My girlfriend always says that my ex is good, and I mind very much, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-03-15
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, it's normal, everyone wants the other party to be a blank piece of paper, hopes that they are the first person to draw the first stroke on this paper, everyone wants the other party to belong only to themselves, whether it is the past, the present, or the future, it is just their own, love is this - possession. However, I would like to ask, are you living in the present or living in your boyfriend's past, the past is gone, and you should be thankful that you are together now, you know? Every one of you who inadvertently passes by is the guy called "happiness", don't always live in someone else's past, don't use the past to hurt the present, it's not worth it, what you're doing now is like an excavator-style love, when you know a little thing, you want to know more, so just know a little, dig a shovel, when you know it all, you may find that you have dug a big hole, at this time you want to climb up too difficult.

    Why bother, don't compare his kindness to you today with his past women, there is no comparison, I don't believe that a person who can tell you his past story is sweet, and now you are his favorite, what are you bothered about, don't you think it's ridiculous like this? Now the person who should be jealous is not you, but the person you said, she will be jealous that your boyfriend has you by his side, and many problems will be very different if you think about it from a different angle. If your boyfriend keeps asking you about the past and then minds very much, do you think, can you stand it?

    How do you explain that? It's not necessary, it's really not necessary, sometimes cherish it, don't tell me you cherish it now, although I know, but don't lead yourself down the wrong path, and don't force your love to the end of the road. Relieved, that feeling is good, bless you ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you mind very much, in fact, it doesn't matter, no man won't mind, but I don't think you should let this mind interfere with your feelings, because Qi Pei couldn't participate in the previous time, in fact, you don't have the right to speak.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have seen a sentence selling and dismantling: All you can enjoy is the love she brings you, but not her. Since the past cannot be changed, why should we care, if you have the energy, you might as well think about how you can enjoy the current life.

    If you really can't let go of the past, then break up, be responsible for this girl, and it's a relief to answer yourself and imitate yourself. Good luck with the fiber.

    Questions. Often want to break up. But really reluctant.

    Give yourself a clear deadline, and if you can let go of it in between, it's best to give up the relationship. It's a responsible approach to both you and to her.

    Questions. But I'm really in love with him now. In the beginning I was in his ex.

    I suggest that you calm down for a while, think about it, and if you still want to be with her, you can talk to her for a while.

    Questions. I love him more and more now. He didn't know what was going on in my heart.

    That's why you two need to talk about it, but you can make an appointment for a drink, and the two of you will tell each other all the inner thoughts of the two people, and you can't solve it by hiding it.

    Questions. I don't dare.

    He loved me very much. I'm afraid of losing him.

    Dear, don't be afraid, the more you are like this, the more inferior you are, the more painful, sometimes you talk about it, how not to let go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You've already been split up with your girlfriend, what do you still mind about this, he's all ex, but you still have to work hard, otherwise you can't say when you will sell it and run away with the state royal teaser.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. You can tell her "I love you now, not her, I want you to see more of us now and in the future, if we keep dwelling on the past, it will be a waste of time and energy".

    My girlfriend minds how I have an ex to talk to her.

    You can tell her "I love you now, not her, I want you to see more of us now and in the future, if we keep dwelling on the past, it will be a waste of time and energy".

    You can also tell her "I did fall in love, but that was in the past, I hope we can focus on the present so that we can be in a better relationship, I love you now, I hope you understand".

    This is my understanding. If you think mine is not comprehensive enough, you can talk about the situation in detail, and I can help you better

    She minded that I had made my ex relationship public before, and not her relationship with her.

    Uh-huh, I saw your reply.

    Then you can tell me why you didn't make your relationship public.

    What are your concerns? Then you can look at it rationally and explain it to her further.

    It's just that I'm afraid of the gossip of the people around me.

    Uh-huh, I saw your reply.

    What kind of gossip?

    Why do people say that you are together?

    Because you're in a normal relationship.

    Why do people gossip?

    My idea is that your feelings are your business, and you don't have to worry about it so much. If you haven't figured it out for yourself, give yourself some time and then decide.

    This is my understanding. If you think mine is not comprehensive enough, you can talk about the situation in detail, and I can help you better

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