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1. I don't like to be lonely.
What the elderly are most afraid of is being lonely and having no one to accompany them. But in today's society, young people are working hard outside, and rarely have time to accompany their parents, at this time the elderly should come out, participate in more group activities, make more friends, find a few people who can speak their hearts, stay away from loneliness, and the optimistic mood will benefit the elderly a lot.
2. I don't like to be idle.
When people are young, they often hope that they will have no worries about food and clothing in their old age and no longer have to work. But when you are really old and idle, you will find that you have no sustenance for your spirit, and you can't keep up your spirit every day, so you should have something to do when you are old, even if you help people deliver newspapers and collect water and electricity bills, you can make their lives more fulfilling and reduce the occurrence of depression.
3. I don't like to change.
There is a saying called to spend old age in peace, the older the elderly, the smaller the psychological capacity, the most unbearable changes in life, even a small frustration is enough to make the elderly not want to eat for several days. Therefore, once there is an accident, the family should give more attention and psychological relief to the elderly.
4. I don't like to be closed.
The elderly's awareness of society will deteriorate with age, and the elderly are reluctant to accept new things. Facts have proved that the more closed the elderly age faster, the more they think that they are not in harmony with this society, so it will be more beneficial for the elderly to come out of the closed environment, if the elderly can also be as loyal to the Internet and travel as young people, then the elderly will be physically and mentally happy, and reduce the occurrence of diseases.
5. Don't like diseases.
People are old and frail, some diseases often invade the body of the elderly, the elderly who suffer from diseases will become more and more fragile, lose confidence in life, such a bad mood is very easy to cause the deterioration of the disease, so repeated, extremely unfavorable to the health of the elderly. Such an elderly person needs to see a psychiatrist frequently and provide psychological counseling to him, so that he can maintain an optimistic mood, overcome the disease, and live a long and healthy life.
To avoid their adverse mental changes, we should pay attention to the psychological changes of the elderly, mental health is very important, children should take into account the thoughts of the elderly before doing things, effectively conditioning, to avoid affecting their physical health, usually, but also pay attention to some conditioning matters, children should be psychological counseling for the elderly to accompany the elderly.
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The psychology and thoughts of the 70-year-olds, I think that in fact, at the age of 70, they have basically reached the age of retirement and can enjoy their old age, and some of the basic psychology and ideas are still relatively open-minded, especially in the outlook on life, they may have experienced some difficulties and setbacks when they were young, but when they are old, they may basically get a retirement salary, and they may also be more bearish on many problems.
In addition, some 70-year-old people may not be willing to be lonely, or there are some old people who want to do something, well, some old or old people who have fun may also go out for a walk or something, but I think most of the old people should be more open-minded, because after all, at the age of 70, they should actually see through some things, especially things should be seen more thoroughly.
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I think 70-year-olds are very lonely in their hearts, and they all want their children to be by their side. How nice it would be.
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Yes, the old man doesn't have any ideas anymore, he just wants to live well, and he can eat what he wants.
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This is also different for each person and everyone's thoughts, and it cannot be generalized.
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Now that everything is still in business, we can find a way to solve this problem, and we must solve it.
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It's best to figure out why he's grumpy and prescribe the right medicine.
Maybe you're not there, he's lonely, or he's thinking about something, or he's staying at home and ......... there's nothing to doAnd so on.
If there is a reason, it is very easy to do, you help him find a way to solve it, and often accompany him to chat and play chess, ......
It may also be that your old man has this temper, so there is no way to do it, and he slowly adapts to ......
In addition, it may be a lack of nutrition and a sign of sub-health, which requires you to accompany him to the hospital for a routine physical examination to help him recuperate.
It's a two-pronged approach. I believe it will definitely improve
For the elderly at such an age, if chemotherapy is undertaken, it is difficult for the elderly to bear, we generally use traditional Chinese medicine combined with chemotherapy to reduce the reaction caused by the drug, reduce drug resistance, alleviate symptoms, and prolong survival.
After being beaten, please call the police as soon as possible, there will be a police record, and at the same time go to the hospital for treatment, and apply for forensic evaluation of the injury after the injury is stabilized.
If the injury is minor, the person who hits the person will be detained for 5 to 10 days, fined 500 yuan, and compensated for the loss of the injured person.
If it constitutes a minor injury by forensic examination, the assault person will be prosecuted and sentenced to at least three years in prison, with civil liability for damages.
The wind is cold and the bones are cold. It's like this when you're old.
False age 75 children have the same rights The custom is that you have prejudices The two sons get your property and should fulfill the obligation of support The daughter has done a good job The family and family negotiated to settle the trouble in court The children are not good-looking It is really helpless It can only be solved through the law.
Bonsai. Pneumonia can be treated, and the probability of the elderly getting pneumonia is very high! Generally, for more than a week, the drug is antibiotics. Smoke less and drink less, eat more fruits and lung-strengthening foods!
Uremia can not be cured, dialysis, kidney transplantation and the corresponding traditional Chinese medicine conservative ** can alleviate the condition, can improve the quality of the patient's survival, prolong, maintain the stability of the condition, where can you say cure, are money, it is recommended that you consult Beijing Chaoyang Hospital of Integrated Traditional Chinese and Western Medicine, Beijing Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Beijing **** nephrology doctor, choose the right symptomatic program and clinical medication. It can achieve the recovery of clinical symptoms and survive with creatinine!
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The elderly should exercise more, pay attention to calcium supplementation, and apply more sunscreen to prevent aging.
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In fact, according to the World Health Organization's age classification standards, people aged 60-74 are young and elderly, and 75-89 years old are classified as elderly people! So if you are in your 70s, which is really not a very old age, according to the standard of delayed retirement, you have only been retired for 5 years, how can you talk about aging? Isn't it!
Therefore, don't think that when you reach the age of 70, you are already old, this is a wrong idea, we still have to find ways to face a good life and start another stage of life.
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Of course, it is to face it calmly, this is a process that everyone will go through, and it is good to maintain a positive, optimistic and open-minded attitude towards life.
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I think it's important to face up to your aging because it's a natural phenomenon, as long as you keep a young mindset.
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You should look down on aging, face all this plainly every day, don't pay too much attention to your appearance, and the beauty in your heart is the real beauty.
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You must adjust your mentality, you must dance more square dances, you must go out for walks and communicate more, so that you can face aging calmly.
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70-year-old elderly, will face the problem of aging, must be treated with a normal heart, only do not accept the old, in order to delay aging, insist on exercising every day, develop good living habits, can delay aging.
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I think they should adjust a good attitude to face such things, after all, everyone has such a process, and aging is also a very normal thing.
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Keep a good attitude, often go out and do some sports, such as square dancing, tai chi, and have your own life.
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In psychology, senility is a subjective psychological experience, which is mainly affected by three aspects: changes in physical and mental state, changes in various abilities, changes in social environment and family status.
On the surface, when a person reaches seventy, his mentality will change dramatically, from the surging blood to living peacefully, from being full of resentment to being powerless, which can be said to be a major turning point in a person's spiritual world. In the case of rapid decline in perception, the body affects the psyche, and the psychological suggestion of "the older you get, the less useful it is" arises spontaneously.
At the same time, the people around you are changing what they call themselves, whether they are family or friends. Coupled with the drastic changes in family status, the death of friends and elders one after another, and the gradual slowdown of the pace of life, various factors bring a heavy sense of aging to the elderly.
Lack of social adaptability.
However, the world will not grow old because you are aging, on the contrary, new things will continue to emerge, and the so-called "generation gap" will appear at this moment. Old people will feel as if they have been abandoned by the times, and their hearts will naturally feel lonely, lonely, empty, and bored. This poor mood can accelerate aging, for example, long-term psychological burden can cause blood pressure to rise, increasing the probability of heart disease.
In modern society, the elderly generally lack social adaptability, and there are often such examples in real life, when one of the loving old couples dies, the other half will also die soon after.
Changes in family status.
In-depth analysis shows that the sudden death of a 70-year-old man is closely related to the change in family status. In modern society, before the age of 60, a person occupies the position of the backbone of the family, belongs to the main labor force and leader, and is the object of dependence.
After the age of 60, people's family relationships have changed, from the backbone to the marginal figures, from being dependent to relying on family members, this strong contrast makes it difficult for the elderly to accept, after all, we don't want to become someone else's "burden".
Psychologically speaking, in the process of helping others, people who are needed not only realize their own value, but also gain happiness by giving. At this time, the old man can only trouble others, in addition to getting corresponding help, perhaps only the guilt and self-blame after working others.
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When the elderly are old, especially after a serious illness, the physical and mental changes are something we cannot experience.
Maybe I have the same expectations as you, I hope that the old man will always have a bright heart and a clear mind, but the body is aging.
But the fact is that the brains of the elderly begin to degenerate, and they slowly become like children, unable to think rationally and control their emotions.
Medical knowledge is a kind of crystal intelligence, and if the crystal intelligence declines, the survival rate within 5 years is very low.
So at the moment your grandfather is in good health, and it does not affect survival. Because of brain degeneration, family members can't accept it emotionally, and it is difficult to take care of them.
When you say that grandma has complaints about grandpa, is it complaining about the current situation, or is it a complaint caused by historical events. Your grandfather may not even understand this.
At the age of 70, he has experienced a serious illness, and like a child, he needs to be cared for by his family. This is not something that enlightenment will solve the problem.
I think this is also the reason why many elderly people do not get proper care, and it is difficult for the younger generation to understand the degradation of the elderly, and the various unreasonable metaphors of the elderly are regarded as the intention of the elderly, so that the younger generations are dissatisfied and complained.
What you can do is to accompany the elderly more, talk to the elderly more, communicate more with family members, the old man didn't mean it, he couldn't control it.
I also know that some elderly people hurt their family members when they were young, and now they have to take care of them, and their families are dissatisfied.
Then let the family members of the elderly who have not been hurt take care of them.
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