How can you forget someone who has been in love with someone for seven years?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's also love, it's more admiration, even if it's the same as the star chaser, you have always suppressed your feelings in the depths of your heart, don't express it, you feel very hard yourself, you can only tell him if you want to forget, your heart knot can be opened, otherwise you will be prone to mental illness.

    If you don't untie it, you will choose to be full of his shadow when you look for a boyfriend, and you will not be able to tell who you like, and it will be unfair to anyone.

    Please take care.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Sometimes it takes a second to fall in love with someone.

    It takes a long time to forget.

    I've had a crush for so long, if he doesn't know how to cherish you, a person who loves him so much, what do you think will happen if you continue to love?

    Forget those past events, don't just keep your eyes on him, maybe there is a boy next to you who has been silently liking you, maybe it's just your own habits, you are used to thinking about those things, and you can't change it for a while.

    Do more other things, spend more time with family, friends...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe it's a habit.,I've had a crush on someone else for 7 years.,Even if we occasionally chat together, it's not good.,I won't talk to him.,Just silently bless him.。 Because I will have someone who loves me and loves me, not someone I have a crush, I hope you meet someone who likes you, maybe you will forget about him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to forget, just confess But this is a huge price, I'm afraid I can't afford it, then slowly leave it to time, I liked a boy when I was 13 years old, and I confessed in the second semester of my sophomore year From then on, I can only use time to heal the wound It took a few years Although I have forgotten it almost now, but occasionally it hurts He is the starting point of my injury I will use time to fall in love with the person I truly love in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory.

    So, don't forget and learn to be grateful to everyone in your life who has ever met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time passes, everything is no longer as memorable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, and face everything with a normal heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, there is no need to deliberately forget it, time will tell. You can try to reach out to other people or things to divert your attention. Isn't there a saying that those things that we thought we would never forget are forgotten by us in the process of not forgetting them year after year.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is impossible to forget, only to let go. Faithless. After falling in love with someone else, it is natural to let go of him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's love to try to get out and think that the next one will be better than him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Memories cannot be erased, you should change your opinion of him, treat him as an ordinary person, annihilate him little by little, and 、、、 with good friends

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Cut off contact with him.

    If you really decide that you want to forget about the other person, don't contact the other person anymore. The best way to quickly forget a person is to leave him, the two of you will never cross paths again, you go your way, he crosses his bridge, and let him disappear completely from your life. If he still appears in your life from time to time, it will always disturb your mood, and it will be difficult to forget him completely.

    Give yourself some psychological cues.

    Mental cues are very useful at this time, and if you want to get out of the state of your crush, you have to tell yourself. That person isn't your thing. When you think of him, tell yourself not to think about him anymore, forget about him, he has nothing to do with you.

    You have to control yourself not to think about him, after a long time, you will dilute your previous memories, and you will slowly forget your crush.

    Divert attention.

    Put your time and energy into other things and keep yourself busy. For example, find something you love to do, so that you don't have time to think about it. When your mind is immersed in other things, you rarely think of your crush.

    After a while, you may find that you are not very interested in him anymore, and you are more concerned about some things.

    Start a new relationship.

    Being able to find new feelings will make you quickly forget about your crush. Everyone's time and energy are limited, and if a new friend breaks into your life, you probably won't have much time to have a crush on someone else. After all, real love is more exciting than secret love, you can date often, and love will make you feel full of happiness when it comes.

    Go on a trip.

    We want to forget our crush and start our lives anew. It is possible to start with a single trip, and the trip is truly relaxing. Leaving the current environment and going to a new place, our hearts will calm down and many things will be thought through.

    Traveling is the beginning of a change in yourself, and in a new environment you leave everything behind and start anew.

    Throw away what has to do with him.

    If you want to forget your crush, don't think of him again. Everything around you that reminds you of him should be thrown away, such as the gift he gave you, the ** you collected him, the chat history with him in WeChat, etc. These things have to be thrown away, and only when you completely lose all the things related to him, will you forget him, otherwise you will still think of him when you see these things.

    Think about his shortcomings.

    If you want to completely forget the other person, you have to change his image in your heart. Crush on him because he's perfect, and if you find out that he's not as good as you think he's and a mediocre mortal, you won't have that much crush on him. Some of his shortcomings and mistakes can be found.

    Thinking about it this way will change the perfect image of Him in your mind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Crushes are bound to be unpleasant, so it takes some way to forget. Everyone must have experienced the taste of crush, that kind of bitterness.

    Astringent and sweet memories may be the best memories of your life.

    Memory. But some people choose to forget their crush for various reasons.

    Here are some of the people who have a crush on how to forget their heart.

    Efficacy. 1. Treat with a normal heart.

    Learning to forget is not very easy to do, because.

    Many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. That.

    It requires us to deal with problems with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable. When you're working for.

    When you cry when you miss the sun, you will miss the stars. Ordinary heart.

    2. Think more about the other person's shortcomings.

    If you have a crush on someone, you will render the other person too in your heart.

    Too perfect, this is the normal psychology of many crushes. Because of the sue.

    Being perfect with each other and feeling like no one is better, so it's hard to forget.

    Remember, in fact, people have a lot of shortcomings, maybe he is not your surface.

    As you see it.

    Think more about his shortcomings, more about his absence from you.

    Meaning. Think more about your own strengths, or maybe you are empty now.

    After a while, forget about him, and everything will fade away.

    It's amazing.

    3. Divert attention.

    Since that person is not suitable, then we have to be heavy.

    Newly looking for our Prince Charming, we can go on a blind date, can.

    The right person for yourself, let our attention be diverted to others.

    on, so that the likes of one will soon be retracted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to forget a person, you can keep yourself busy, and you will live a full life, and if you don't have time to think about him all day.

    If you really can't forget him, you can try to contact him to see if you can come together in real life.

    What if the temptation succeeds?

    Questions. But he seems to have a girl he likes.

    If you fail, you will not regret it when you look back on it.

    Questions. It's like he doesn't know I like him.

    Do you have any overlap in your actual life?

    Questions. But I really love him.

    In real life.

    Questions. I confessed to him before, and he refused.

    We haven't talked much since then.

    Fewer and fewer of the kind.

    If this is the case, then you have to get out of this relationship as soon as possible, and the longer it drags on, the worse it will be for you.

    People depend on fate, if you feel very much love him, you can make yourself better through hard work, so that he can impress you. Then look for opportunities to meet him intentionally or unintentionally. As long as you are beautiful and good enough, you still have a chance to win him.

    In the process of improving yourself, your chances will also become bigger and bigger.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to forget a person who once had a crush, the best thing is to find a relationship by yourself, so that his own spirit will not forget him if he is put on the current relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Crush is a psychological phenomenon of unrequited love.

    This mentality, once formed, may never be forgotten.

    However, with the passage of time and the changes of the world, the memory will be diluted, but it will not be completely erased.

    In fact, as long as this memory does not interfere with normal life, let the memory of sin remain in the heart, and let it brew the fragrance of memories with the passage of time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Time can dilute everything, and if you don't deliberately force it, you will forget it, and the reason why you can't forget it is because you are still hesitating, still pressing, and thinking that there is hope.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The average crush will not forget it for a long time, but you have a new goal and a girl you like, so you can slowly continue to blur him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't have a crush, contact the other person directly, understand and communicate, and if she doesn't have feelings for you, don't think about it again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This person you have a crush on already has a heart, that is, someone who will not belong to you, and you will slowly adapt to it and forget it when you think like this. Because you're unrequited after all.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay to take it slowly, time is the best choice.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The two of us are only in a real mood that we will never forget the English in your heart. That's it, so you're looking for another object. I had a crush on which object in front of me, and if you don't have materials, you can't forget it when you find a partner in the future, so on the road of life, first love is the most critical.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Read more, use your brain, and see the world more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Summary. Good evening, dear<>

    1. Re-find the spiritual sustenance.

    It is not easy to have a crush on someone for 7 years, and it is also very proactive. So it's hard to forget. He's like sleep, the more you want to sleep, the more you can't sleep.

    At this time, you should take the focus away from him and find something worthy of your pinning. For example, playing ball, reading books, and chatting with friends. When you have something to look forward to in your head, it's easy to forget about it.

    How to forget someone who has had a crush on him for 7 years.

    Good evening, dear<>

    1. It is not easy to re-find the spiritual sustenance and have a crush for 7 years, and it is also very active. So it's hard to forget. He's like sleep, the more you want to sleep, the more you can't sleep.

    At this time, you should take the focus away from him and find something worthy of your pinning. For example, playing ball, reading books, and chatting with friends. When you have something to look forward to in your head, it's easy to forget about it.

    2. Treat with a normal heart and learn to forget some things that should not be remembered, and forget those things that make you sad. At this time, you need to look at the problem with a normal heart. Now that this has happened, there is no way to undo it.

    3. Tourism can allow a person to forget all his troubles, and he can also throw himself into the embrace of nature. This trick is also very effective, allowing you to come back from your trip and rejuvenate.

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  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Crush on someone, is a kind of longing and unattainable helplessness, if there is some hope, will summon up the courage, to confess, because there is no hope, afraid of rejection, afraid that in the end even the humble crush on the other party can not do, so choose not to confess, so choose to bury this affection in the heart. In fact, if you want to know if someone has a crush on you, look at some of the other party's external performance, and you will know in your heart, you know, the more you have a crush on someone, the more these conspicuous signs will appear, do you understand?

    Paying too much attention to each other.

    If you don't have a favorite object in your heart, you can naturally put all your attention on your career, you can do what you like to do, and you will live a good life alone, live at ease, and there will be nothing wrong.

    When you are truly in love with a person of the opposite sex, but you dare not show this affection, you bury this feeling in your heart. However, you have a fierce affection for the other person, and you are always aware of the other person's news, so you can't help but pay attention to the other person and understand their every move.

    The more you have a crush on someone, the more you can't help but pay attention to the person you like, and often "overly" care about the other person, even if you rarely chat, however, you will know everything about the other person, because you have long remembered the other person's affairs and will not forget them for a long time.

    Obsessed with gifts or used items from the other person.

    When you are not in love with a person of the opposite sex, you can interact with each other with a generous attitude, maintain courtesy with each other, and dispose of gifts from the opposite sex at will, without being too careful.

    If the opposite sex gives you a gift, you may casually give it to someone else or give it to someone else, without paying too much attention to the meaning of the gift.

    However, when you secretly like a person of the opposite sex, you will often regard the other party as too important, you will be very attentive to the other party's affairs, often love the house and the black, treat the other party and the people around the other party, cherish the gifts given by the other party, and you can't help but be close to the other party's used items and residences, that is, the more you have a crush on someone, the more you will be obsessed with the gifts or used items given by the other party, don't be stupid and don't understand.

    There is a "halo effect" and fantasies about being with each other.

    When you get along with the opposite sex, if you are not emotional, you do not secretly like the opposite sex, when you get along with the opposite sex, you can look at each other rationally, will not exaggerate each other, will not belittle each other, you can remain rational, and at the same time, in your relationship, you can keep a good distance and take a good measure.

    On the contrary, if you secretly like a person of the opposite sex, you will regard the other person's affairs as very important, and there will often be a "halo effect", you will focus on the other person's strengths, and always feel that the other person is the best.

    At the same time, you will repeatedly imagine the situation when you are with the other person, you will look forward to the future, you hope that the other party can have a good impression of you and be able to take the initiative with you, however, you will be afraid that the other party will not be optimistic about you, you are afraid of being rejected, and you are afraid that the other party will see through your mind and be alienated from you.

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