How easy is it to destroy a parent?

It is very easy to destroy a parent, because children are the weakness of parents throughout their lives.

When I was a freshman in high school, my father was diagnosed with lung cancer.

In the late period, since then, my grandmother, who lives in the countryside, has become a regular visitor to my house. At that time, my grandmother was over 70 years old, and her body was thin, only more than 70 pounds. Because her son was sick and needed a lot of money, she couldn't take care of her old body, so she went to work in the field to earn money for others, just to be able to subsidize her son's family.

Because of my father.

My mother needs to go to Beijing every six months to buy painkillers. Therefore, every half a month of work, my grandmother would take a shuttle bus to the city, buy vegetables and cook for her son, and leave another one or two hundred when she left, leaving only the fare to go back. After going back, she continued to work for a while, and then took a shuttle bus to the city, bought vegetables and cooked for her son, and left another one or two hundred when she left, leaving only ...... of the fare to go backIn this way, during the three years of my father's illness, my grandmother went back and forth without stopping.

Mother once wanted grandma not to give money every time she came, after all, it is not easy for the elderly to live, and this money is indeed a drop in the bucket in the face of huge ** expenses. But grandma insisted on giving, saying, "You can't add it to the catty, but you have to add it to the two."

In this way, for three years, she used her hard-earned meager income to continuously subsidize her seriously ill son.

However, Heaven did not understand our feelings and took my father's life. White-haired people send black-haired people, and there is nothing more painful in the world than this. On the day of the funeral, my grandmother was so grief-stricken that she cried so much that she was relieved of her strength after pinching the people next to her for a long time.

Since then, every time I go back to the countryside, she has been talking about my father.

Why is your dad's life so short, a good person just leaves, why can't grandma replace your dad ......”

You really look more and more like your father, you talk like you, you eat like you, and you dress like you dress. ”

When I see you and your mother, I think of your father. If your dad is still here, you will come back to the house full, what a good family ......”

Have you ever dreamed of your dad, why can't grandma dream of him? ”

When your dad was younger, ......”

Grandma doesn't want your dad anymore, and really doesn't want to ...... anymore”

Four years have passed in the blink of an eye, and my grandmother is still worried about my father, and every time I go back, she tells me: "You must remember to burn paper for your father during the New Year's holidays and go to see him more." I wanted to comfort my grandmother, but I couldn't say a word when I saw her thin body, old face, and cloudy eyes.

Destroying a parent is very simple, you just need to do something to his child and teach his child to do bad things to destroy this parent.

It's very simple to destroy a parent, just make him feel that his child is inferior to someone else's child, and then he will lose control of his emotions and go crazy.

If the child's test score is only 20 points or less, it is enough to destroy a parent, and the child's poor performance or stealing is also a big blow to the parent.

Just destroy his children, because children are often the lives of parents, and once the children are destroyed, the second half of the parents' lives will be ruined.

A parent is most concerned about their child, and if they want to destroy a parent, they will destroy their child and make their child useless.

If his children are not as good as other people's children everywhere, parents will feel very depressed, they will feel that they are useless, and they have not taught their children well, resulting in their own children not knowing anything.

It's not easy to destroy a parent, because you can't imagine the strength of the parent and you can't appreciate the determination of the parent.

Compare your parents with other parents, envy the power and power of other people's parents, and in turn dislike your own parents for being powerless and powerless, and dislike them while sucking their blood.

It's very simple to destroy a parent, as long as he understands that his education model is harmful to his child in the end.

Parents want to destroy a child, it is very simple, first of all, do not lead by example, do not set an example for children, do not teach children how to treat people, do not encourage children to support children, but beat and scold children, never admit that their children are excellent, always compare with other children, and do not take children to participate in outdoor sports, let children alone at home, which is very detrimental to the development of children's physical and mental health.

It is very simple for parents to destroy a child, even if you hit the child, he may leave a shadow on his psyche.

Make decisions for the child in everything, don't consider the child's feelings, keep blaming him, keep beating him, and keep scolding him for being stupid.

When the child is born, it is immediately thrown to the older generation, and under the premise of ensuring the safety of the child's life, the more negligent the care before the age of three, the better, and the stricter the management after the age of three, the better. I don't go home every day, whether it's going out to play or going to work on a business trip, anyway, I don't care much, I have something to contact, elementary school and high school and college, overprotective, two or three times a day ** to inquire about the situation, and urge home as soon as school is over. Maintain close contact with the homeroom teacher to achieve strict monitoring and protection of the children in all directions.

However, he never cares about school, school and friendship, and implements a strict policy of only criticizing and not educating. Take care of every detail in life, and ask for warmth as if taking care of a paralyzed old man. Usually very indulgent children, children's various bad habits just scold and not teach, as soon as the test results come out, they begin to scold why the grades can't be in the top five in the class.

Every time he criticizes the child in front of relatives, neighbors, friends and friends at home, he mercilessly points out the child's shortcomings and loses his temper with the child. Once you are not satisfied with your work or interpersonal relationships, you will start beating and scolding your children until you are angry. As soon as the child puts forward his own opinion, he begins to scold him for studying hard, which is not what you have to think about now.

When he becomes hesitant and indecisive, he scolds him for reading to the eyes of X, and only knows that reading dead books is useless.

Never praise your child, especially in the presence of a third party. Criticize the child often, especially in the presence of a third party. This can wreak havoc on their self-esteem and independence.

When I was alone with my child, I behaved very gently with him and asked him coldly. Once you start scolding the child, you have to scold for three days. We must not swallow and spit out, two or three sentences, but like the water of the Yellow River, it must come up from the sky, gushing endlessly, rushing for thousands of miles.

It is absolutely not too late to physically punish children, but to develop the habit of beating from childhood to adulthood, so that they have a fear of domestic violence and physical fear but feel that it is very normal and even conducive to their own growth.

The first is that parents always criticize their children, always saying that their children are not as good as other people's children, and they are hitting their children's self-confidence step by step, and they often use violence to beat and scold their children, which will make children more and more inferior, and they can easily destroy a child.

If parents dote on their children very much, regardless of how often they hit their children, often scold them, teach them to lie, and don't let their children learn, they will destroy their children.

Often neglect the child, often blame the child, and belittle the child when encountering problems. This will make the child feel inferior, and it will ruin the child.

I think this is the case, so parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and educate their children well.

I think this sentence is also very correct, because children are a blank sheet of paper, if parents educate well, then children will develop and grow well. My parents usually do not pay attention to their children's education, lack effective methods for their children's education, and usually have little interaction with their children, so it is likely that the parent-child relationship with the children will not be good, so the children's learning is also not good.

This statement is very correct, only in a good educational environment will children grow up healthily. The excellence of the child depends on the education of the parents, the parents are the children's enlightenment teachers, if the parents mislead the child, the child does not get the correct education, it is equivalent to ruining the child.

Of course, it is the child who is disobedient in school. Academic performance is not keeping up. My homeroom teacher is always looking for trouble with parents. It's more terrible than destroying a parent.

You can accompany your child to write homework, and two questions can stun your parents. You can talk to your child, and two sentences can choke your parents.

As long as everything is "contrary to the parents", it is enough to destroy his parents, but is it really necessary to do this? There is a saying that "pity the hearts of parents in the world", when parents pay for their children wholeheartedly, and as children, is there a reason to be right?!

For the people you love and hate, don't destroy them, just threaten them appropriately.

Accompany the child to write homework, say nothing I understand, and sometimes I want to drink water, and I want to go to the toilet for a while, and I don't let me say anything if I write wrong.

If it's simple, it's simple, and if it's complicated, it's complicated. It depends on how serious the matter is.

Accompanying homework is easy to do.

Accompanying your child to do their homework is the best way to do this.

One parent-teacher meeting, one school** is enough.