Zhang Guimei, the principal of the women s high school, opposes being a full time wife, what do you

I think stay-at-home wives are also very hard, and when some husbands are busy with work and no one to take care of their children, women become full-time wives without hesitation, which is very great.

I find it hard to be a stay-at-home wife. They only live at home every day, and their lives are very worthless.

I think every woman who is a full-time wife is great, they are the same as men who work hard outside the home, they are all for the family, for the children, not every woman is willing to be a full-time wife at home, there are many reasons for this, so I think the society should look at the group of full-time wives with the right eyes.

I'm not saying that I look down on stay-at-home wives, I think stay-at-home wives will easily find their own value, which is the most terrible, no matter what, women do have to be independent, whether it is personality independence or economic independence, so I don't think women should be full-time wives.

Principal Zhang Guimei opposes full-time wives, is it a waste for highly educated women to be full-time wives?

The words are ugly and reasonable. In 2018, Huang Fuyan returned to her alma mater, Huaping Girls' High School, to donate, but was rejected by Zhang Guimei. At the first glance of the meeting, Huang Fuyan clearly saw the joy on Zhang Guimei's face, and after asking about the latest situation, the principal had no smile on his face.

The year after the donation was rejected, Huang Fuyan was admitted to a special post teacher in a primary school in Anshun, Guizhou. On the evening of October 27, Huang Fuyan responded in an interview with a reporter from Shangguan News, "Teacher Zhang's words are ugly and reasonable, (against being a full-time wife) She said it from our (female high school graduates) standpoint." ”

Zhang Guimei's refusal, the full-time wife, I think his response is to want to do what he should do, want to do what he wants to do, this is okay, but it is allowed.

How did Zhang Guimei respond to the refusal of a full-time wife, I think uh, if he doesn't want to be a full-time wife, then he must have his own ideas, he definitely wants to be a full-time wife who can take care of his family and work outside. Good wife.

If I respond to a full-time wife who refuses, I can say that I am a full-time wife and a full-time worker.

Regardless of whether I am a stay-at-home wife or not, I think that as long as I take good care of my family, such a family is also very happy.

He felt that his life was like this, and there was nothing wrong with him.

She seems to have said that she has changed it, but this principal is really good, so poor and free for others to study, I hope they will be more independent in the future.

How did Zhang Guimei's refusal, stay-at-home wife, respond? Well, a stay-at-home wife will say that I still have my ability to do my job well, and I still have the ability to live a better and happier life.

In this case, he must have his own inner thoughts, so no matter what, he must reply to the other party well.

You can tell him that a stay-at-home wife is also a job.

This kind of recall should be relatively good and can be solved, and this kind of problem can be solved at present, and it is full of its situation.

How did the "full-time wife" who was rejected by Zhang Guimei respond, and she needs to be herself**.

Stay-at-home wives are a very great profession, but I don't recommend women to be stay-at-home wives.

From the current point of view, the work of a stay-at-home wife includes handling household chores, including but not limited to laundry, cooking, cleaning, purchasing, paying utility bills and other emergencies. In this position, women are in a state of service and are not recognized by others and society most of the time. There is no digital presentation of the entire work results, which is a thankless type of work.

It means that women lose the initiative. In marriage, it is important that both men and women are evenly matched. In any relationship, the reason why men and women can talk on an equal footing is because their contributions and contributions are equal, so both parties have the right to speak.

ButWhen one of the partners begins to break away from society and return to the family wholeheartedly, it means that she is in a dependent position in the relationship

Everyone said that stay-at-home wives have a hard time dealing with these things every day, and they contribute more to the family. But from a man's point of view, if I don't make money, where will you get the money to buy vegetables and cook, and where will you get the money to buy this and that. Therefore, most men think that the whole family is supported by themselves, and they have never looked down on their wives who do housework every day in their hearts.

It's actually quite a cruel question. Because the family is not exclusive to women, but men do not have this problem. As for how to balance family and career, I don't think it's a question for women, it's about society as a whole.

I also hope that the society will stop talking about how great stay-at-home mothers are, what they need is not praise, but respect.

I think it's really bad to be a stay-at-home wife, because women don't have a voice.

It depends on the individual's choice, everyone has the right to choose what kind of life they live, if the family has a certain economic strength, the husband is good to you, and there is no problem at all to be a full-time mother; However, if the conditions at home are average, it is still recommended to go to work, so that you can be more financially free.

I think that a full-time wife is more hard, there are more chores at home, and I don't have my own free time.

This profession is hard, this job is not understood by many people, and husbands find it easy for their wives to be full-time wives.

Because once a woman becomes a stay-at-home wife, she will be out of society, and once there is a change in the family, she needs to return to the workplace, but the long-term absence from the job causes them to become very rusty in the business, and it will become more difficult to return to the workplace. When women become stay-at-home wives, they lose their social value. In addition, most women are housewives at all, and few families are financially rich enough to call the mistress "wife", and the husband cannot support the financial expenses of the whole family when he works alone.

Zhang Guimei is the principal of the women's high school, she has trained many female high school students, watching them get admitted to the ideal university through continuous efforts, Zhang Guimei hopes that these students can give full play to their talents after graduating from college, so she does not want them to be housewives.

Being a full-time housewife is a waste of one's talents

In addition to being a cook, a full-time housewife is also responsible for childcare, early education, cleaning, etc., which is not only tedious but also takes a long time. After women become full-time housewives, they have to work non-stop from morning to night, and there is no rest time, let alone five insurances and one housing fund. When women become stay-at-home wives, not only do they have no income, but they also have no room to use what they learn in school.

When Zhang Guimei was teaching in the mountainous areas, she saw the lives of many housewives, who had no job, were not financially independent, had no voice in the family, and had no ability to protect their children. Some women are also unable to be qualified mothers because they are not educated. The premise of one's independence is economic independence, and thus spiritual independence.

Women, like men, have a strong energy and need to achieve self-fulfillment. Both men and women who give up their jobs to devote themselves to their families wastes their talents. No one in the family should give up their job, whether it is childcare or housework, it should be shared by family members.

Because Principal Zhang Guimei said that women should have their own abilities, once a woman becomes a full-time wife, it means that she is out of touch with society and gives up self-growth.

Because a woman doesn't have a good personality after becoming a full-time wife, her temper will be very short-tempered.

Stay-at-home wives have a low status and have no security in life. The work of a stay-at-home wife is hard and is often misunderstood by others.

Because Zhang Guimei feels that women should be independent, have their own careers, and not be able to focus all their energy on the family, but also realize their own values, so she said that she disapproves of women being housewives.

Zhang Guimei founded a free girls' high school in Huaping, Lijiang, Yunnan Province, which gave many local girls from poor families more opportunities to study, and also helped many girls to go out of the mountains and go to the big city to break out of their own world. And Zhang Guimei became popular again because she rejected a donation from a graduate who was a full-time wife.

The student who walked out of the mountains and later became a full-time wife, Zhang Guimei, refused was named Huang Fuyan. Huang Fuyan came to the free girls' high school in 2008, and she was one of the first girls to study at the school after Zhang Guimei established the school. Huang Fuyan was successfully admitted to university after graduation, and later she went to Shanghai to develop, and in 2017, Huang Fuyan got pregnant after marriage, after thinking about it, she chose to resign, and came to her husband's hometown to become a full-time wife.

In 2018, Huang Fuyan returned to Huaping with 2,000 yuan to donate, but Zhang Guimei's expression changed when she learned that she was a full-time wife at the time, and finally Zhang Guimei politely rejected Huang Fuyan's donation.

After the donation was rejected, Huang Fuyan began to change, Huang Fuyan said that in the face of Zhang Guimei's rejection, she understood the principal's feelings very well, and Huang Fuyan knew that she did not meet Zhang Guimei's expectations. Zhang Guimei has always advocated that women should be independent and have their own careers, and they cannot rely on men. Huang Fuyan understands and agrees on this point.

So after Zhang Guimei rejected herself, Huang Fuyan also reflected on it, she went to take the special post teacher exam in 2019 and successfully passed the exam.

Stay-at-home wives are a dangerous profession, but they are not useless for stay-at-home wives have always been very controversial, and it is generally believed that stay-at-home wives have no financial **, have no voice in the family, and may increasingly have no common language with their significant other. The reality is that many families have to choose to let their wives quit their jobs to take care of their children at home, and stay-at-home wives are not what they want, which is really helpless. WhileStay-at-home wives don't have to be out of touch with societyAt home, they can tooTake time out to study and improve yourself; And I think that women's independence does not necessarily mean economic independence, but women's personality independence is more important.

After she was rejected, she felt that Zhang Guimei should be very disappointed in her. Because Zhang Guimei wants her to be an independent woman, not a full-time wife.

The full-time wife felt very ashamed after being rejected and felt that she had disappointed Principal Zhang, because she knew that Principal Zhang wanted women to be independent and not rely on men, and she did not do it.

After being rejected, she felt that she had disappointed Principal Zhang, because Principal Zhang wanted women to be independent, not dependent on anyone, have their own jobs, and become independent women.

She was also a little sad after being rejected, she felt disappointed by the teacher, so she worked hard to get admitted to the position of teacher afterwards.

She felt that she did not meet Teacher Zhang's requirements and did not handle her work well, which disappointed Teacher Zhang. Because Mr. Zhang has always asked them to be independent women, not to be like the older generation of women, who revolve around their husbands and children at home all day long, without their own careers.

After being rejected, the full-time wife thought that Ms. Zhang Guimei's words were ugly and reasonable, she felt that Ms. Zhang was considering from their standpoint, and she was very grateful to Mr. Zhang, women should have their own careers, if they should be independent, not completely without self.

was rejected by Zhang Guimei, and the full-time wife responded, "Teacher Zhang's words are ugly and reasonable, she said it from the perspective of a women's college." In fact, Zhang Guimei is very right, we women should be independent, not full-time wives, revolving around our husbands and children.

Indicates understanding. The person concerned expressed that he understood the teacher's original intention and respected that everyone had different ideas.

After being rejected, they responded that Teacher Zhang had been asking them to be independent women, saying that they did not meet Teacher Zhang's requirements, but no baby and mothers who gave birth to babies felt different.

I think it's very worthwhile, she is a woman who can go down in history, has made a great contribution to the advancement of women, is a heroine, patriarchal and she breaks this concept with her actions.

I think Zhang Guimei's deeds are really worthwhile, those patriarchal people reflect, and it also provides guidance for many people, they should pay attention to their own behavior and reflect on their own actions.

Yes. Zhang Guimei used her words and deeds to express to us the greatness of women, and those who favor sons over women should be ashamed.

I think it's worth thinking about because Zhang Guimei's actions have helped many female students get onto college campuses, and she has proved to people what women are capable of with her own actions.

It is worth pondering for patriarchal people. Zhang Guimei's deeds show the world that women can do more and better. With his own ability, he established schools in the mountains to teach children knowledge, trained generations of intellectuals, and made us realize that girls can be better than boys in the field of knowledge.

I think it is indeed worth pondering for patriarchal people, because her deeds also tell those who value couples that men and women are equal.