What kind of vices will make people more and more mediocre in the future?

People are a process of continuous growth, and naturally, there will be some external environmental factors that will affect us, resulting in some changes in our personality. In real life, good habits can make a person, while bad habits can make people regress.

Writer Li Shanglong once said, "It's very simple to abolish a person in a big city, a network cable, a takeaway**, and a computer." "As a result, the person will take a big step towards mediocrity. While it's true that people are used to living in a comfortable zone, you have to have a certain sense of crisis, otherwise, if your life is in trouble, you won't be able to do anything about it.

Frankly speaking, the reason why people need to maintain a sense of crisis is nothing more than to make you better adapt to society and prevent problems before they happen. Society is actually very realistic, when you are down, you have to learn to rely on yourself, and few people will help you. Moreover, the current social Darwinian law is rampant, and if you are too weak, you will be easily bullied.

You can only make yourself stronger, firstly, you can not be afraid of any wind and rain, and secondly, you can adapt to the laws of nature. Otherwise, if you don't change your habits too much, your life will be full of crises. And according to the actual observation of life, when a person has these two vices, it will be very mediocre.

First, the habit of complaining, full of negative energy.

Complaining is the epitaph of a person's failure, in life, there will be many unsatisfactory things, although these will bother a person, annoyance, frustration, but if you complain, it will not solve any problems. In psychology, complaining is a kind of negative emotion of a person, which will devour people's joy and happiness.

I have heard a saying that when you break down and are sad, or when you fall into darkness, your shadow will leave you. Since this is the normal state of life, you can change yourself through your own ability, and don't lose hope for the future because you are in the dark.

What kind of life a person wants to live comes from your mentality and your behavior habits. You are used to it, you have a positive and enterprising heart, and even if you are in danger, you have the ability to get out of trouble. As the saying goes, it is the people who do the work.

So, no matter what you are facing, don't be discouraged, persevere, and you will definitely be able to break through all the difficulties and obstacles.

Second, being selfish and lacking generosity.

Some people say that people should be generous, and the so-called generosity is to be willing to pay for others. If a person is too stingy, it will be difficult to accumulate good popularity and prestige. In fact, the beginning of a person's mediocrity indicates that he has been tainted with the vice of selfishness.

At all times, people are mutual.

If you are good to me, I will be good to you. If you are selfish, others will not be generous to you. In life, the main reason why some people are popular, have strong ability, and have a certain status in society is that they have a big pattern and can keep all things in mind, so that others will recognize him.

If you lack this, be selfish and don't reflect on yourself, you will easily fall into a dark path and will not be able to find a better way out. And only if you dare to open up your own pattern and think more about others, your future road will be bright and hopeful.

For example, people who are lazy, lazy, gambled, lucky, clever, and opportunistic will become more and more mediocre in the future.

1.Love to stay up late.

2.I love to talk about other people's gossip, and I don't hold back my mouth.

3.Too much for yourself, especially for what you like to learn and put into use.

Lazy, unkempt, alcoholic, these types of people, no matter how they go, they can't do things well, they will only make themselves more and more decadent, and their lives will become more and more mediocre.

People who are lazy to eat, do not seek to be motivated, do not do their jobs every day, eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, will become more and more mediocre in the future and will be looked down upon.

If a person has the habit of eating and being lazy, then the person's future is destined to be mediocre, and he will also be particularly not rich.