If a boy makes a girl pregnant and then doesn t want it, and dumps the girl, then what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think this guy is a bit lacking in morality. After getting someone pregnant, you want to abandon the other person. Such a person is not worthy of being entrusted with a lifetime.

    As a man, you should be responsible. Take responsibilityEven if you can't be together, let each other know that you are a dignified man, a person worthy of the trust of others for life. And not a lewd and despicable villain!.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you have to go to the police station to report the case, because you are indeed pregnant, this is the police station will definitely call the shots for you, after the matter is over, if you plan to break up, you can ask the man to give you financial compensation, and then go to the hospital for doll surgery, this is the best ending, because he has chosen to abandon you and the child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    According to what you said, when a boy and his girlfriend fall in love, let the girl get pregnant, let the girl abort the child, and then dump the girl, in fact, in this case, both boys and girls are responsible, first of all, this boy is an irresponsible person, since you can't give girls happiness, don't do such scumbags, in addition, as a girl, first of all, you must know how to self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement, don't be easy about men's rhetoric before marriage, otherwise it is yourself who will be hurt, so since the boy dumps the girl, Such a scumbag is not worth nostalgia, you should cheer up, eat a trench and grow wise, make yourself stronger, and believe that you will be able to reap true happiness in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although this situation is not illegal, boys always have moral problems. Therefore, as a boy, you should actively cooperate with the girl to deal with the aftermath, the best policy is to let the girl slip the birth, and the boy will give the girl a certain amount of compensation. If the girl does not agree to the miscarriage, the responsible boy should also bear his own responsibility, in addition to the cost of the girl's child, he should also regularly pay the child's living expenses.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Answer: Since you can't get along, you can do what you should do! As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet. There is some truth to this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should have been a scumbag, an irresponsible man. At this time, you must not give birth to a child, otherwise you will be a single mother. It is better to discuss with the family and get rid of the child.

    The feeling is that women should still keep their eyes open and not trust men easily. Otherwise, I will regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First: Go to a regular hospital for a pregnancy test and get a pregnancy test reportSecond: After obtaining the pregnancy test report, notify his relatives and friends immediately.

    When encountering things, you should be calm, wait and see what happens, and take it one step at a time. Let the other person know that you are a girl who is not easy to mess with. Fifth:

    Don't threaten a boy with your child, but impress him with your true feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, look what this girl thinks, if she wants to marry him, let them marry. If you don't want to get married, let the man pay the woman some money, and that's it. Anyway, you can't easily spare this boy and make him pay some price for this, otherwise he won't be able to deceive others outside.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can only beat the child, otherwise you will be born without a father, and you will have to grow up in an environment where your parents tear you up, which is too unfair to the child. Girls themselves should also love themselves, don't hurt themselves, and don't give others the opportunity to hurt themselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If there really is such an irresponsible boy in reality, who is encountered by any girl, he must leave that kind of person as soon as possible. Even if girls don't force themselves to be with that kind of boy, they won't be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Only a scumbag can do such a thing Go to a regular hospital and beat the child out Just as you buy a lesson In the future love, you must protect yourself with self-respect and self-love so as not to be hurt again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If such a man doesn't want it, even if he is ruthless, she should shake up again, beat the child out, get back up, forget the past, and start a new life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No matter which method you use, it will be a harm to yourself, and you can't afford to leave your children behind, so it's best to discuss this matter with your family and let them give you some advice!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on how old he is, if he is an adult, he will go to court to sue him, or privately. Minors go directly to their parents, and it is better for girls not to have an abortion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then, when the court summons them, they will pay the girl's nutrition fee later, and they will also have to pay the child maintenance obligation when they supervise the child later.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Knock it out, how simple it is, it's better not to give birth, it will hurt the child, and this life will be ruined.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your description alone is generally regarded as a moral issue, and it is recommended to resolve it through negotiation.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, ask him why he buried the liquid, and then put himself in his shoes and think about it, if there is really no way, then beat it. And if you understand him, you'll be with him. But if the male trainee is a person who dares to do things and doesn't dare to make trouble, then there is no need.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Such a man has no sense of responsibility, and of course he will not continue to be with him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello, if you can't let go, you can continue to be together, he will also let other girls get pregnant, if one day he also makes you pregnant, the price can be borne by yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your boyfriend is pregnant with another girl, and he can't let it go, which proves that he has no relationship with you, and you still love him, so you can bear to cut your love! Break up and find a soulmate.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He did that, and you still can't let it go? What should I do? It's all girls, he wants to do this to you, what should you do? What is a scumbag? This is the scumbag. Stay away from him! Otherwise, you will be the victim!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let's break up! Better a finger off than always aching!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Raising a child is not as simple as we think, and the expenses are huge.

    Therefore, in this case, the issue of economic capacity should be taken into account, but also whether the conditions are allowable.

    So, don't break up just because of this issue.

    It should be analysed in the context of the whole situation.

    If it is true love, it is also responsible for the child if the conditions allow it in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you are an accident and you usually do a good job of safety, then judge whether he is worth it according to his actual situation, after all, your own children can be killed, and so can you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Come and tell you as an old man, if you don't have the ability, you can't take measures. Irresponsible. In general, the situation is divided, that is, it is an accident such as a subset that is unqualified, and he has no right to say such things in this tone, he should put the facts out and let you choose whether to have this child, if so, he will smash the pot and sell iron to go to the coal kiln, and he will redouble his efforts to make the child better.

    Instead of just saying do it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Usually we break up because we are just full of hope and joy for our first child, and it hurts a lot physically to the girl.

    If there are no special difficulties, they are generally born, and if their ability is insufficient, the parents of both parties will definitely be willing to help.

    But if both parties are not ready to have children, it is an accident, then it is also an option, but the woman should pay attention to rest.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Should! It was his child, and he could beat it mercilessly. Despite this, you also have to look at his identity, combine it with reality, and analyze the reasons.

    If it's not worth being with him, break up; If it's worth it, this time it's just because of some objective reasons or unexpected external factors, then let's be together! I wish you all happiness forever!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    And then he said that when he was pregnant? What do you do? Divide it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Break up directly, what else do you want.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Is it a boyfriend or a marriage partner? Do you think he's someone you deserve to trust with your life? What kind of attitude and what kind of way did he make you beat the child and say that he was incapable?

    Guilt? Apologetic or perfunctory? First of all, this matter will definitely hurt you a lot, but it is still a bit inappropriate to decide whether to break up based on this matter alone, I hope the landlord will analyze it in combination with your past experience, what kind of mentality he said this, if it is just perfunctory, such feelings will only cause harm to you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    First, answer from the moral level.

    From a moral level: it is only natural for the man to pay for the abortion.

    2. Answer from the legal level.

    1. Who should bear the expenses arising from the abortion of unmarried pregnancy?

    Who bears the costs of miscarriage in an unmarried pregnancy? There are no clear provisions in China's marriage law and the general principles of civil law. In practice, some local courts consider from the perspective of tort, holding that the man and the woman having sexual relations without marriage are a kind of wrongdoing, but considering that the sexual relations occur voluntarily between the parties, the woman herself also bears part of the responsibility.

    There are also some courts that consider such issues to be ethical and tend not to entertain such cases. In other cases, the expenses incurred by the woman's miscarriage are treated as joint debts of both parties, and the husband and woman are jointly convicted.

    If the other party is not at fault, the court will not support the man's claim for compensation against the woman, but the expenses incurred by the miscarriage can be borne by both parties.

    2. If the woman is pregnant, it is caused by the man's fault, such as seduction, coercion, etc. The man will be held accountable a little more.

    3. In summary:

    1. It is recommended that the two parties negotiate and settle the abortion costs at the moral level, hoping that the man will be affectionate and righteous, can see the harm suffered by the woman, and compensate the harm to the woman through money.

    2. If the man is ruthless and unjustly refuses to pay, he can sue, even if the man is not at fault, the law stipulates that the man bears half of the cost of the abortion.

    Fourth, it can be seen that for cohabitation, it is the woman who is vulnerable. Especially in miscarriage, it is unavoidable that the woman's body will be damaged. Therefore, I still advise all female friends to be self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant and self-reliant, and cautiously enter a relationship, otherwise even if they are hurt and have no legal protection, they can only end up physically and mentally exhausted.

    By the way, popular science: Can the man claim compensation for physical damage caused by miscarriage after cohabitation? ? In the Q&A on the Handling and Analysis of Civil Trial Practices Involving Marriage Cases by the First Civil Division of the Supreme People's Court, the court asks whether the court should support the woman's request for compensation from the husband on the grounds that multiple pregnancies** and other reasons affect her body during cohabitation?

    Answer: The above circumstances are the consequences of cohabitation, and there is no legal marriage as the premise, so the above request has no legal basis and the people's court will not support it. The consequences of the physical injury caused by the court will not be supported by the court because there is no legal marriage.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A boy is irresponsible for getting a girl pregnant, can he sue him? Unless you are an underage woman, if you are an underage woman, there is no such thing.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First of all, if you want to sue, this is also very troublesome, and there will be a certain amount of prosecution fees, and you can't afford to wait for this process and time.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Many young people in the relationship stage start living together before they get married. This kind of cohabitation during the relationship is not actually legal, but during the relationship, the long-term cohabitation leads to the woman's pregnancy, and the man is not willing to take responsibility. So, can you sue a man if you are in love and pregnant?

    Cohabitation during a relationship is not protected by law. However, it is against social morality that the man is unwilling to marry the woman and assume his due responsibilities when the woman becomes pregnant. The woman can sue the man.

    Although Chinese law does not clearly stipulate what kind of legal responsibility will be borne for such an act, it is an act of the woman's rights. The court will impose the man's responsibilities on the woman and the child.

    If the woman is pregnant when she is in love, the man is not responsible, in fact, this is a subjective misunderstanding error on the issue of marriage. Not only is it contempt for marriage, but it is also not enough to bear the consequences for the woman and the children, which is an extremely irresponsible performance. It can also cause serious psychological and spiritual damage to the woman.

    This kind of deception during the relationship is to bear the responsibility of ** power.

    This kind of case is relatively common in real life. Through such cases, it is not difficult to see that the marriage law is based on ensuring the interests of both men and women, and also provides a basic obligation to protect the task of raising the next generation. Therefore, unmarried women should strictly protect their legitimate rights and interests.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

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