Why do they all say that Xu Zhimo is a scumbag ?

Because he is not loyal to his feelings, he is half-hearted, and he pursues Lin Huiyin passionately when he has a wife.

Because Xu Zhimo obviously has a wife, but he still loves another woman. He also asked his pregnant wife to go for an abortion.

Because he is very amorous, after marrying Zhang Youlin, he pursued Lin Huiyin madly, and later fell in love with his friend's wife Lu Xiaoman, and then divorced Zhang Youlin and married Lu Xiaoman.

Xu Zhimo has always been very indifferent to his wife, and even ignored his wife when she was pregnant, but pursued Lin Huiyin, and after pursuing Lin Huiyin to no avail, he took his friend's wife Lu Xiaoman and married him, which is undoubtedly a scumbag.

His marriage to Zhang Youyi was the misfortune of that era, his faint affection with Lin Huiyin was embarrassing, and his marriage with Lu Xiaoman was warm and affectionate, but it was bumpy.

If none of these people are scumbags, then I am.

Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi's marriage was the misfortune of that era, his faint affection with Lin Huiyin was embarrassing, and his marriage with Lu Xiaoman was warm and affectionate, but it was bumpy and difficult.

In the winter of 1920, Zhang Youyi went abroad to reunite with her husband, and they all thought that Xu Zhimo missed his wife and wrote the letter begging his father. This letter was actually written at the request of Zhang Junmao. Two months after Zhang Youyi was pregnant with her second son, Xu Zhimo ignored it and wanted to divorce immediately.

In 1921, Zhang Youyi's delivery was approaching, and when she was helpless, she wrote a letter to her second brother Zhang Junmai asking for help, she came to Paris, and later went to Berlin to give birth to a child. Xu Zhimo knew Zhang Youyi's whereabouts, but ignored it. It wasn't until 1922 that Berlin was approached when it was time to go through the divorce process.

What kind of person is Xu Zhimo? Good man? Or a scumbag?

Although the original partner was an arranged marriage, in Li Yunlong's words: "If you don't want to, don't sleep with your wife on the kang!" said that it was reluctant, and nothing was delayed, the kang was on the water, and the baby was born." If you can't pursue Lin Hui, you will dig into the corner of your friend, can you not be a scumbag?

By current standards. Zhang Youyi

Ignoring them except for the most basic marital obligations. Even when it comes to fulfilling marital obligations, Xu Zhimo just obeys his parents' wishes to hold their grandchildren.

Lin Huiyin

In the autumn of 1921, he met the talented girl Lin Huiyin, and Xu Zhimo had a close relationship with her and had the intention of talking about marriage. As a result, Xu Zhimo filed for divorce from Zhang Youyi in March 1922, believing that they should not continue their married life without love and freedom. Free divorce, no pain, and happiness at the beginning, this is Xu Zhimo's simple idealism.

Lu Xiaoman

In 1922, Xu Zhimo returned to Beijing after studying abroad and often met with his friend Wang Geng. Wang Geng's wife, Lu Xiaoman, had a great influence on Xu Zhimo. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman met and fell in love at the Beijing social scene.

Xu Zhimo is too perfect and regards love as the ideal to pursue! I don't know the fireworks in the world, and when I am hit by the cruel reality, I can't go back, and it's too late to ......

We should judge Xu Zhimo in his current era, in that era, he was a famous poet, a pioneer of the contemporary New Culture Movement, and a leader of the times.

If you judge it in the current era, Xu Zhimo is definitely a scumbag, but Xu Zhimo is not a person of our era after all, and we can't consider the people of the past by our current standards. However, Xu Zhimo threw away his pregnant wife and ignored it, no matter in that era, this was always wrong, and some of the responsibilities that should be borne still had to be borne, but he didn't, this was not right. Therefore, Xu Zhimo is really a scumbag in his relationship.

Xu Zhimo should be regarded as a scumbag in the current society, but in terms of his era, the education he received since he was a child and the environment he was in, he did not realize that the model of three wives and four concubines was problematic. But Xu Zhimo's wife was not chosen by himself, but arranged by his parents, so it is normal to not like it.

Although the original partner was an arranged marriage, in Li Yunlong's words: "If you don't want to, don't sleep with your wife on the kang!" said that it was reluctant, and nothing was delayed, the kang was on the water, and the baby was born." If you can't pursue Lin Hui, you will dig into the corner of your friend, can you not be a scumbag?

Looking at love history and marriage history from the perspective of human nature, it is indeed scumbag. For love is too presumptuous, wants different love at different stages, loves too fast and has no sense of responsibility, Zhang Youyi, Lin Weiyin, Lu Xiaoman, he has failed these three women, these life experiences may better explain why he can write so many classic love poems, maybe love is an experience for him, just like "Fortunately love is not everything, fortunately everything is not love." ”

Xu Zhimo is a standard flowery man who has abandoned his wife from beginning to end, and has always been entangled with various women throughout his life.

Xu Zhimo, formerly known as Zhang Yu, the word Shima, later changed to the word Shima, was born in December 13, the 22nd year of Guangxu in the Qing Dynasty, a native of Haining, Zhejiang, a famous Chinese Crescent modern poet, essayist, and the cousin of the famous martial arts writer Jin Yong. Xu Zhimo was born into a wealthy family and studied in the United Kingdom. This gave him a lot of creative inspiration and ruined his life.

Xu Zhimo advocated the rhythm of new poetry and made important contributions to the development of new Chinese poetry. Xu Zhimo participated in the entire activities of the Crescent School, and his creations embody the distinctive characteristics of the Crescent School. From the establishment of the Crescent Society to the gradual formation of a literary genre - the Crescent School, which lasted about ten years, Xu Zhimo has always played an important role in it.