Honest people often choose to tolerate things, but there are two things that must not be compromised

Honest people often choose to tolerate things, but what two things must not be compromised? There is a type of person in life who is honest and helpful and helpful, and we are also called "good old people". This kind of person has many friends, is easy to get close to and trustworthy, but is also easy to be targeted by some people who like to take advantage of small advantages.

Honest people want to protect themselves, there are two things that can't be endured. One is something that undermines dignity, and the other is something that deceives feelings.

Dignity is the backbone of a person, and it is the confidence of a person to walk the world with a straight back. If someone belittles you in the name of a friend and makes you lose your sense of self-worth, please stay away from such people as soon as possible. These people tend to do things that make you lose your dignity, such as directly belittling you in public; Then your shortcomings are joked around; disagree with your grades, etc.

They also tend to have a rhetoric that says it's for your own good. But a true friend will not do anything to hurt you, these people may approach you at the beginning with the mentality that you are inferior to him, they only want to gain superiority by hurting you, he will not do it for your good, they just want you not to surpass him. Therefore, honest people can't be human when they encounter things that damage their dignity, don't think about enduring the sea and the sky once, and the result will only be an inch.

Another thing is to deceive feelings. This kind of thing is usually approached by some people for some kind of benefit, and once you are no longer useful, they immediately put it aside. This kind of thing can never be tolerated, feelings are a major feature of people, we all hope to exchange sincerity for sincerity, you treat me well and I naturally do not treat you badly.

But people who cheat on their feelings are like spending everywhere with counterfeit money, just thinking about asking for it and not knowing how to give. What's more, they use their feelings to trap you, hot and cold, greet you with a smile when you have a need, and be a stranger if you don't need it. Therefore, when encountering things that deceive feelings, you should also say no in time.

The sincerity and kindness of an honest person is a precious virtue, but you should also pay attention to be flexible, carefully identify those things that take advantage of you, and protect yourself.

That is, when the family is humiliated and the interests are conflicted, they must not give in, otherwise they will be bullied by others very badly.

The bottom line is the matter of one's parents, lovers, family and children, and the interests are not more than oneself, but others cannot be involved in their own interests.

1. To deal with unreasonable requests, you must know how to refuse reasonably 2. When you are reasonable, you can't tolerate being bullied.