There is a story about seeing the truth in adversity.

Remembrance - Seeing the Truth in Adversity - Earthquake Relief Stories - Perseverance'Love***(2008-05-15 22:15:04) Tags:

Perseverance Stretcher Xinyi True Love He Cuiqing Changsha ** Wenchuan Love Miscellaneous Talk Category: I follow my sex"Great motherly love, fatherly love"At around 9:40 that day, Song Xinyi, a three-year-old girl who was crushed under a collapsed house in Beichuan County, was finally rescued after fighting against death for more than 40 hours under the protection of her deceased parents. The PLA officers and soldiers immediately put the little girl on a stretcher and transported her to a place outside the city where the ambulance could drive.

At 10:15, the stretcher came to the third turn where the road was interrupted, and a group of people stood at the place where the road was interrupted, and the stretcher bearer who carried the little girl rushed forward at a rapid pace while shouting "get out of the way, get out of the way". People got out of the way, and only then did they see that there was Premier Wen who had come to inspect the disaster area in the crowd! Premier Wen came to Xiao Xinyi's side to offer condolences cordially, and due to the urgency of her condition, the stretcher did not stay too long and continued to move forward.

Two minutes later, Xiao Xinyi was carried into an ambulance from Luoyang **** and sent to the hospital for treatment. "Perseverance"On May 14, He Cuiqing, a first-year junior high school girl from Muyu Middle School in Qingchuan County, Sichuan Province, survived with the help of rescuers after being buried in the rubble for 50 hours. On May 12, a three-story dormitory building in Muyu Middle School collapsed, and more than 400 students lived on this building, except for 139 students who ran out of the dormitory in time, the rest were all buried.

By 5 p.m. on the 14th, a total of 201 students were found dead, and another 89 buried students were rescued, and He Cuiqing was the 89th rescued student. The sudden big ** made the Chinese nation arm of unity. Changsha citizens have responded to the call and enthusiastically donated blood to the injured in the disaster area, and provided help to the people in the disaster area with practical actions.

Changsha citizens lit lamps and prayed on the streets, donating money and blood to support the disaster area Netizens said that this is a disabled young man who donated all the money he begged for a day to support the earthquake relief.

Seeing this question, I thought of a saying: "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes", I have seen a ** of Li Xiaoyi before: "Love is to let him accompany you to see a doctor?"

I think what Li Xiaoyi said is particularly right: the attitude of the partner before the hospital bed is the real temperature of the relationship. **The two men in the treatment of the sick wife are completely different attitudes, the man with good economic conditions when his wife is sick is thinking about whether his wife's ability to work in the future will be affected, the other man does have a completely different attitude, saying that there is no money to borrow money to let his wife see a doctor, please ask the doctor to cure his wife, whether it is an unmarried or married woman, it is recommended to see this**, **Although it is short, but the shooting is really good!

An example of seeing the truth in adversity: the friendship of Guan Bao.

Guan Zhonghe and Uncle Bao were already good friends at a very young age.

Guan Zhong's family was relatively poor, so he partnered with Bao Shuya to do business. When he made money, Guan Zhong always took more, and Uncle Bao always took less. Someone said to Uncle Bao:

Uncle Bao smiled and said: "It's not like this, his family is relatively poor, and he has an old mother to support, if he doesn't take more, how can he support the old lady?" Besides, I volunteered to give him more.

Don't talk about it anymore! "Nothing else has to say.

Once, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya went to war together, and every time they attacked, Guan Zhong hid in the rear; Every time he retreated, he ran at the front. Everyone scolded Guan Zhong and said: "Guan Zhong is a person who is greedy for life and afraid of death!" ”

Uncle Bao immediately spoke for Guan Zhong: "You misunderstand Guan Zhong, he is not afraid of death, he has to keep his life to take care of the old mother!" After Guan Zhong heard it, he said: "It was my parents who gave birth to me, and the person who knows me best is Uncle Bao!" ”

Later, the king of Qi died, Gongzi Zhu became the king, Zhu eats, drinks and has fun every day and does not do anything, Bao Shuya has a premonition that there will be civil strife in Qi State, so he fled to Ju State with Gongzi Xiaobai, and Guan Zhong fled to Lu State with Gongzi Jiao.

Soon after, Wang Zhu of Qi was killed, and there was really civil strife in Qi State, Guan Zhong wanted to kill Xiaobai and let Jie Neng become the king smoothly, but unfortunately Guan Zhong shot the arrow off when he was plotting against Xiaobai, and it hit Xiaobai's belt, and Xiaobai did not die. Later, Bao Shuya and Xiaobai returned to Qi earlier than Guan Zhong and Jiao, and Xiaobai became the king of Qi.

After Xiaobai became the king, he decided to make Bao Shuya the prime minister, but Bao Shuya said to Xiaobai: "Guan Zhong is better than me in all aspects, he should be invited to be the prime minister!" Xiaobai heard it: "Guan Zhong wants to kill me, he is my enemy, you actually asked me to invite him to be the prime minister!" ”

Uncle Bao said: "You can't blame him, he did it to help his master!" Xiaobai listened to Uncle Bao's words and asked Guan Zhong to come back as the prime minister, and Guan Zhong really helped Xiaobai govern the Qi country very well.

Guan Zhong said: When I was poor, I used to do business with Uncle Bao, share the money, and take more for myself, Uncle Bao didn't think I was greedy for money, he knew that I was poor! I used to do things for Uncle Bao, and it turned out to be more difficult for him, Uncle Bao didn't think I was stupid, he knew that luck was good and bad.

I have been an official many times, and I have been dismissed by the monarch many times, Uncle Bao doesn't think I have no talent, he knows that I haven't met the opportunity.

I have fought many times and escaped many times, and Uncle Bao does not think I am cowardly, he knows that I have an old mother at home. Uncle Bao didn't think I didn't know how to be ashamed, he knew that I was not ashamed of the subtleties, but I was ashamed that my fame was not revealed to the world. It was my parents who gave birth to me, and it was Uncle Bao who knew me best!

Truth can be seen in tribulation, but truth does not have to be tested through tribulation.

OneSuffering is a spiritual practice and a test for oneself and others。There was a popular saying for a while, "What is more rare than icing on the cake is charcoal in the snow", regardless of whether this is true or wrong, I think that icing on the cake and charcoal in the snow are both rare, and there is no need to distinguish which one is more important. In fact, it is not easy to put the icing on the cake on the cake, thinking that when you are noble, some people are not jealous of the bad behind you, but are willing to make you more noble, which requires a certain mind, not everyone will not have hatred for excellence.

The same is true for sending charcoal in the snow, I remember that there is a scene in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" that is very impressive, it is Zhen Huan who was wronged and grounded, and Sister Zhimei visited her several times, this is a young friendship, and no power position and love can be compared. She has suffered hardships, and Sister Mei's true feelings are even deeper. Therefore, it is not unreasonable to "see the truth in adversity".

In fact, most people are ordinary friends who nod their heads, and they don't even have true feelings, and they need to be tested by hardship.

IITrue feelings can be felt, and tribulation is just an additional test。Whether a person is good or bad for you is reflected in all aspects of life, even if the heart is as hard as iron, it should be turned into a finger twist in the details of true feelings, how can you not know whether a person is black or white, good or bad? A person who truly loves you, the smile and tenderness in the eyes of those who look at you cannot be hidden.

I have such a friendship with her, as long as I look at her, she always smiles, her eyes look back at me intently, and even after the injection, she has to ride with me immediately, regardless of whether her arm hurts or not, of course it hurts, and then I also got an injection, and it hurt for several days. She is very afraid of injections, but for the sake of me, I am not afraid of anything. We have experienced wind and rain, but there are no hardships like in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", and the bits and pieces of daily life are enough to reflect this true feeling.

Sharing sweetness and suffering together is our common experience.

IIIIn times of trouble, you can not only see the true feelings of the other party, but also your true feelings。There is a pair of sisters, the younger sister encountered a major event but did not tell the elder sister, because she was afraid that her sister would worry and affect her sister, this is the true affection of the younger sister to the elder sister; My sister heard from the side, of course, she didn't pretend not to know, but directly tried her best to help, which was my sister's true affection for my sister.

Forever the Iron Triangle.

I believe that adversity sees true love, but true love never needs to be tested. "If you see or don't see me, I'll be there, not sad or happy. ”

There's an old saying that goes on all the timeI don't think it's unreasonable to see the truth in adversity, but it's not so absolute.

<> only know who will give you an umbrella when it rains; When you encounter difficulties, you will know who will be sincere to you. Some people will only add icing on the cake and will not give charcoal in the snow; Some people will only add fuel to the fire and will not be honest with each other.

I think that although we can't see the truth in affliction, we can see a person clearly. When you are in difficulty, others may not be able to help you get through it, because when you are in difficulty, it may not be easy for others, and you can try to help a little bit, which is usually the case. But we must not forget this intention, and we must also learn to understand these people who help us.

Because it is also human nature, after all, everyone can push the boat along the river, but it is difficult to share hardships.

<>Of course, each of us will have our own sadness behind it, and there will be unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own way to go, and they will have their own things to do. In life, although we have relatives who can give you love; In life, although you have friends who can help you, there are some things that you really have to bear by yourself, and what your relatives can give cannot be forever; What outsiders can give, it will not be permanent.

There are many things in a person's life that cannot be replaced by anyone, and we must learn to be strong, because some things will always belong to us.

<>Yes, when we are at a low point in life, we can clearly see the interests between people, and it can even be said that even family affection is not worth mentioning. All the feelings between people, only after experiencing wind and rain, do you know the deep love that will never be abandoned; After experiencing ups and downs, I understand that what remains unchanged is true feelings. I have gone through a certain road and experienced some things before I can really see the hearts of some people.

All in allWe should not pin our hopes on others at any time, because you will find that there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, that is, the sun and the human heart, and only oneself is the last word.

"The years know the pines and cypresses, and the adversity sees the truth. This sentence comes from the tenth chapter of "Drunken Awakening Stone", which means: The cold winter wax moon can see the pine and cypress evergreen, and only after suffering can you see your true friends. Personally, I think this sentence is too absolute.

True feelings don't have to be seen in tribulation.

According to the meaning of the phrase "seeing truth in adversity", the person who must stand up to help you when you encounter difficulties is a true friend, so people who do not encounter difficulties will not have true friends? If you encounter a very difficult thing and your friend is really limited and can't help you, then isn't he your true friend? Is it true that only capable and very powerful big people are qualified to be other people's "true friends"?

True friends should understand each other, trust each other, exchange sincerity for sincerity, rejoice for your pleasure, and suffer for your pain. In ordinary days, I can take you to be positive, and I will think of you when I have any good opportunity.

If you are unfortunate enough to encounter hardship, the true affection can be reflected in his attitude towards you, the words he says to you, whether he cares about you all the time, and it is not the duty of sincere friends to help each other. Think about it from another perspective, if your friend is suffering from cancer, but he can be cured by a top doctor abroad, and he has no parents and relatives, will you lose all your wealth and even go into debt for him?

The phrase "seeing the truth in adversity" is used to thank those who help oneself, not to condemn those who do not help oneself.

However, it is undeniable that the true feelings encountered in times of distress are worthy of reciprocation and remembrance.

When I was a child, I didn't think those neighbors were close to my family, or even very distant, and I thought they were dispensable, until my grandmother passed away last year, which changed my opinion. When my grandmother died, a shed needed to be built in the yard, and many neighbors took the initiative to help, and the coffin lid was particularly heavy, and many men from my uncle's generation came to the family to help cover the coffin. There is also a next-door neighbor's aunt, she knows a lot, and has been telling my father and my aunt at my grandmother's house about some things to pay attention to, taboos, etc., and in the end these neighbors don't ask for any payI will always remember this feeling.

In general, "seeing the truth in adversity" makes sense, but it is not comprehensive. For those friends who have helped us, we should be grateful and find opportunities to repay them; For those friends who didn't help us, they don't need to force it, hold grudges, maybe they can't do anything about it.