have a good conversation, between mother and son is hairdressing, nothing is wrong, talk about it beautifully!
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Hello, I don't know where you are, now in the tense period of the epidemic, if you are in a high-risk area and a medium-risk area, I recommend going out less, going to a crowded place less, and protecting yourself when you need to go out, you can also dissipate your anger, let your father ask your mother why you are strict, and solve the misunderstanding between your mother and daughter.
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You are very similar to my experience, my mother also likes to control me, she feels that it is dangerous to be alone outside and can't do anything, she used to do the wrong thing during the rebellious period, now it seems that she will not agree as long as I say that I go out to work, she will listen to outsiders say something about me, in fact, this is not the case at all, I am lying when I speak, and she will not listen to my explanation, but this relationship still needs to be well communicated, you have to prove to her that you can live well alone.
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Will she reach menopause, you can communicate with her calmly to see why you are so worried about you, whether you suspect that you are dealing with the object, pity the parents of the world, and you can't complain too much about him, care too much about you, communicate well.
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I sometimes can't understand my parents, some of their habits make me very angry Sometimes, there is a lack of communication between us, I used to try to communicate with them, but the result is often, we will quarrel, sometimes I will envy those who have a good relationship with their parents and have nothing to say, but as I grow up, I find that parents and children do not necessarily have to fully integrate into each other's world, we have different living habits, maybe we may not be able to accept each other, but at this time, On the contrary, I think that understanding must be more effective in so-called communication.
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If you have a conflict with your mother, you shouldn't just get angry, it's useless to be angry, you should calmly communicate with your mother and say what you think. Enlist your mom's support and understanding for you.
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First of all, you have to make it clear how your mother is angry with you, what is wrong with your mother, you can talk to him well, and you should explain the benefits to him clearly.
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From your description, I can see that your mother still loves you very much, how can you feel angry with your mother? You should put yourself in your mother's shoes and feel your mother's love for you.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? Let's be embarrassed Dad, so don't be angry with him, and have a good mentality, a little bit.
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You said that you were about to be angry with your mother, how could it be? Your mother must be for your good, so she manages and educates, and you should understand your mother's painstaking efforts.
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There is only the song of mother in the world that writes the greatness of maternal love. It was your mother who raised you with hard work, no credit, and hard work. Even if your mother has gone too far, you should forgive your mother for not having this kind of thought.
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You can communicate with your mother, after all, your mother is also worried about us, don't worry, and understand her.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? You can go out for a walk, leave your mother for a while, and don't get serious with him.
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So, after all, it's your mother, it's an elder, no matter what happens, what does your mother say about you? You shouldn't really get angry, you should communicate well with your mother. to solve the problem.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? Why do you say that about your mom? Did your mom do something wrong? If you have an opinion, you can exchange it with your mother, don't make yourself angry.
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If you are about to be angry with your mother, you can think about it, what is the reason why you are so angry?
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Young man, cherish the time you spend with your mother, there will be no time in the future.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? I think that if there is something inconsistent between my daughter and her mother, it will be oops, and the anger will be pulled down, how can there be an overnight hatred and mother?
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It's okay to take a deep breath every time you breathe.
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Tell your dad that you can't go to the neighborhood committee again.
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I'm about to be by my mother, what should I do? Why are you angry? Isn't your mother cultured?
Unreasonable, or you don't understand the problem of mother, you should think about it is not easy for your mother to raise you, if he is of poor quality, you should reason with her well, don't be angry with your mother, because your mother is the greatest in the world, and no mother loves you anymore.
It's not difficult, true love is a matter of two people, not one party blindly paying, two people need to help each other, work together to think in one place, and work hard in one place, and at the same time want to be affectionate, always keep fresh, but also to manage the marriage with heart, from time to time to create romance and surprises, otherwise you will get tired of it.
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It's good that you listen to her on the surface, and you don't have to reason with her.
If it doesn't hurt you, you can treat it as if you don't see it, and if you maliciously slander you, you can sue him for violating privacy.
I feel that my father is the most handsome man in the world, and I must find someone like my father in the future, otherwise this life is too worthless.