For a boy with a stupid mouth and an introverted personality, how to chase a girl???

Impress her with your sincerity.

The pursuit of girls, not to see how sweet your mouth is, the so-called sweet words are only temporary, real life, not by the sweet words of every day, but should be a real, so, really understand your good girl, must be moved by your sincerity, my boyfriend is also stupid, but he is really good to me, and when he proposed to me, he gave me a Levis ring, such a gift is rare.

Introverted men should then pursue girls, and learning all three methods is equally successful.

Boys are stupid and can't speak, and the methods of chasing girls are: exposing their sense of need too much, maintaining a certain sense of mystery, appropriately exposing their vulnerable side, not saying things that shouldn't be said, inviting girls to participate in some activities, etc.

1. Don't expose your sense of need too much

Don't be in a hurry to express your feelings for her, for example, you can change the first time you see you and like you very much to the first time you see you and think you are very cute, different from other girls. Replace I want to see you with I know, there are a lot of delicious snacks in one place, do you want to check in together? Recently, a new movie was released, I bought 2 tickets, and I was going to watch it with a buddy, but he had something to do temporarily, so he didn't go, and there was still a ticket, are you going?

2. Maintain a certain sense of mystery

If you don't dismantle Luna, you have to finish all your situations as soon as you come up, leaving a certain amount of suspense for the other party. Don't show all the good in you at once. Make yourself like a delicate treasure box arranged in layers, and there are constant surprises.

Make yourself like a treasure, and the more you dig, the more curious you become. The more I get along with you, the more I look forward to it.

3. Expose the vulnerable side appropriately

For example, I was misunderstood by the leader, I was depressed, I caught a cold, I felt uncomfortable, I had a little conflict with my parents, I was in a bad mood, I encountered something unlucky, etc., so as to stimulate the sympathy and concern of the other party. When you show your vulnerable side to each other, your hearts will slowly get closer.

4. Chat taboos

For those who have just met, do not directly ask the girl about her love experience, income, real estate, savings and other more private questions as soon as you go up. Don't check the hukou-style chat, ask too much, girls will be very disgusted, thinking that you have a bubble in your brain, and you don't even understand the basic rules of interpersonal communication, so you will be directly passed.

5. Invite girls to some activities

For example, you can go to play badminton, climb mountains and other outdoor sports together, or go to the movies together, watch dramas and play games, etc. You may not need to say too much in the course of these activities, but you can also have a good interaction with each other, have fun, and have the opportunity to get to know her better, which is also okay.

First, avoid mistakes in chatting

Many stupid boys just met girls and didn't establish a sense of familiarity, so they wanted to build attraction, and later because they didn't know how to chat, they were rejected by girls and even left out in the cold.

When we meet a girl for the first time, what we should do when chatting is to try our best to avoid mistakes, rather than expecting to attract and arouse the girl's interest through unskilled chatting. This is a point that many people tend to overlook. After all, the chat can only go on if the girl doesn't hate you.

Second, how stupid boys avoid making mistakes when chatting with girls

1.Don't ask girls questions in a row.

Many boys can't help but ask some questions when they add a girl's friend for the first time, hoping to get to know the girl quickly. Although it can't be said that asking questions is wrong, it leads to asking questions all the time, and finally gives the girl a feeling of being interrogated, because she is stupid and has no certain skills.

You know, this question itself is relatively monotonous and boring, it is difficult to arouse the emotions of girls, it makes people feel very boring, and it is difficult to continue chatting.

2.Don't show value too early or too much.

In front of the girl we like, we will inevitably have the urge to express ourselves, which is normal. However, if we don't grasp the balance well, without certain skills, too much or too early to show the girls their ** value, it will only be considered by the girls to show off.

So, as a stupid boy, don't show your worth too much or too early.

Third, what should a stupid boy and a girl talk about?

Chatting is always a stumbling block for stupid boys chasing girls. In fact, chatting, like love, needs to be maintained by both parties. So, if you rely only on dumbness, you are likely to turn the chat into a one-man show, like a speech, without substantive interaction.

Not only is it difficult to give the girl an emotional experience, but it also makes the whole chat process boring.

So, since we're stupid, since we can't please girls with sweet words, we can only make girls interested in you and chat with you. After all, only when girls are interested in you, they will be interested in your chat, and there will be interaction in chatting, so that such chats will not be annoying to girls.

Fourth, get girls interested in you

When you have a certain level of familiarity with girls, the key to making girls interested is attraction.

Money and looks are the most basic attraction for men, but not everyone is rich and handsome. Therefore, as a stupid boy, all we can do is: on our own terms, do our best to make the girl interested!

A stupid guy can give a girl one more surprise, such as sending a flower to a girl every day, or cooking a meal, which can make the girl like you.

Then you should make yourself more excellent, first of all, let the girl see your charm, and then use some gentle means to make the girl happy, which will make the girl like you.

You just have to be genuine. Don't lie, usually give him some help in some details, so that he can feel that you are understanding.

Summary. Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer you for you: How can a boy chase a girl if he can't talk with a stupid mouth? First of all, use practical actions to influence girls, and secondly, listen to girls more, and be self-motivated.

Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer you for you: how can a boy chase a girl and tell a child if he can't speak? First of all, use the actual attack to influence the girls, and secondly, listen to the girls more, and have a good reputation and cultivate the heart.

Boys who can't speak, boys with stupid mouths, when chatting with girls, you must listen to girls more, so that you won't be afraid to say the wrong thing to feast Wu Xiang. In this process, you listen to what the female orange calls for life, which will allow you to have a certain understanding of the girl. There will also be no cold field.

But in the process of listening to girls, you also have to have a certain expression, and you can't always say nothing, so that girls feel bored and don't want to tell you about Hail Yuansui. You can make some actions or some sentences to affirm the girl in the process of teasing, so that the girl will listen to it, and she will want to talk to you and continue to talk. Only if the girl is willing to speak, you will have a chance to listen to her.

The girl is in a bad mood, there is no pure world to have Sun Liang to eat, you can make some yourself and give it to the girl. This not only reflects your true heart, but also the girl will be slowly moved. Because of these practical actions, you can't fake it, only if you are sincere, you are willing to do it, start from small things, I believe that girls will definitely be moved by you.

Therefore, when you can't speak loose words, you can use your practical actions and self-motivation to make girls feel that you are a reliable person. How do you show your self-motivation? It is to have a plan in work and life, know how to work hard, and get everything you want through your own laughter and hard work.