In the Distance Liu Ye is a bad person, why can t girls marry?

The TV series was loved by a wide audience as soon as it was broadcast in the distance, but the male protagonist in it, his way of falling in love and getting along with women made many people angry, why is this? Because he is the image of a bad guy in the play. First of all, he does not have an accurate and correct principle, you must know that if a man does not have principles, then he will be like a wall grass, and he will have a feeling of not refusing this feelingNo matter who treats him well, he will accept this feeling, and he will not refuse the other party.

So such a man must not be able to date, followed by hesitation, like the male protagonist in the play is always disconnected from the relationship, and he did not cut off the previous relationship very well, which is an extremely irresponsible performance for the current one, you must know that the most important thing in love is loyalty and single-mindedness, if you are always half-hearted, if you still have ideas about other women,Then this is unacceptable to any woman, and it is not like the ancient times when no one would share their lover with others.

The second is that it is difficult to take care of both, when you are in two ambiguous relationships, you always have to make a choice, but you feel that you have the ability to take care of both sides, and then do not give one of them an accurate answer, just like fishing, fishing for the appetite of both parties, and a man like this is absolutely impossible to find. You must know that girls are selfish in love, and they will hope that the person they love will give them all the care and careIf there is a woman who shares this care and warmth with you on an equal footing, then I think anyone will be furious.

Therefore, love is selfish, we can't rely on our own preferences to decide each other's feelings, we must maintain enough dedication to love, and bad people who have no principles and do not understand the importance of the overall situation, in reality, there will definitely be such people, and when you meet such people, some girls should stay away in time, otherwise they will definitely be hurt by themselvesIn that case, the gains outweigh the losses, and don't wait until you are actually hurt to regret it.

Feelings are exclusive, but also exclusive, if a man can't tell the difference between close and distance, it is terrible to be equally enthusiastic about everyone, and if he marries, he will make himself very sad.

Such rotten good people are not just good for one person, but good for everyone. If a woman marries such a person, she will not have a sense of security, and she will not have the happiness of two people in a marriage, so she can't marry.

You never know how annoying a rotten good person is, especially if you still like this person. This rotten good guy may contact many girls and provide them with all kinds of help, and he is reluctant to let them cry, and always feels that the girls need him, and if you marry such a boy, you will never have a good time in your life.

Personally, I think Yao Yuan has always loved Lu Xiaoou, and I won't repeat the love process between the two of them, just talk about why Yao Yuan is entangled with Ailian.

said that Yao Yuan also likes Ailian and hesitates, I don't think you understand this at all.

Ai Lian has said more than once that she and Yao Yuan are very good, but not that good, just brotherhood! Keep in mind that a woman's instincts for love are keen. Ai Lian felt that Yao Yuan didn't love herself, so she really didn't love her.

Yao Yuan will be with Ailian, firstly, the two were friends when they were young and had a relationship foundation, and secondly, because Ailian's predicament, Yao Yuan wanted to help her. Basically, this is a choice after friendship + sympathy, and it has nothing to do with love.

Of course, this is still superficial.

Think about it! What kind of person would choose to combine with another person out of friendship + sympathy? Isn't he thirsty for love?

Yes, I can assert that when Yao Yuan chose Ailian, he had a desperate attitude in love: I am not worthy of Lu Xiaoou, and it is impossible to be with her in this life. However, who else can I love but Lu Xiaoou? I can't have love anymore!

It is precisely because love is broken, and friends are in difficulty and like themselves, so it is better to do a good deed! So, Yao Yuan made such a favorable decision: marry Ailian.

Moreover, this decision was made very firmly, even if he reunited with Lu Xiaoou, Yao Yuan never wavered, from the fact that he did not take the initiative to explain to Lu Xiaoou that the little girl was not his own child, it can be seen that he would rather be misunderstood by Lu Xiaoou, rather than risk rekindling the love between the two, and when Ailian chose to leave, he also chased him to the train station to try his best to stay.

Therefore, Yao Yuan is not a scumbag who steps on two boats, he is very responsible, but it is precisely because of this that Lu Xiaoou has caused a lot of trouble, she mistakenly thinks that Yao Yuan is deeply in love with Ailian, how to say it! The authorities are fascinated, she is proficient in psychology, and when it comes to her own affairs, she forgets all her professional knowledge.

In fact, Yao Yuan has always loved Lu Xiaoou deeply, and he has never hesitated between two women, he has always chosen to give up his true love Lu Xiaoou because of low self-esteem, and he has to help Ailian, because he thinks that Lu Xiaoou will be happy if he finds a man with better conditions, and if he accompanies Ailian, Ailian can be happy. Yao Yuan hopes that both women can be happy, which will cause the current situation, which can only be said to be a creation and a trick.

<> from the most realistic point of view, with his current value, he can find another young and beautiful girl, why bother swaying between Lu Xiaoou and Ailian!

Fortunately, "In the Distance" is not an idol drama, and Ai Lian is not the second female villain, she chose to quit voluntarily. Judging from the follow-up trailer, after reading Lu Xiaoou's diary, Yao Yuan realized that she loved herself so deeply that she couldn't live up to the beauty, so she let go of her inferiority complex and prepared to embrace love boldly.

He must be a scumbag. Entangled with women, and constantly wandering between two women.

"In the Distance" is on the air, and Liu Ye's character "Yao Yuan" has left a deep impression on everyone. This kind of "Liu Ye-style rotten good person" men and girls must not marry, for the following three reasons.

1. A man without principles will only wronged you.

As a man, once you have no principles, it will definitely not bring you happiness, but will only wronged you. This type of man doesn't know how to express himself completely. They worry about how their principles will affect others.

So they would rather change themselves than wronged others, and as the wife of such a man, you will also be angry and wronged. A good person in the eyes of others, but he will not give his wife a sense of happiness, and will only wronged his family in order to compromise others.

Second, hesitation and procrastination.

This kind of man is easy to have an ambiguous relationship with other women, has a friendly attitude towards all female friends, and never refuses other people's overtures, such a man will be poached by other women anytime and anywhere, and he himself does not think so. And in the face of a relationship or a matter is always hesitant and procrastinating, such a man is really a scumbag.

3. He will warm the world, but he may sacrifice those closest to him.

A rotten and good man, they want to save face and talk about dignity. Therefore, they will take care of those who do not matter to you, so that he can have a good face and satisfy his inner desire to be valued by others. But he will choose to make you a victim of his face.

In his psyche, you understand him, and you should support him in what he does.

Marrying such a person is the most likely to be wronged, and he also likes to procrastinate in doing things.

Because a bad person has no principles, he is what others say, and he will not refuse, and he is still his wife who suffers.

The main thing is that they are unreliable and always put other people's things first.

A woman can accept that you have a past, but she must not accept that you are not in the past. Please don't be a bad person, even if you don't have feelings, you can't help anything. Therefore, rotten good people are resolutely not allowed to do.

Maybe it seems to you that you are just doing a simple favor and have no other intentions, but in fact, the harm you bring to the people around you is unimaginable, this is not kindness, but stupidity. Kindness is a good thing, but if you are too kind and don't know how to refuse, you will be pinched as a soft persimmon. Many times you don't know how to say no, you don't know how to use your kindness, and you will unknowingly hurt the people closest to you.

When a person is hungry and cold, if you give him a bowl of rice, you will solve his big problem, and he will be grateful. However, if you keep giving alms, he will take it for granted. In the end, if you don't give him rice, he may turn around and beat him upside down.

As the saying goes, "help the poor not help the poor", the greatest kindness to the poor is to give them the respect and courtesy they deserve, not financial support.

Kindness has no bottom line, and others have no principles. When good loses its principle, it fosters evil. You can be kind, but your kindness doesn't grow teeth, that's weakness.

Don't reject others, don't be responsible for the people who love you, think that you sacrifice the ego and achieve the big ego, but in fact, it is selfishness and ignorance, giving up all principles and bottom lines, just to keep yourself a good person, just to not let others down.

Don't be a bad person, and girls won't want to marry a bad person, after all, we don't go on a trip to the world to sacrifice ourselves to please others. In the adult world, the price is not hurtful, but respectful. Respect yourself, but also those you love.