Between husband and wife, what are the four signs that prove that the marriage has existed in name o

The first sign is that two people have no common language and never speak together, the second sign is that they are separated from each other and are not in the same room, the third sign is that they each live their own days and do not give money to each other, and the fourth sign is that the two people are already as plain as water, as if there is no other party, which means that your marriage has existed in name only.

Two people are still a family on the surface, but two people have less communication and less communication together, and they often quarrel over some trivial things, and the other party can't look down on anything, just like the most familiar strangers, which is the symptom of existence in name only.

One is that they have different dreams in the same bed or have separated beds, the second is that they are speechless, the third is that they have never prepared surprises, and the fourth is that they have begun to distinguish the boundaries, all of which mean that the marriage exists in name only.

Two people don't communicate much or don't communicate much, and then two people basically choose to separate, of course, there are many times because of a little thing to quarrel with each other, it must also indicate that there is a problem in the marital relationship, the most important point is that everyone is financially independent, when this happens, it must mean that the marriage has existed in name only.

Two people have begun to be together in the same bed and dreams, without much communication and exchange, and will not take into account each other's feelings when making decisions, and are not willing to have too close contact with each other, which means that the marriage has existed in name only.

Two people are husband and wife on the surface, but in private there is no communication between the two people, they don't care about each other, they don't communicate, and everything the other party seems to have nothing to do with them, which is a sign of existence in name only.

It doesn't matter, the rest is a ** with a group photo posted.

The first manifestation is a negative attitude, the second manifestation is being trapped by interests, the third manifestation is mutual need, and the fourth manifestation is no longer appreciating each other. So about what these performances look like, interested partners can continue to read and understand.

1. Negative attitude; This manifestation refers to the attitude of not valuing, not cherishing, and not caring, everything has become an attitude of indifference, and there is no longer any belief in the hearts of two people to get better.

2. Being trapped by interests: This performance refers to the loss of the values of common struggle between the husband and wife, but the so-called interests, guarantees, and feelings are put in the first place.

3. Mutual need: This performance refers to the fact that I don't need you between another person, you don't need me, it can be said that it is completely independent, so it means that two people are no longer suffering a fate together, so that marriage is an empty shell.

4. No longer appreciate each other: This performance refers to the fact that two people see each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and cannot see any of each other's advantages, and two people will grasp each other's shortcomings and constantly torture each other to get their own happiness.

The four types of marriages that need to be divorced as soon as possible are these four, side one: marriages with domestic violence are not only physical violence, but also contain mental violence. Two:

The other party is not self-motivated, and Yun Daishi is almost a marriage of eating and waiting for death. Three: A marriage in which two people have been quarreling with each other because of their disagreement.

Four: There is a marriage of betrayal, because marriage must be faithful.

Summary. If there is no verbal and physical communication between husband and wife, then the existence of this marriage is meaningless. We people are social type of group animals, group animals are inevitably communication, ordinary people still need to communicate with the people around them every day, not to mention husband and wife, husband and wife do not communicate, then it is a stranger, the so-called love is also false.

If there is no communication between husband and wife, does it mean that the marriage is dead in name?

If there is no verbal and physical communication between husband and wife, then the existence of this marriage is meaningless. We people are social type of group animals, group animals are inevitably communication, ordinary people still need to communicate with the people around them every day, not to mention husband and wife, husband and wife do not communicate, then it is a stranger, the so-called love is also false. Of course, this kind of situation is more of a conflict between husband and wife, and it was only like this for a while.

Kiss, the teacher needs to understand, why are the two sides like this? Is it because of a quarrel or not?

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Quarrel. Dear, please make it clear, because of what quarrels, here is a private chat channel, you can rest assured, the more complete the information you provide, the better the teacher can provide you with a solution.

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Because of each other's families.

The other party's family acted unjustly.

Kiss, you may still have some concerns, the man's family is unfair, and then you quarrel with the other party? It's normal for couples to quarrel over something, and according to your information, your husband should also be the kind of stubborn and upright man.

The man doesn't communicate.

Did you start this argument in the first place?

If it is the contradiction that you have first, then you will take the initiative in the future.

Kiss, communication requires skills, not to say that once you stand in front of him, the other party is willing to communicate with you.

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I provoked it.

Think about it from your own perspective, after all, the other party is still angry, and it is normal to be unwilling to ignore you, you should calm down for the other party at present, wait for the other party to calm down first, and wait for the other party to calm down before making the next move.

Kiss, do you have any favorite items for your husband?

In the future, you can take the initiative to talk to him intentionally or unintentionally, for example, when eating, ask him for a favor or something, and then buy him a gift as an apology gift.

Kiss, if you let go, when giving gifts, take the initiative to say to the other party in a low profile, if the other party still loves you, then he is not willing to continue like this.

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The first performance is that the two people don't talk after getting off work, so they can't see each other, the second is to sleep back to back, and there is no communication, and the third is to go to ** and never feel sleepy and never report, and the other party never plays the ** bridge ruler skin to ask.

Not communicating, being like a stranger, not trusting each other, deceiving each other, not believing in the feelings of the other party, these manifestations are all "in name only, ruined and frankly defeated".

There is no sweet feeling anymore, two people often quarrel, and even some couples don't even bother to quarrel and have no common language.

Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, the one who saves her face in front of outsiders, the one who can't fight back and scolds her, and the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is ten years younger than him, who is willing to give birth to him, has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; disliked that he didn't know people, and had such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is reading a love letter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.

The marriage of the two people still exists, and for some reason there is no divorce, but there is no affection between the two people, they no longer love each other, and they are just a kind of marriage state that barely lives together.

In fact, the problem of the existence of marriage in name only does not arise in two or three days, but the contradictions formed through the accumulation of a long period of time make the marriage relationship more complicated.

Marriage solutions that exist in name only:

If the marriage between the husband and wife is in name only, then it is recommended that everyone calm down and think about it to see if it is necessary to maintain this marriage, if the two people are still very young and have no children, do not have too many thoughts, and it is more appropriate to choose divorce, because there is not much concern at this time.

On the contrary, if the two have been married for decades and now the two are over 50 years old, then this marriage can continue to be maintained, after all, real life is like this, not all couples can be harmonious for a lifetime.

If Shuheng has a child, and he wants to divorce but is reluctant to have a child, then he can find a way to fight for the custody of the child. <>