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When in love, every woman hopes to meet a man who is not too small about herself, willing to tolerate and take care of herself, in the eyes of women, as long as two people love each other, it is enough, even if there is not enough economic foundation.
But marriage is different, there are too many things to face, not only the love between two people, but also the reality between each other, all kinds of tribulations in reality will easily wear out a person's heart, making people lose illusions about love from now on.
In our real life, if a man is not willing to be motivated, idle and lazy every day, and does not know how to plan for the family, then no matter how much effort a woman makes, she will not get anything in return in the end, and her enthusiasm will gradually be exhausted.
Everyone is mortal, and no one is born a millionaire unless you have a very strong backer. But in the absence of sufficient economic foundation, everything needs two people to work together.
What is really worth cherishing is not the man who has a thousand to give you eight hundred, but the man who has ten yuan and is willing to give you nine and a half yuan, it doesn't matter if you suffer a little, but you will never be allowed to suffer with him.
When you're in a low mood, you'll find ways to make you happy.
Some time ago, I saw netizens post on the Internet in his parents' daily life, which caused everyone's discussion, **Two people who are almost fifty years old, when his wife is unhappy, his father makes all kinds of grimaces, all kinds of to make her happy, and finally the two of them laugh like children.
At that moment, I suddenly felt, isn't this the best love? Even if you don't have money now, as long as you know that you are in a downturn, he can always think of ways to make me happy, maybe he is also under a lot of pressure, but in front of you, he is not so important, you are the most important, you frown slightly, he feels that it is his own problem, and he has not been able to give you a good material life.
In this era of scumbags everywhere, no matter how much a man says, just listen to it, you don't need to take it all seriously, after all, people have a mouth, they can say anything, and if they want to see his sincerity, they can understand it clearly from the little things in life.
And the man mentioned above, even if he has no money, you should not abandon it easily, because in his heart, you are far more important than himself, as long as you take it seriously, you will find that in fact, he is a treasure, and he will definitely be able to live a good life in the future.
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A very hardworking man should not be abandoned casually. A man who is poor now does not mean that he will always be poor in the future, as long as he works hard and progresses, he will definitely live a good life.
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It is the kind of man who is particularly ambitious or self-motivated, even if he is poor at the beginning, but he can have a career after hard work.
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He is particularly self-motivated in life, and has a cheerful and optimistic personality, and has a special plan for himself, even if a man has no money, a woman will not abandon a woman at will, thinking that such a man is a dark horse.
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When a man lives a very poor and shabby life, a man who is also concerned about your food and clothing should not be abandoned, prove that he loves you very much and puts you first and foremost. When you're unhappy, he will do everything he can to make you happy.
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It's not terrible for men to have no money, it's terrible to be unmotivated, so for those who don't have money but are responsible, willing to struggle, not afraid of hardship, and would rather suffer themselves than suffer you, women don't give up casually.
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In life, I think that men who have the following characteristics should not be abandoned even if they have no money. First of all, there are men who can cook, and in today's world where men are outside and inside the women, there are relatively few men who can cook, so please cherish men who can cook. Secondly, men who are honest and honest, and who will back down and compromise in the quarrel between the two are also very precious, because the character of such men is often gentle and not aggressive, and such men should also be cherished.
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A man who is willing to work hard, self-motivated, and very responsible, even if he has no money, don't throw it away at will, because this kind of man will get ahead one day, and even if he has no money, he will definitely not be bad for you.
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If you have a skill and a particularly outstanding quality, an upright and self-motivated man should not be abandoned casually.
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A man with ideas and ambitions. Even if such a man has no money for the time being, he will make a difference in the future.
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Not everyone is born with a lot of wealth, a large part of men need to rely on their own efforts, self-made, if a man is willing to work hard in life, women should not abandon it at will, because such a man even if he has no money now, he will have it in the future.
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Even if such a man has no money in life, a woman should not abandon it at will:1A self-motivated man, even if he doesn't have money now, I think he has a certain future, and the future will be bright, 2
Men with an open heart and a vision should not be abandoned at will, because they are a potential stock that will burst out of their own energy at any time.
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A man with ambition and ideals is unyielding in life, and a woman will not abandon him no matter what, because he knows that this man will definitely be able to make a comeback in the future.
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In life, a man who works very hard, even if he has no money, a woman should not abandon it at will, because sooner or later he will soar one day.
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Summary. Dear, I will find out for you: because most men have not abandoned their wives who have suffered with them after they have succeeded. In reality, many people call those women who are lazy after marriage, whose mothers are expensive to rely on their children, and who complain that men are unproductive.
Dear, I will inquire for you: because the first part of the men on the side are in the hall after success, they have not abandoned the wretched wife who is suffering with him. In reality, many people call those women who are lazy after marriage, whose mothers are expensive to rely on their children, and who complain that men are unproductive.
In fact, there is a big problem with this statement. Because many people are stuck with the term "wife of chaff" and have a deep misunderstanding. The true meaning of the term "wife of chaff" refers to a wife who is suffering together, not a wife who is terrible.
Most of the rich men's women who are abandoned are not the wives of the chaff who accompany them in their suffering, but they think that if they do not grow, it will not help them, and will only drag down their wives. Although this may seem outrageous, it is a very realistic thing. In the blind date market, the criteria for men and women to choose a mate are actually self-interested behaviors, and if the other party does not meet their own standards, it is naturally impossible to be selected.
For many modern couples, it is because of the relationship of interests, if the relationship of interests is not balanced and maintained, the relationship will naturally fall apart. Between a husband and wife, if there is only a relationship of interest and no foundation for love, then the relationship is also destined to be fragile, because it cannot withstand a little test.
But after marriage, men worked harder and harder, and gradually became famous in their own circles, and then they became taller and taller in and out of the occasions, and met more and better women. And after marriage, women are lazy and lazy, without any promotion, and the gap with men is getting bigger and bigger, and they can't even say that they are together, and participating in company dinners with men will only give men a shame or a mega answer, but not men can bring any help. How do you think their relationship will develop?
The answer must be that the relationship is getting farther and farther apart, or even a complete separation. Even if the man does not abandon this woman, it is entirely based on the affection of the husband and wife and the responsibility given by society. Because their union at the beginning was because of the relationship of interests, and when this relationship of interests is replaced and does not exist, everything will naturally disappear.
In my opinion, a good marriage must be both love and bread, and be content with each other.
And if a couple has an emotional foundation for each other, then even if they have material problems, they can maintain the relationship with each other's feelings.
Dear, here is a suggestion: try not to look for the kind of man who likes the new and hates the old.
Pro, the family is the common responsibility of two people, and the responsibilities of both parties should be shared. If the discussion is not good, both parties go out to work, and all the housework is shared equally.
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Not necessarily, girls don't all look at money, they need to be looked at on a case-by-case basis. One is that the boy has no money but works hard, such a boy is a potential stock, although the current economic conditions are not good, but he has been thinking of a way, finding a way, every day is thinking about how to increase his income, how to create better living conditions for the family. This kind of boy is highly motivated, and will work hard to ensure the basic expenses of the family, observe the success of others, imitate the ideas and practices of successful people, or try to find the experience of others who have not succeeded, and realize their dreams in a new field.
For example, the founder of KFC, Harlan Sandoz, did not find a breakthrough in his career until he was 65 years old, and only then did he have the world's chain fast food brand. Another example is Qi Baishi, who made a living by selling paintings until he was 57 years old, and then became a famous painter. If it is such a boy, the girl will not get divorced.
The second is a boy who is lazy and sits on the mountain. Such a boy doesn't seek to be motivated all day long, he can make do with it every day, he has to get by at work, he copes with things, he may not even have a job, and he doesn't want to find a job. Even though the family was once in good condition, he left a lot of property.
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Summary. He wanted abalone and bear paws, but he couldn't have both, so he used some means to find a way to get both.
A man has a rich woman and a woman who has no money, he doesn't want to lose either woman, and for the sake of the rich woman, he hides the woman who has no money.
He wanted abalone and bear paws, but he couldn't have both, so he used some means to find a way to get both.
Hello teacher, he blocked me again and again for the sake of a rich woman, because the woman asked him, he hid me, saying that he was protecting me, recently this woman came to abuse me, what do you say I should do, in fact, I am already planning to give up, and I have made it clear to this man that I will no longer contact me.
I'm very aggrieved, obviously this man has come to me again and again, but in the end it's my fault, I feel uncomfortable, and I don't know how to let go.
What happens if you don't give up? Can this man give up that rich woman for you? Are you going to continue to live that kind of hiding life?
This man wants to provoke you again, and he can't give you the life you really want, so does he really love you? Or is it to satisfy his own selfish desires?
No, he doesn't love me, I'm being abused, he says it has nothing to do with him.
Yes, since you understand that he doesn't love you, then you leave her, and you will inevitably be indignant or aggrieved at the end of a relationship, but it will be fine after a while, and you don't have to keep entanglement with him, it's always very uncomfortable.
Mmmm, thank you teacher for <>
You're welcome, I hope you can be happy
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Since you choose to care about the other party, you should be responsible, no money is temporary, as long as you have enough efforts, you will definitely be able to change the status quo, and happiness needs to be fought for and created by yourself.
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is responsible, he doesn't want the woman he loves to suffer with him when he has no money.
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I think you should be responsible, you must work hard to make money to give women a better life, there is no point in running away.
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I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike. Do not disturb if you are not sincere. Satisfied, thank you.
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