Why do you feel so lonely when you walk on a crowded street?

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.

The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you. [of the waves].

When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate.

The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.

Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall.

When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You must remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial loop of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, so don't identify with it. [of the waves].

When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't cling to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live.

Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and clinging. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life!

Because that's not what we want.

Sometimes loneliness can strike suddenly, even if you're on a busy street, even if you have friends around you. For a while, I often walked on the crowded street and felt like a lonely ghost.

You feel lonely because you are alone, and it has nothing to do with the thousands of people on the street, they don't care about you, they don't even look at you, the excitement is someone else's and you only have yourself. This means that you have not received the care of others for too long, and no one has a heart-to-heart communication with you, which will make people feel endless loneliness, especially at night, drowning yourself not only in the darkness but also in the turbulent loneliness.

If you have friends and family around you, it means that you want someone to understand you, but no one can enter your heart or untie your knot. Feeling lonely on the crowded street, it means that you are no longer lonely like a lack of friends, but lonely to the bone. The second thing is that you have to think about whether your sense of existence is too weak, because your sense of existence is too weak, and no one wants to know you.

People will inevitably feel lonely, which has nothing to do with the number of people, no matter how many people there are in the world, but there are only so many people who have a relationship with you.

Some people say that lonely people are destined to be lonely, in fact, this is really the case, sometimes you will feel that you don't have a friend, no one cares, and even when others are happier and more lively, this feeling will become more and more obvious.

In fact, this is the shackles of your own soul, it is you who lock yourself in a small space and do not let it out, so that you can enjoy the loneliness to the fullest, which is generally just self-disturbing.

If you don't want to be lonely anymore, then you have to learn to let yourself go, open your heart and embrace everyone around you, you will feel that the world is full of kindness, and you will not feel lonely.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself and don't let yourself be miserable. Feel the kindness of this world, and you will no longer be confused and feel lonely.

This is actually a normal state of mind, and the bustle around you is often more reflective of your loneliness.

I believe that many people will have this feeling, even in the lively circle of friends, you will still feel lonely, especially when they are talking and laughing, you don't say a word to recall the previous things, at this time often loneliness will come to your heart, so that you can't extricate yourself. Not to mention walking on the crowded street, the people around you are strangers, it seems that you are very lively around you, in fact, you don't know anyone, and the words in your heart can only lie in your heart, how can this make you not lonely?

I remember when I first went to college, I was very confused during the first period, it turned out that it was because I came to an unfamiliar environment, and secondly, because the people around me were not familiar, even if I introduced myself in the class at the beginning, but it still takes a while for people to get to know each other, and during this period, even if I am doing some activities, when I participate in them, I always feel very lonely, especially when they are noisy and ignore my existence, this feeling will be even stronger.

In fact, we will feel lonely, because our hearts are not strong enough, if we can give ourselves a sense of security, how can we have the comfort of others, how can we feel lonely alone, you can hug yourself, you are your own biggest dependence, otherwise, not to mention walking on the crowded street, even if you go out with your good friends, you will still feel very lonely, so if you can't make yourself strong, loneliness will always accompany you.

"Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people. This is a sentence that many literary and artistic young people often hang on their lips.

When I was a child, I read the Tang Dynasty poet He Zhizhang wrote in the "Returning to the Hometown Puppet Book" that "children don't know each other when they meet, and they ask where the guests come from", I can't help but feel infinitely sad, and when I grow up, I somehow begin to feel commonplace, and occasionally when I return to my hometown to see my childhood playmates, I am not as happy as when I was young, and I always feel that those unintentional remarks are no different from saying or not saying.

When I was a child, I watched the story of "The Prisoner's Dilemma" and thought that the prisoner was so funny, he would regard a small grass as his friend, isn't this no different from a madman in today's society? But when I grew up and began to get into psychology, I suddenly understood that for the prisoner, with no one by his side, Xiaocao became his spiritual support, for him, Xiaocao was his friend rather than a pure plant, and perhaps in his heart, Xiaocao just couldn't speak.

Therefore, the real loneliness is not that there are no friends, but that there is no friend who can let himself off his guard and confide his heart to him, for many people, even if they are giggling all day long, and there is always a group of people laughing and laughing around them, but the heart is still lonely. And this lonely method has never been to make a lot of friends without seeking quality, but to carefully choose a friend who can understand himself to make deep friends.

Loneliness is not exactly a kind of sadness, perhaps only this loneliness can give you enough time to think about life and understand what you really want? And this, not everyone has.

There are a lot of people on the street, but why has our mood changed?

It's all on your own. Everyone goes to the street to go shopping, or has their own destination to go, everyone will rarely stay on the love street, people come and go, everyone's face is filled with more or less smiles on the cheeks, and we only walk alone on the street, other strangers are accompanied by friends or their lovers, so it becomes a stark contrast with our own alone, they have no one to accompany them, naturally there will not be so many smiles shown, A moment of loneliness comes from this, and it is very uneasy to have no one around, so that your loneliness will erupt again, even if there are more people on the street, there is no way to make up for the loneliness in our hearts.

There are too many strangers. We walk on the street no one is their own acquaintance, in the street with many strangers surrounded by a lot of people they don't know will cause themselves to be very uneasy, and in this way we face the stranger's fear of rising, in their own world they are still lonely, no one to talk to themselves, so that our loneliness continues to increase, they have no way to control this loneliness, Even if we meet strangers on the street, we will feel very uncomfortable inside, not to mention that there are no friends by our side to accompany us, and the feeling of loneliness will always accompany us.

When we walk alone on the street, this feeling of loneliness will come out at any time, in fact, as long as we have a goal, this loneliness will dissipate a lot.

The main thing is that you feel lonely in your own heart and have no sense of belonging. This has little to do with the small number of people around and whether or not you are on the street.

I myself often have this feeling, a person in the field of work, especially when it is too dark, after work, looking at the shuttle vehicles, crowds, the surroundings are indeed very lively, but I always feel very lonely in my heart, I feel very confused, like I can't find the right direction of life, I don't know where to go, and I also feel that I can't integrate with the surrounding environment and crowd, at this time, there will be people I miss in my heart, but I don't know who I miss, I always feel very lonely, and even have the feeling of wanting to find a partner.

This kind of loneliness may come from being alone, or it may come from troubled things, or it may be that the work is not going well, I can't tell, I don't know, I just feel that I don't belong to any place on this lively street, sometimes I feel like the plot in a TV series, and the people who come and go are not in the same world, and the heart is still lonely, in fact, these are all from your personal inner thoughts and feelings.

Loneliness** is a feeling in your own heart. When no one can enter your heart, when there is no trust in each other, you are alone. The crowd on the street is just a single person, they surround you without any connection to you, and you are still alone in your heart.

Therefore, only when the mind is accompanied and released, you will not feel lonely.

It may be that I have been lonely for a long time, and I just go to a lively place alone to eliminate my loneliness, but I still feel lonely.

If you are depressed or anxious, you will feel lonely

Many people's inner dream is to get rid of the current living environment and settle down in the big city, they yearn for the prosperity of the big city, they want to live in such a busy place, and they hope to be able to realize their value in these places. But when they really arrive at this kind of big city, the initial freshness will make them more determined about the benefits that the big city brings to them, but after a while, they find that they are missing something, lack of honesty between people, communication between people, trust between people, and they begin to miss their original place, the kind of place that will make them very warm.

Living in a big city can be a common problem, and there seems to be a lack of a sense of harmony between neighbors, and it is impossible to love everyone, even in the workplace. I believe that everyone is unwilling to live such a life, even if there are a lot of things to talk to in their hearts, they can't find someone to talk to when they look through the phone address book, and no one can send them home when they get drunk in the middle of the night, this kind of life that no one cares about will make people become depressed, make people more closed, and think that they are a lonely person from the heart. They will also yearn for people who live in rural areas or small cities, where their neighbors are like family, and there are countless true friends around them.

There are differences between people, and different people's hearts will be different. Growing up in different environments, the character and quality of people are also very different, and they all say that rural people are honest, that is because they grew up in such an environment since childhood, and they have formed the habit of treating people sincerely. The bustling city, there seem to be a lot of interesting and interesting places, and there are many delicious people waiting for people to taste, but a person must be empty in his heart, the city is so big, no one to accompany him to go around, I think it's a pity, the small city is small, but everywhere are some people who know each other, and it must be like home everywhere.

Living in a bustling city, although there are huge educational resources, living resources, and entertainment resources, there is no way to make up for these feelings, so lonely people need a person who really understands themselves into life, so that the status quo will change.