One year after graduating from college, how has your life changed?

When I first came to Beijing, I was very miserable, with a salary of 5k per month, which had to be given to my parents' family, and I had to pay rent, water, electricity, transportation, three meals and various living expenses, which was miserable. It's a little better after the salary increase, now I give 5k to the family every month, and the rest is at my disposal, in fact, the family is not short of this money, I insist on giving it to the family in order to prove to my parents that I can live well, so that the second elder don't worry. By the way, my parents didn't actually know that I was coming to Beijing, they thought I was still working in Guangzhou, so I thought it would be better not to tell them because they didn't want me to work far away, and I didn't want them to worry. ‍‍

On May 9, 2015, I finished my graduation defense, and I went to work two days later! It's really exciting, like a little sun, full of vitality and positive energy every day. At that time, the basic situation of the work was that the salary was 3k+, and the board and lodging were all included.

The freshness period is over quickly, the work is well controlled, and everything enters the dull period, so that the boredom period is over. Every day is like ringing a bell, going to work and waiting for the end of work. At that time, my classmates were no longer around, they were single, and my colleagues didn't have much friendship, so my life was bleak.

I don't dare to be idle, I'm afraid of cranky, I'm afraid of depravity, so I'll find something to do alone. ‍‍

In addition to visiting customers on a regular basis, my daily job is to be responsible for the infrastructure of the store. Sometimes, you can finish the day's work in one morning, and by the afternoon, you feel like you have nothing to do. Then you will find that the old employees of the company will have their own side hustles outside, and the income of the side hustle is higher than the salary of their own work, so you can imagine how many people in the company are messing around, which has a great impact on me later. ‍‍

In August 2015, after officially graduating, he entered the Foshan headquarters of Midea Group for a 10-day training, and a total of more than 1,000 graduates participated in the training, from all over the country, from various schools, and joined in different business divisions. The training content is very simple, and it is mainly corporate culture, quality development, simulation games, etc., and the first time I have close contact with the operation and management of the enterprise, I was still very excited. After the training at the group headquarters, the graduates were assigned to various business divisions, and I went to the refrigerator division in Hefei.

The business department level also organized training, but also carried out a week of military training, to be honest, the form is greater than the content, especially for sales, often the market macro level things, and these things, often will be dressed in a gorgeous coat, to give you faith and vision.

Although there was no promotion, the salary increase was successful. The monthly salary finally exceeded five figures just one year after graduation. I didn't mention this matter myself, but the boss took the initiative to add it.

One of the things that is particularly good about our boss is that he can see the efforts of anyone in the company. A few days ago, we had dinner together, and said that I was particularly optimistic about my future development, and I have worked hard recently, and my monthly salary will be increased by 2k, so that I can work hard in the future. ‍‍

Graduated from 985, majoring in environment, female. Four months after graduation and a full three months of work, because the first month was a variety of training and a week of military training. At present, I am doing sewage treatment work, which is related to my major, I like it very much, and I am not very tired of working every day.

Renting a house in Pujiang Town, Minhang, there is still a distance from the bottom station of the subway, and the working time needs 15mins bicycle + 50mins subway, and the rent is 1300 yuan. It just so happens that there is often no signal on the subway network, and it is rare to have an hour to read a book, so the journey to work is also a relaxing process for me, such as today, I just saw Zhang Sanfeng's ninetieth birthday, and the dragon slayer killed his proud three apprentices, I really want to know what happened behind and when Zhang Wuji appeared, but I have to wait until I get off work to know.

Life and rest have become standardized, because work has developed a fixed pattern, and there will be punctual rests and wake-ups.

This was not possible at school, where there used to be an early break for morning classes.

It's been a year since I graduated from junior college, and I have been doing an internship for a while after graduation.

Now I chose to continue my studies, and when I was working, I thought that I hadn't learned anything at all in three years of junior college, so I chose to transfer to an undergraduate program.

I'm sure I won't learn anything in the two years of undergrad, but that's okay because I want to use these two years to finish what I haven't done before.

Graduated in 14 years, second-tier city. After graduation, I went to the company of an off-campus teacher, and in the first year of work, I could only work hard and work hard, and there was no other choice. From 1500 to less than 3000.

After participating in the work, I realized that there is no job that is not hard, and there is no place where the personnel is not complicated. Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. Learn to keep a low profile, there will be gains and losses between trade-offs, don't worry too much. Learn to be down-to-earth and pragmatic, and the harder you work, the luckier you are.

Before work, I have been going to school, thinking every day when I can go to work, have my own income, I feel that school is too boring, and after graduation, I found that the original work is not so easy, the thinking degree of work, completely beyond the concept of learning, work is not so free, if you don't work hard, there is no gain, and slowly work has forced yourself to maturity and stability.

01. No one will easily forgive your mistakes just because you are a newcomer, and no one will take care of you because you are a girl.

02, you are not the center of the world, you are just a community of interests in the world, there are few sincere friends, but there is no one who wants to fight when you open the **book**.

03. Cherish your body, exercise more, go to bed early and get up early, keep studying, keep traveling, even if your legs and feet are not on the road, you must let your heart be on the road.

04. Don't be afraid, if you are confused, others have also been confused, just walk over.

05. Adults only care about interests, and children can distinguish between right and wrong.

06. You can choose how to treat others, but you must not expect others to do the same to you.

07, there is nothing to be sick with, nothing is not without money.

The biggest changes before and after work What are the changes before and after work.

In the year of graduation, I couldn't afford to pay for my own treatment.

08. Money is really important. I used to think that people who value money too much are realistic, but without money, it's really hard to move an inch!

09. The rules of social operation are different from your own, you can't do your own thing, and sometimes you have to please you against your will.

10. It's hard to get someone who pushes you and cares about you like the original teacher.

11. Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about room expenses, meals, water and electricity expenses.

12. Don't tell your colleague that you are resigning when you haven't resigned.

13. Clear at all times, don't always take out your own set.

14. Exposed and beautiful, bitter and self-productive.

15. Many things, even if you work hard, you can't get satisfactory results.

16. The books you didn't read, the classes you didn't take, and the steps you didn't run when you were in school will one day make you all come back.

17. When I went out, I realized that I was nothing.

1. Unable to enjoy one's own life.

The biggest feeling of working for a year is that I don't have my own life anymore, it's not that I don't want to enjoy my life well, drinking a cup of tea, reading a book, watching a movie, going out for a walk and blowing the wind, all of which are very pleasant things, but the endless work, the bad Party A and the messy inexplicable things can always easily interrupt my life plan, in short, out of balance.

2. More down-to-earth.

I am more down-to-earth than a year ago, and my life is initially on the right track, but I still need to continue to improve, and I have begun to think about my future and plan my life.

3. I am very tired every day, repeating my sex life, going to and from work, passing by places, and which vendors on the street all remember clearly.

There is no particular freshness, and the days are all repetitive.

I didn't earn any money, but I was physically and mentally exhausted.

4. Mental fatigue.

I can't seem to make up for how much sleep I get, I want to sleep all day every weekend, my friends are very busy even in a city, and it is difficult to see each other once, thinking that I can do what I am interested in after work, but overtime takes up most of my time.

5. The sense of life is dulled.

It is not easy to perceive those small surprises and changes in life, and there is nothing special about the temperature difference between the four seasons.

Can't smell summer in the air.

I only understand the truth after work.

1. Most people want you to be doing well, but they won't want you to be better than them (except for your parents).

2. Don't judge others casually.

People always like to judge others, but they hate others to judge themselves. We need to control our mouths, don't use those so-called chicken soup to judge others, any empathy is nonsense, you have not experienced other people's lives, how do you know how others feel. What we need to do is to do our own thing, and when others are in trouble, we will help them instead of just talking.

3. Don't be embarrassed to reject others.

You will meet a lot of people in your life who will trouble you with all kinds of things, and if you don't refuse you, it will be very uncomfortable, and sometimes you help them, and they may not thank you. After a long time, it will become a matter of course for you to help him, and if you don't help him one day, he will immediately speak ill of you behind his back. Remember that those who are kind enough to annoy you are not good people.

4. Don't trust others too easily.

We must learn to distinguish what is true and what is false. You can believe 5 out of 10 sentences, because many people will definitely have a bit of pompous decoration in their speeches, and their own ideas.

5. Some things would rather lose than win.

It's not important to lose rather than win. Because if you win everything, no one will play with you, and if you let others win something unimportant, people will know that you are selling favors.

I think it's a good change to become not afraid of making a fool of yourself. When I first graduated, I was always embarrassed to ask questions whether I was in the office or on the construction site, because my inner thought was: I want to show that I understand, but I can't let others think that I don't know anything.

Even if you don't understand, you have to pretend to understand it very well, otherwise you will feel ugly. Now that I've seen it, it's normal to not understand, especially when I go to the construction site to calculate drawings in the office, it's normal to not understand. Ask what you should ask, even the most mentally retarded answer to the question, ask, no one will laugh, no one will report to the superior:

Hey, that guy in your cost department doesn't know anything! "I used to think too much, in fact, the people on the construction site are almost the best group to communicate, as long as you ask, whether it is an old construction worker, or a young formwork worker, they all know everything to tell you, and you don't understand the words for a while, he will tell you in detail, and even take the trouble to run down the foundation pit full of silt, climb up the dangerous platform to point and tell you what is going on. I've never seen a look of contempt and contempt on their faces, they're a huge knowledge base, and of course, you're being polite...A comrade who smokes a cigarette or something is better than reading half a book.

Face and accept your own shortcomings, instead of trying to change yourself and pretend to be someone else in pursuit of a goal. There is a lot less pomp than before, and life is getting more and more real. Understand the difference between being ambitious and ambitious.

I have a deeper understanding of people than before, and I no longer care too much about them, or ignore them completely. Got it"Career isn't everything"In this way, a happy life is the result of a balance of many aspects. Stop being superstitious about authority and try to think for yourself.

Realize that all conflicts are conflicts of interest or misunderstandings. Therefore, learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and be tolerant to others.

Let's take a look at the uncontroversial changes that are obvious to all! As far as I'm concerned, I've been working for a few years, so maybe my personality has changed. I still remember very clearly that in junior high school, high school, and college, I had a quarrel with my friends who had a better relationship, and my personality was relatively hot at school at that time.

I was a bit more self-centered at the time, and thankfully, my emotional outbursts and lack of scruples didn't cost me my friends and the people I cared about. They are still considerate of me, still tolerant of me, and still by my side until now, and I need to solemnly thank them for their companionship.

When I was in college, my life couldn't be said to be extravagant or particularly good, but it was still very nourishing, and it was a very normal life to go shopping and go out for a big meal. After working for a few years, I found that my life was getting worse and worse, and I had made money, but I was not as good as the school student Wang Gao, who used to have my parents' money and didn't worry about what to do if the money ran out, and now I don't have any money left in my life except for monthly rent, water, electricity, transportation, and food.