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What's so good about following the crowd? Don't care what others say, just do what you want! After you get married, wouldn't it be more affordable to work your own and buy a car and a house by yourself?
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After marrying him, the two of them will create a hard career together, and the feeling of having a car and a house in the future is the best.
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Girls, this society still has a skill, and it is good to have an economy. First improve your own quality cultivation, and think about something else.
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Hehe, when he saw a car, he asked him if he had a girlfriend. It's a joke.
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I don't feel it, then my trouble should be to find a simple person who has money, a house and a car, but it is difficult to like it, and it is better to live alone if you can't find something you like. Of course, if you don't have a house or a car, you can't pass the pass at home, but a lot of the sons-in-law on our side are women, who have money, houses and cars
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The key is to see if the boyfriend has a future, the RV is only temporary, and the two of them can buy it together in the future. Besides, it doesn't make much sense for a single guy to buy a car alone, if you find the right boyfriend, I think he will buy a car and a house by then.
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It is difficult to tell exactly why your boyfriend is uncomfortable because you have a house and a car, because this situation may involve many factors such as his personal values, financial situation, self-esteem, jealousy, etc. Here are some possible explanations:
1.He has low self-esteem about your wealth. If your boyfriend is less financially off than you or doesn't have his own house and car, he may feel inferior and uneasy because of this.
He may feel that he cannot give you enough material security, or that he may feel that he is not financially comparable to you.
2.He thinks you will be arrogant because you have wealth. If your boyfriend thinks that you will be arrogant or look down on him because of your wealth, he may be upset and uncomfortable about it.
3.He may think that you will make a financial claim on him. If your boyfriend thinks you will make financial demands on him or are financially dependent on him, he may feel stressed and burdened.
4.He may think you're too aggressive. If your boyfriend feels that you have become too assertive and confident because you have a house and a car, causing him to lose his sense of balance in the relationship, he may feel uncomfortable.
In short, the fact that your boyfriend feels uncomfortable because you have a house and a car may be related to his personal values, financial situation, self-esteem, jealousy and other factors. If you want to solve this problem, it is recommended that you communicate openly with your boyfriend, understand his real thoughts and feelings, find solutions together, and maintain each other's relationship.
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It's not very important that the boyfriend has a house and a banquet and no car.
The most important thing is that men must be self-motivated, responsible, able to work hard for the future, and development is the best liquid Zheng.
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Important, don't say anything about the greatness of love, a liquid to provoke a man without a house in the end you will definitely quarrel!
What feelings do you say, in fact, the society is very realistic, how to live without a house, renting a house is tiring, and there is no need to pay too much attention to the state.
This is my opinion.
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Every time you call a person to pursue the life of the balance of the way to live a different way, for the person you love can give everything for each other, as long as you really love each other, work together, the house and the car are all small things, as long as you are willing to work hard, there will be a reward.
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If a person wants to live a real life, he must consider some of the other party's conditions, if you have a good relationship with each other, the other party has no conditions, and the man has a certain amount of struggle to be able to do it, then you can be together to defend It doesn't matter, so Shan Xinxian said that it depends on his potential.
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You can ask that, it means that it should be quite important to you.
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If you ask such a topic, there is no need for you to continue! Shirt old.
Because of your centered state, Hui collapsed and pretended to be you! In such a situation, he is not suitable for what you want, belong to, and think!
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On the issue of falling in love and getting married, I would like to share the following views.
No house, no car, you can work together, the rest of the skin will just be very tired, the advantage is that you can discuss and choose to buy a house together, what car to buy.
There is a house but no car, the place where you live is settled, it is very easy to buy a car for a car, and it is not difficult for a family, that is, for your boyfriend.
There is no house and a car, and having a car means that it is convenient to fall in love, and if you want to go, you can go to Biru to play, and you can drive to meet if you want to meet to enhance your relationship. The disadvantage is that buying a house after buying a car is stressful.
Having a house and a car is a ready-made happiness, which should be grasped and cherished.
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Born in a second-tier city, my parents are both professors, so my primary and secondary school classmates are almost at this level, and when I was a child, I couldn't understand what it was to ask for a house and a car, because all my female classmates had houses and cars at home.
It wasn't until I went to college and saw people from all kinds of small places go to big cities that I gradually understood.
But what I need to tell you is: most of my male classmates who have houses and cars end up marrying those female classmates who also have cars and houses, and the men go out of the house and the women go out of the car, but this does not prevent them from talking to those good-looking rural girls and the little freshness from the town before marriage.
In fact, it's easy for you to just want an RV, but you may "not feel", and it feels like this thing is never predestined, but regular. A man who is good-looking and has a good personality is that many women will have feelings for him; A man who is ugly and has a bad personality is not very good, but it is difficult to feel for him.
So the "feeling" you ask for is actually the appearance and character you ask, but the question is, why don't you marry a man who has a house, a car, appearance and character, and chooses you?
Many people have asked me, do men look at each other's family background?
As far as I have taken tens of thousands of students and personally met thousands of students, it is like this:
I have never seen anyone who does not look at the woman's family background, but I have only seen all kinds of disguised refusals.
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Emotional matters need the fate of two people, you can't be in a hurry, you should do your best to actively find happiness in the future. Good luck!
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There must be a house, and there must be a good economic income, and the poor couple will mourn everything. . .
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It doesn't have to be you if you find that, it mainly depends on whether the man is self-motivated.
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The treatment is good, mainly whether he is good to you, and then his name, and then whether he can treat you as a person who is the most important to himself.
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This is not necessarily, sometimes for the relationship is completely a feeling between two people, so in this case you can take reality as the standard, whether it is with anyone, at this time you must first understand each other, this is the most important.
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I think the two of you are quite right. If two people like each other, it also belongs to the family, right?
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Then this is a problem on the one hand, the main thing is that the relationship between two people should get along well, have a good attitude, and be together sincerely.
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Actually, I think both of you are really good, because after all, you don't have to worry about going to have a place to live, and whether you have a car?
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I think you are a good match, two people are together, sometimes the three views are very important, and the family background is also very important.
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I think the problem of feelings can't be taken to Hengyang today, if you get married for money, two people will definitely not be happy, and you can live a long time with feelings.
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I think you might have to pay attention to the door when you fall in love, right, the two of you are basically equal, so you can basically fall in love together.
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After marriage, for the sake of the family, women often choose to give up their favorite jobs and devote themselves to their feelings.
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Then the conditions for having a house and a car at home are very good, so you can get married with a face.
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My boyfriend has a car and a house, the conditions at home are not bad, and I have two suites myself, I know that if I don't have anything, it is impossible for him to feel oops, which shows that the conditions between the two of you are very good, which is called a good match.
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Since you said so, it means that you yourself are already clear, but you are reluctant, you will come to ask, otherwise you will come, just like what you said downstairs, everything will have to deal with money in the future, we are all outsiders, we can't get along, and only you know it, what you said can't be done in our opinion, but you say that he and you get along, this depends on how you decide, if you think he's really good, then live together, after all, there is no perfect, if you really think he can't behave like this, Then don't waste everyone's time, they are all adults, your parents raised you so big, you have to get married, they don't have to be sad, so this still depends on what you think, we can only give some advice!
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