made a joke that no one else could afford

I don't think there's any need to apologize. On the contrary, the other party should apologize to you for doing so.

1, he can make jokes to others but can't stand being teased, this kind of emotional intelligence is too pitiful.

2. Irresponsible scolding on the blog without asking the reason, indicating that he is irritable, narrow-minded, irrational, in other words, he is so spoiled that he doesn't know who he is;

3. It is recommended that you deal with this matter coldly, if the other party is still lingering after a while, then this person can forget about each other. This kind of selfishness and don't know how to respect your friends, don't provoke it.

Above, for your reference. Please analyze calmly and do not rush to respond to the other party's provocations.

Joking does have to divide people, you don't feel angry doesn't mean that others won't, just like you love spicy food doesn't mean that everyone loves spicy food, since this is a very serious thing in his concept, you have to respect his ideas, if you still treat him as a friend, I advise you to apologize, don't just try to be temporarily psychologically cool.

You have to apologize for this. Truly, you are you, and he is him. If you apologize, it means that you are a very broad-minded person.

Don't care. And you're kidding the man. He couldn't afford it.

Doesn't that prove what kind of person you are, what kind of person you are?

Should! Is it easy to have a friendship? Finally, I had a friendship and was rejected by you! If it were me, I would do my best to protect it! Listen to my brother! Apologize!

It depends on what kind of joke it is. If you can make things clearer, otherwise I won't be able to answer ... But if you're forced to keep it private, it doesn't matter

Some jokes are really not to be made! If you know how to grasp it, I think you should still make it clear to him.

What is your relationship? What are you kidding?

People who can't afford to make jokesSelf-esteemThey are all strong, and at the same time they are more sensitive, they can laugh at themselves, but they definitely can't accept the ridicule of others.

People who can afford to joke, whether they are good or bad, can always make you feel a sense of being close to them. Whether or not they can make all kinds of undisciplined jokes with each other determines whether the friendship between two people is close or far.

A person who can afford to joke will always win respect in the end. Regardless of the oncoming jokes, it is an unintentional exposé, and there is an intentional injury, the best way is not to fight back violently and lose both, but to resolve it in the gentlest way.

However, it is not excluded that some people like to make fun of others and make fun of them. When the ridiculed person was ashamed of himself, he laughed on the sidelines, and when others fought back, he felt that the person who couldn't stand the joke was not worthy of being friends with him, and finally sneered and walked away.

In fact, no matter what the occasion, you should distinguish what should be said and what should not be said, and a sentence that the speaker feels is light may be a huge humiliation for the parties.

Even if that joke exists objectively, it should not be shaken out when taking into account the overall situation, otherwise it will only harm others and not benefit oneself in the end. Don't blame others for not being able to make jokes, because all jokes are based on respect and non-harm.

Kind jokes can promote the growth of mutual feelings, and those that make others uncomfortable and continue to deepen their senses are not called jokes, but malicious harm.

People who can't afford to joke are generally small-minded, selfish and sensitive, and dealing with such people will be very tiring, very tiring.

Because people who can't afford to joke are particularly narrow-minded, they may anger the other party because of an unconscious action or subconscious words, and even get revenge from the other party, such people can't make friends. Of course, if the joke goes too far, it's a different story.

Because people who can't afford to joke are too serious, they have strong self-esteem and get angry at every turn. We don't know which sentence offended him. So such a person, many people don't like to come into contact with him.

First of all, you have to make sure that you are making a normal joke, not a joke, if a person is joking and turns his face, it must be that your joke hurts the self-esteem of others, don't think that your joke is a lively and cheerful performance, others can laugh at themselves, but you have no right to say that people who can't afford to joke can't do it, it should be because some jokes are really just ridicule, not jokes.

It's easy to be more serious, the heart is narrow-minded, and the mind is not broad enough, so it can't achieve great things.

Because in interpersonal communication, joking is sometimes a very important part, and people who like to laugh too much may not have so many friends.

Because there are a lot of people who can't afford to make jokes, and they probably won't be able to make friends in society, and if they don't have friends, they won't be able to find a good difference in society.

Because his belly is too small, he can't stand a little bad talk and ridicule, and it's easy to get angry and turn his face.

Personally, I think this sentence still varies from person to person, after all, sometimes, the so-called joking goes too far, and it is also a bad behavior.

He is not easy-going and has a hard time getting along with people.

Because banter is the lubricant of life, with proper banter, life will be more interesting and vivid.

In the matter of joking, it is not so simple, we have to master the proportion and degree, this "too and not" or how to master the proportion and degree, we need to rely on the usual "experiment or attempt", and for each person has their own different standards, jokes are rude, some things or some words you may think are joking, but the person being joked will think you are impolite, no literacy. This is like an invisible line, some people's lines are very high, can not be touched casually, this kind of people, life, work is very serious, basically can not make the slightest joke, for this kind of person, your joke and him not only can not get closer, but will be counterproductive, farther and farther away; Some people have a very low line, and you can make jokes casually. But even this kind of person who can joke casually, deep down in his heart there will be a point that cannot be joked about casually or something that is more concerned about the untouchable.

Care about it, so put it in the highest position in your heart, and this point cannot be joked around.

So, if it's really more serious, none of us can afford to joke, or we have a point that can't be joked about casually, indifferent, since we can't afford to joke, why do we have to make jokes? That's because there is still a relationship on top of the bottom line of joking.

The necessary space, joking is actually a process of quickly closing the distance, quickly eliminating strangeness, and quickly testing each other's bottom line, slowly tempting, if in the process of testing each other, some jokes really touch your bottom line, you can tell him seriously and without doubt. I really mind this, please don't joke about it again. Smart people or people with high IQ will stop there, and they will master this degree, and maybe you will become good friends with each other in the future.

People who can't afford to joke are naturally at fault, because because others don't have time to get to know you, and if they joke with you and you get angry, it will only make you appear to be cautious and stingy, and no one will pay attention to you. Because everyone jokes and doesn't have to be taken seriously. There's no need to say behind your back that others aren't very good, because everyone has something good, but you don't see it.

There are all mistakes, everyone has different personalities, and there will inevitably be all kinds of friction when getting along.

I've seen it many times, maybe out of jealousy, but the best thing to do is to smile. Because your smile will make the other party's bad intentions against you not be carried out, and the topic against you will not continue, because a person's self-talk, no one is interested, and it is almost ridiculous like a clown jumping off the beam.

If the other person is trying to provoke you purely as a joke, you can also tell the other person in a joking tone: "Just as you see." And then there was no follow-up.

Because any of your justifications is a futile struggle, the other party will say, "I'm just joking with you, why are you still unhappy, why can't you make such a joke?" ”

So, when you encounter such a situation, you just do it, or smile. Smile it off and leave no truth for the other party.

Either that, show weakness and tell the other person, "You're right. "This is not cowardice, but there is no need to explain, no matter what you explain, the other party will have malicious intent against you, because people want to see your anxious white face, so that everyone knows that you are a person who can't afford to joke, and it is your own mood to be able to joke and can't afford to joke.

Never try to tell anyone about your grievances, it's pointless, it's just a matter of giving people who know more to talk about after dinner.

If you are really wronged, don't tell anyone, since you know, you should understand that people's envy and remorse have a scale in their hearts, but no one will solve the problem for anyone, one is incapable, and the other is that there are many people who don't think it's a big deal to see the excitement.

Recently, the practice of a boy putting a magnet into a girl's water cup has attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. ......In daily life, there are some people who bully others in the name of joking, and this behavior causes great harm to the other party. Specifically, this kind of bullying that seems to be a joke includes deliberately giving the other person a bad nickname, joking about the other person's shortcomings, and deliberately belittling the other person.

1. Deliberately give the other party an ugly nickname, and once the other party gets angry, say it's a joke.

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where we give people nicknames. ......Nicknames between familiar people, and the nickname does not have a bad meaning, this situation is a real joke, not only will not affect the relationship between each other's Qin and Messenger, but also can make each other get along more harmoniously. ......But some people take the opportunity to deliberately give people nicknames, and the meaning of nicknames contains derogatory elements.

To do so is to deliberately bully people.

2. Joke about the other party's shortcomings, which is actually deliberately bullying the other party.

Each of us has our own shortcomings, and this is a normal thing. In our daily interactions, we all avoid mentioning each other's shortcomings so as not to cause harm to each other. ......But some people deliberately embarrass each other by saying their shortcomings.

If the other person is angry, he will say that it is a joke and avoid the situation where he deliberately bullies others.

3. Deliberately joking and belittling the other party is actually bullying the other party.

Each of us will have a corresponding evaluation of the people around us. Some of these evaluations are good, and some are bad. Some people will take advantage of this opportunity to bully people.

Specifically, they will deliberately belittle someone in front of everyone and cause harm to the other person. And once the other party investigates, he will prevaricate in the name of joking to cover up his bullying problem. These people are just kidding, but they're actually bullying people.

Their actions can cause serious harm to others.

Laugh at your imperfections in the name of joking.

Colleague Xiao Zhao is fat, but he is cute, and the little girl's personality is also relatively lively.

But since his new colleague Xiao Li joined the company, Xiao Zhao has become silent and does not get together to chat with everyone. The reason is because Xiao Li often 'jokes' about Xiao Zhao's body shortcomings.

For example, when everyone is eating, Xiao Li will coldly say to Xiao Zhao, "Don't eat, look at your eyes are almost fat" After speaking, he laughed to himself, and a few people who played better with Xiao Li would also echo him.

If Xiao Zhao is angry, then he will say, "It's just a joke, you can't afford to make a joke."

This is a typical ridicule of others in the name of joking, which is a mouthful, not a joke, and a very uneducated behavior.

A joke is a joke that makes the other person feel funny, and if it hurts others, then it is a mockery.

Maybe some people will also laugh at themselves for their own shortcomings, but the self-deprecation of others does not mean that you can be open-mouthed.

Special rock crack is a good friend to pay more attention to, you can't feel that the relationship is good, you can say whatever you want, often bring harm to the other party, is the casual joke you think of.

No matter when, under any circumstances, or in any relationship, joking should not be an excuse for you to laugh at other people's shortcomings.