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Anonymous users2024-02-06In life, work and study, everyone is most familiar with composition, which is a narrative method that expresses the meaning of a theme through words through people's ideological consideration and language organization. So how is a general essay written? The following is a 600-word essay on the topic of doting that I have carefully arranged, for reference only, you are welcome to read it.
I once heard a news story about a freshman who had trouble sleeping because there was no air conditioning in his dormitory. Two days after insomnia, he committed suicide by jumping off a building. In fact, his dormitory facilities are quite complete, with a private bathroom, a small booklet table for each person, bookshelves, and ceiling fans.
However, due to the doting of his elders, he is weak-willed.
Therefore, doting will not make people grow, and people who are cultivated with doting will not face life maturely, be selfish, and arrogant. Once you face the wind and waves, you will only be intimidated by it. Parents spoil and pamper their children, satisfying their wayward demands, and they will grow up to degenerate and become weak-willed and selfish people.
Therefore, parental love should not be blind.
Balzac has such a story. The flour merchant Gao was very fond of his daughter. He used most of his fortune as a dowry, so that they entered the state tour high society and lived a luxurious life like a noblewoman.
In order to make his daughter happy, he paid off the debts of the woman's lover and helped her commit adultery. The daughters who could marry ruthlessly abandoned their father after squeezing him out of his father's last bit of pension. From this we know:
Most of the children who are spoiled are selfish and heartless.
Gongshu Duan is the second son of Zheng Wugong. His mother disliked her eldest son, Ji Ningsheng, because of dystocia, and doted on her second son, Gongshu Duan. She repeatedly asked Wugong Gongshu Duan to be the crown prince, but was refused.
Later, Ji Ningsheng ascended the throne as Zheng Zhuanggong, and he gave the title of Jing to Gongshu Duan at the request of his mother. Gongshu Duan began to wantonly expand his private power, Zheng Zhuanggong did not interfere, and Gongshu Duan became even more unscrupulous. A few years later, Zheng Zhuang Gong and Gongshu Duan went to war, and Zheng Zhuang Gong defeated Gongshu Duan in just one battle, forcing him to commit suicide.
If it weren't for his mother's pampering of Uncle Duan, who made him arrogant, how could it lead to the tragedy of fratricidal brothers?
Unwarranted spoiling can only create mediocre or useless people, because they are used to taking, getting used to getting, getting used to depending on others, and as a result, they are destined to become parasites of society, so the consequences of coddling are sad. "Drip your own sweat and eat your own food. Do your own things, rely on people, rely on heaven and rely on ancestors, you are not a hero.
Tao Xingzhi's words need to be remembered in order to better base ourselves on society.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Everyone longs for love, and love is a noble state.
The distinction between love and doting, I think, should be the difference between reason and blindness. In our lifetime, we may receive countless loves, and love can come from all sides. In the same way, we will give our love unreservedly to the people we love, and love knows no bounds.
Love will sublimate people's thoughts, and love can melt frozen hearts. Love also awakens and enlightens the formation of consciousness, and it will play an invisible role ...
Doting is formed invisibly, and now many parents have converted love into doting, since the end of the 70s of the last century, there have been only children in China, especially young people born in the 80s. They are all children who have grown up in privileged environments. Now the young people of the post-80s are about to enter their 30s, many of them have already married and have their own children, and most of them are in love and married after the 80s, and they have purchased their own comfort nests with the support of their parents.
Parents would rather suffer themselves, take on debts and borrow to create happiness for their children, and parents pour all their efforts into their children. However, some young people born in the 80s think that it is appropriate and natural to ask for it from their parents. Because they have become accustomed to being the hegemon.
The title and aura of the only child have been hanging over them, and the superiority and doting of family conditions have been exchanged for being withdrawn, domineering, self-righteous, with no one in their eyes, only paying attention to personality, etc.
Now that some of their children are born after the 80s, the superior family conditions of another generation have given their grandparents not care and support. Not to mention serving the old people in the family, the old people only have the share of slavery. The old man became a nanny and handyman with a salary.
The old man in the family has become a grandson...
Don't blame the daughters-in-law for thinking about it, because they are also only children, and they are used to being domineering at home like their sons, and they are used to talking about everything, and when they are in their parents' house, they come to reach out for food and open their mouths. They are all served, spoiled, and accustomed to by their parents. It became a habit to see no one.
After getting married, they are required to take care of the housework, take care of the children, husband and support father-in-law, is it possible for the mother-in-law?
It's really impossible, it's completely impossible! It is the sorrow caused by doting, it is doting that plants the poisonous seeds of doting, doting turns part of human nature into distortion and greed, selfishness... Dodging is pure poison.
How to educate the next generation well, we should start from reason. Both social and family influences education is very important.
If you want your children to not be spoiled in the future, try to train them to be independent and self-reliant from now on, and don't be their accessories and dependent crutches. You need to liberate yourself. Children should be allowed to experience failures and setbacks in practice, and parents are always parents who cannot replace and take care of their children's lives.
In order for children to learn to integrate into society, children should be taught to respect society and others first.
Society is multi-membered, and the purpose of raising children should be clear as parents. Your goal is to raise your child to be a useful person rather than a waste. What kind of fertile soil and seeds will grow what kind of seedlings. What you plant today is what you will harvest yourself in the future.
Dodging is the enemy of life, it is poison...
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