If you open up a third child, will you continue to have children?

my god!Now the second child is already unbearable, and if it were me, I wouldn't want the third child.

If your standard of raising a child is just to feed him and dress him warmly, study in the most ordinary school, wear clothes and cheap stalls, even if he is not sick or hospitalized, then I think that as a salaryman, a family with a monthly salary of 5,000 is estimated to be hovering on the edge of food and clothing. Not to mention enjoying a better education and taking your children to see the world farther away. Without money, everything is empty and blown!

But as a parent in charge, I hope to improve the quality of life, let the child enjoy better educational resources, let the child to appreciate the wider world, then, this kind of raising has made me a little unbearable, if I want another one, I'm sorry, I really, absolutely not. To tell the truth, after giving birth to my second child, I immediately pressed the contraceptive ring, what I was afraid of was that I accidentally got pregnant, and the guilt of a small life being nipped in my bud was something I didn't want to experience as a mother at all.

So I really don't want to, and I don't want to lower the standard of living for me and my family, just because of having one more child. I want my children to live in a better environment. In today's China, if you want to enjoy good educational resources, you need to bear more than the cost of ordinary schools, and in addition, the cost of medical care is getting higher and higher.

Under the current system of social security, unless you really have a certain amount of economic strength, you are really irresponsible for the child in the future.

Although the state is advocating a second child, or even a third child, the follow-up guarantee is not effective, which will still arouse the most profound cry of the majority of people: I can't afford to give birth!

No, absolutely not! Two children have already made me so tormented, who would want to have a third child!

I think the biggest feeling after giving birth to a second child is that after giving birth to Xiaobao, I thought that Dabao was sensible, and there would be a psychological gap, so I did everything to Dabao, and tried to protect Dabao as much as possible. So, there is a saying that I like my daughter and I don't like my son, and I also say that my son is not my own! I'm drunk too!

I think a child of a few months knows something! Someone can't hold it, what kind of fun do I have to join in, I control Dabao's emotions first is the most important thing! This is the generation gap, a generation gap that cannot be crossed!

There's no way, who made me not have such a strong financial ability, I can wave my hand and say that I don't care about anything, I will ask my aunt to ask the nanny to do it all by myself!

Then, speaking of which, I have a friend who has indeed given birth to three children, and we all admire her courage! However, she has this economic condition, there are two aunts in the family, one is responsible for cleaning and the other is responsible for taking care of children, the eldest daughter has gone to study abroad, the second son she is taking by herself, has been in elementary school, after the younger son was born, it has always been an aunt with me, in fact, if there are such conditions, I am also willing to have a third child. Because you don't have to worry about it yourself!

However, in a situation like hers, the monthly aunt expenses alone are more than 10,000 yuan, this kind of consumption, I think it is not acceptable to the masses, plus various family expenses, and then there are children's school expenses, the monthly expenses can almost catch up with the annual income of other ordinary families.

Therefore, the most people in society are ordinary families, and for ordinary families, such consumption is indeed too high, so most people, I think, must be unwilling to continue to have three children. After all, the pressure is too much.

Absolutely not, if you have three children, the whole family will have to eat soil......

The key is that no one brings it, is not afraid of life, all kinds of services can't keep up, education is also a problem, quality is required, not more.

will not be reborn, having a second child has been fooled, giving birth to a second child is really tired, and Dabao can't take care of it.

If you put it, you will give birth to it......If you don't let go and don't get angry, everything will be ...... just as you goHaving a child is a contribution to society.

Will it be born, isn't it good to have more children? I also have two children, and I am very tired, but it is praised.

I feel so tired before I was born, and I don't want two children, let alone three, both physically and psychologically.

No, it's just right to give birth to two, and the third one is redundant, plus no one to bring it!!

Raw, why not, I want to give birth to a little daughter, if I let it be born, I will give birth! ，

No, the first is middle-aged, the second is too tired, and the third is that I think a child is very good and can concentrate on training, regardless of the future.

I will, I think three children are just right, the population is aging too much, I was a little tired when I was young, and I will be happy in the future.

Hello, now that the third child is open, some people will also choose to have a second child, because for the elderly, they all hope that their children will have at least two children, and the old people feel that having two children, the children and grandchildren are quite painful, and it is more lively, but the young parents of the 80s and 90s are under great pressure. There are three reasons for this.

Pregnancy begins to need money for prenatal checkups, money for giving birth to a baby, education funds, daily life, there is no place to leave money, and the price is much higher than wages, even the daily life of a family can not be guaranteed, many families in rural areas are not even satisfied with the place to live, a family of three is crammed into a room of less than 30 square meters, there are still many such families in rural areas. The proportion of rural areas is relatively high.

2.Having more children will affect the relationship between husband and wife. 3 children, then it must be the mother who quits her job to take care of the children, and then only the father works alone.

Every day, two adults are like a war, they can't understand each other, and the mother wants the father to take a look at the child, and the father says that he is very tired after a day of work; leads to quarrels every day, so children are destined to not grow up healthily in such an environment, and they are easy to divorce, compared to the current divorce rate, there are few people who want to get married.

3.There is no freedom at all. 3 children, it's okay to go around the child every day, go out, no, the child looks for his mother; Eat a meal, I haven't had a good meal since I had a child; Take a bath, the child cries, and the family says you wash for so long.

These 3 reasons are enough to break the heart of the third child, and many postpartum depressions come little by little! Unless the child is born, there is no need to worry about the cost of childbirth, and there is no need for the mother to bring it herself. In short, it is to have money, then everything is not a problem.

Everyone's thoughts are different, some people have one child, some people have two children, and some people have three children, but I think you can have two children, and you can't be lonely with a partner, right? is such a choice.

1.Families with two sons or two daughters.

Such families will have some regrets, and they want to have both children and daughters. For their unfulfilled wishes, if the country opens up the third child, they will still choose to fight.

2.Super good family with good economic conditions.

Many people refuse to have another child, mainly because the economy cannot keep up. If they can't give their children a better life, they will choose to refuse to have another child. But wealthy families are different, they have enough financial strength to raise a child and can let their children have a good life, so if the country allows them to have three children, they will definitely choose to chase after them.

3.Families of ethnic minorities.

In fact, ethnic minorities have always been privileged, and when everyone can only have one child, they may be able to have a second child. The number of ethnic minorities themselves is relatively scarce, and the state has always supported them to have children in order to prevent them from disappearing, so the three children will be opened, and ethnic minorities will definitely continue to chase after them.

4.Beggar. For these people, it is better to save money than to raise others, have a few more, and there will always be one who can make a living.

It is also poor to give birth to one, it is better to have a few more, and I don't understand eugenics at all. If you don't realize this, the current education will not be able to keep up, and it will be difficult for the child's future development. But they always have the courage to go straight ahead, which is also very admirable.

If having a child will bring a burden to the current life, in fact, everyone needs to consider, having a child is not just about giving life to a child, if you can't be responsible for the child, then don't make this choice. Of course, whether to give birth or not depends on everyone's choice.

My family doesn't want three children, because the pressure of survival is too great, two children have no way to ensure a normal life, if you have a third child, life will be stretched, it is difficult to continue, I don't think it's necessary, to have three children has the following disadvantages.

1. The relationship between husband and wife is incompatible, the family is unstable, and having a child in the case of an unstable relationship between husband and wife is like incubating eggs in a dangerous nest.

2. The husband and wife do not agree on it, and raising children is a long time to pay and invest. If one party is resolutely opposed, any triviality after birth may become the fuse of the family war.

3. "Second or third child" affects the bottom line of survival, and one more child will definitely reduce the quality of life. However, in many cases, having an extra child will cause one of the spouses to lose their job and greatly reduce the family's economic income, especially in cities with high survival pressure.

4. One or both husband and wife are too old and frail, and the mother is old and pregnant, and the risk to themselves or the fetus is extremely great, so don't be reluctant to make it difficult. Moreover, after giving birth, it takes more physical strength and energy to raise.

5. Dabao is extremely opposed, and the decision to have a second child is up to the parents, but Dabao's opinions should still be listened to. Especially in the face of Dabao's extreme opposition and the situation of forcing each other to die, the second child should be appropriately slowed down, and it is important to adjust Dabao's mental health first.

If the couple has emotional problems or disagrees on the issue of having three children.

First, if the body does not allow, it is best not to have three children, but also to take into account the idea of Dabao and Erbao, after all, the child is also an important member of the family, if the child does not agree, it is not recommended to give birth, otherwise it will not give the child a happy life, it is a harm to the child, especially as a parent, you can't be too selfish, you have to think more for the child! There are many families who are very poor, but they have seven or eight children, and they don't even have food and drink, let alone go to school, and I think it really shouldn't be okay to let children suffer.

Since the three-child policy was opened, it has caused controversy among netizens. In fact, everyone has different views on this matter, and there must be different ideas from different angles. And there is no right or wrong in this kind of thing, just let everyone decide according to their own actual situation.

The reason why the three-child policy will be opened now is actually because the birth rate of the newborn population is too low, I don't know if I saw such a report from ** a few days ago, that is, the fertility rate of our country is now in a very dangerous state, and if it continues to develop according to this trend, it will definitely be unfavorable to the future development. Therefore, in order to avoid such a situation, a series of policies have been promulgated. But then again, although the country now allows three children, if there is no fundamental solution to the problem that everyone is unwilling to have three children, there are still not too many people who choose to have three children.

Anyway, for me at the moment, I wouldn't choose to have three children. Next, I will talk about the reasons why I don't want to. <>

You must know that most of us post-90s are actually only children, and after the husband and wife get married, they will have to raise four old people, and when they reach middle age, they can understand how difficult it is to live a life of old and young. At this time, if there are three children, then the husband and wife need to raise seven people, plus they have nine people, which is a big expenditure in life. <>

Nowadays, people are actually more concerned about the quality of life, and indeed I also think that I should improve my quality of life when I have a certain financial ability. And after having a child, you must be responsible for the child's future, you must want the child to eat well and dress well, and let the child enjoy a good education as much as possible, but if there are many children and the economic level remains the same, the child will not enjoy good in all aspects, which is not responsible for the child.

I won't, because life is too stressful, and the economy will be very difficult, and I can't afford it at all.

The three-child policy is opened, then I will definitely not have three children, because it is very difficult to call for a child to raise, and then to have a child, the pressure on the socks at home will be greater, and life will be more difficult, so I will not choose to have a third child.