My boyfriend is like this with his first love, should I be silent or break up

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think your boyfriend is ignoring your feelings.

    Be careful, they look like this. That woman is so open, your boyfriend is like this, and his home is close. What is going on behind their backs, you don't know at all.

    Your boyfriend may be pedaling two boats.

    Hey, let's not talk about the bad ones.

    But ah, look at what you say.

    If it were me, I would definitely prepare myself.

    I definitely can't stand it, my boyfriend is talking so happily and ambiguously with a woman in front of me. It's an ex-girlfriend, not to mention.

    I'd rather have the jade shattered than the whole one! I would propose to break up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This situation is most likely because your boyfriend doesn't really love you. You have to think about it, this kind of man is not worth your effort. If you really love him, very deeply, then talk to him well, if he doesn't change, then leave him, otherwise you will be the one who will hurt the most in the end.

    If you just like him and haven't reached deep love yet, then don't hesitate to leave him ......There are many good men in the world, don't look for someone who hurts yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Frankly speaking, if you continue to be with him, then you are too stupid, like this kind of man, what do you want him to do, he will not understand you, never consider your feelings, he is too much, you are too stupid, break up quickly, find someone who loves you, stop being with him and let yourself get hurt, I wish you to find your true happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've written a lot, but it's one thing from the beginning, and I would like to say in my personal opinion that I'm a person who loves to save face. Maybe your boyfriend is too. He just wants to show in front of you.,How beautiful his former girlfriend is.,It's just a matter of face.。。

    A lot of men will be like this, I want to break up, it's true, it's not necessary. You'd better talk to him about your thoughts. I think he must love you very much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm sorry to tell you that you are not suitable for him or he is not suitable for you, and at this point, if you don't break up in time, you are the only one who regrets it. If you weren't the woman he loved, he wouldn't be because of you. You can hear your boyfriend's feelings for you...

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First, she wants to squeeze you out, and if you run away in a bad mood, there will be no fun. Second, they are disconnected, so you don't need to make a two-choice question first, and you can lose your temper for the time being to see if he cares about you. Third, be mentally prepared, no one knows what will happen tomorrow, take precautions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The one on the first floor is a bit extreme, right? Are you breaking up people, can people get along with you? You can see from the meal that you are a man.

    Friends don't see this woman very often, but then again, your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend sees your boyfriend present.

    I'm very happy, I'm uncomfortable, I want to be angry with you, and your boyfriend can't even see this, and he still plays with her, maybe.

    It's normal to show off his charm to her face and a little like his friends, and it's normal and in his friends.

    You're his girlfriend, but if you don't like it, tell your boyfriend if he promises you everything.

    It's all right, if he is sloppy, if you like him, you can't see him and don't be upset, and you don't have to follow these occasions in the future.

    If you are really blocked, then you should think about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To put it bluntly, he has no feelings for you and doesn't pay attention to you. Break up, are all the good women in the world stuck in cow dung? Dizzy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My advice is, if you break up with him, propose to break up first, see how he reacts, and if he doesn't care, then what else is such a person going to do?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You men don't understand you and value your feelings. Are you still tired? Do you think what you say will work for your boyfriend? He doesn't pay any attention to you. See for yourself!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Men are like this, they just have their hearts with you, and people are not with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't know how many times to toast her?

    Wouldn't she be happy if you just split it like that?

    You can also politely greet her, say a few kind words, and see if she is embarrassed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Many people may find that the other party has always had an ex in their minds during their relationship experience, and things like this are also things that many people feel incomprehensible and unacceptable. After all, for everyone, they hope that the other party has only one in their hearts, so that they can treat each other wholeheartedly. But I didn't expect that many people, after experiencing a relatively long-term relationship, it is likely that they will also have a deeper memory of another person in their hearts.

    There has always been an ex in mindSo for a long time, they can't let them forget about this person, so the existence of a white moonlight like this may also be a very unfair thing for the current one. For example, some girls will send their boyfriends to think about another girl in their hearts, so many girls will try their best to find some other halves who do not have a long relationship history when choosing a mate, otherwise it is very likely that they will not forget the previous one for a long time. Therefore, situations like this also make many girls feel very noteworthy, for example, some boys have a relatively long relationship history before falling in love with themselves, it is likely to cause a certain degree of damage to the impact in the future.

    Leave a very strong impressionFor example, some boys who have been talking to their ex for a long time will leave a very deep impression in their hearts, and in many cases they will unconsciously think of their ex or unconsciously compare their ex with themselves in all aspects. A situation like this also makes many girls feel very unhappy, after all, the other party always weighs some pros and cons, and even compares some advantages and disadvantages. It's also unfair for some girls, after all, for all girls, they each have their own advantages, as well as their own advantages and shining points, and there is no need to compare themselves with another person.

    So in this case, many girls are also reluctant to accept that the other party has been living in their hearts with some other girls, and situations like this also make many girls feel very unfair. But some guys may have really come out of the last relationship completely, and they don't have any other thoughts。In a situation like this, you should also try to reconcile with your boyfriend, after all, their previous relationship is also in the past, and the relationship between the two people after that is managed well is something that should be taken seriously.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes. Although the two of them have been in love for a long time, if they are separated, they are separated, and the two of them have nothing to do with each other, so they can let go completely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think he necessarily let go, no matter who broke up with his first love, the first love will be a cinnabar mole in his heart. Even if you are with someone else in the back, no one can replace the cinnabar mole in your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Put it in your heart, it is difficult to let go, after all, the road we have walked together, living together for so long, there are happy, happy, and sad, I am afraid to think about it, and I can't forget it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After breaking up, it doesn't mean that he really lets go, after all, it is his first love, and he will have some regrets in his heart, but he chose to break up with his first love, and he should no longer have expectations for this relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Mu Xiaoyi: Since he has someone in his heart who can't let go, then you can let it go.

    First love is difficult for many people to let go, and sometimes what we may like is not that person, but the feeling at the time.

    And the feeling of first love cannot be replaced by any later person.

    So the order of appearance between people is really important.

    Your boyfriend broke up with you because he couldn't let go of his first love, which means that the position of his first love in his heart is much more important than yours.

    A person who doesn't treat you as an important person, then why should you be obsessed with him anymore, give up on him, such a person is not worth your effort.

    Another is, he said that you can be friends, but are you willing to be friends?

    I don't think you want to be friends with him if you like him very much, after all, you like how to be friends willingly.

    In the end, I hope you can find a boyfriend who treats you as the most important person, and such a person is worth your effort.

    It's worth it when there's a response.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello landlord, since the other party has already said so, why are you still begging? Why bother yourself and disturb others. Maybe he just wanted to play with you, as his friend said, but he used some little tricks on you.

    Some gentle tactics are used, but it's possible that your first love will make you want more. In fact, if you find another boyfriend, it is estimated that if your boyfriend is also very warm to you, you will also like the new boyfriend.

    And now that he has a girlfriend, if you disturb his life like this, he will definitely be very annoyed with you, and it will be impossible for you to get together. And judging from the current situation, it is definitely impossible for you, so I suggest you give up. Completely forget about him and find a new boyfriend.

    It's not that without him, you can't find the warmth of being loved.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I broke up with my boyfriend, it's your first love, you like him very much, I think you should redeem it, a beautiful relationship is the hardest thing in life, don't let go if you like it, save your feelings!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You are still young, there is a saying that "you don't understand love when you first fall in love", and your current dedication and experience are already in the past. Whether you have failed others or others have failed you, you must face it, and you must decisively cut off the past. There is no point in discussing whether it is your own fault, and it is already a fact that others have been hurt.

    So it is necessary to look forward. Take everything in the past as your own wealth, and be more rational in your future interactions. At the same time, focus on work and study.

    You must know that when you earn 10,000 yuan and 100,000 yuan, the boyfriend you meet is different, and you will have a deep understanding of this truth in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think your boyfriend has said so desperately, then you don't bother him anymore, and he has a new girlfriend, you should be strong and get out of this relationship, instead of being stuck in this pain all the time, who can't live without anyone? You should also live a better life, let him regret it, and stop being depressed like this.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Breaking up with your boyfriend also belongs to your first love, and then you really like him, then you can try to work hard for this situation. It is recommended to calm down for a while and then find a chance to talk. Because only your own efforts will have results, but no matter what, you must learn to look at it correctly.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Breaking up with your boyfriend also belongs to your first love, and you really love him. Then you should put this situation in perspective. To be clear, two people broke up because they were not suitable.

    If it is settled, it will also be harmful to each other. So it is recommended that you also learn to let go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Oh my God, why do you want to give me a mother-fetal solo for twenty years to push this kind of problem. I think, since you broke up, you have to face life well, you will only become more and more decadent like this, and he is not the only man in the world. In short, find something else to distract yourself, don't always think about how good he is, think about his shortcomings.

    In my experience, I can only tell you so much, good luck!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since he already has a girlfriend, and has clearly told you that he doesn't like you, and he doesn't care about being with you, then you should let go, in fact, he will find a more suitable person for you when you leave, for a person who doesn't love himself, you don't need to invest in it, there are many people in this world who are suitable for you, and you will still meet.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You must like your boyfriend very much, but the breakup of the two of you may be due to a big change in the relationship between the two of you, or a big crisis in your relationship, so you will break up directly, but your boyfriend also belongs to your first love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you like your boyfriend very much, it is also a particularly painful thing for the two of you to break up, and since the two of you have broken up now, then start your life again, stop thinking about anything you had before, and start a new life of your own.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're so undignified, and now that he doesn't love you anymore and left you, and has a new girlfriend, you really shouldn't bother him anymore. Even if the pain is bearable, you should bear it yourself, slowly put it down, start your own new life, and you will have someone to love and someone to hurt.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I didn't cherish it when I liked you, and now that people have someone they love, if you bother him again, it will make others think you are annoying, and the kind of entanglement will only hate you more.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Breaking up with your boyfriend also belongs to your first love. And you can't do without him, and for this situation, it can only be said that your boyfriend has made up his mind. Therefore, it is recommended that you calm down for a while and go out for a while.

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