How should children be educated in the next generation?

The love that the elderly give to their children will definitely not be less, maybe more, you don't doubt that you are willing to be a mother. We were all raised by these old people, can't we keep up with the trend? Are we unhealthy? Have we all been badly educated?

Don't you have time to work 24 hours a day? Can I squeeze out 30 minutes with my child before going to bed? If there is no way to be around the child, our network is very developed, and we can communicate with the child, and there is no time on Saturday and Sunday?

There will be many choices in life, depending on whether you give or take your children;

You don't have time to take care of your children, so don't you have time for your parents? Don't forget that you are a role model for your children, and that your children will learn from each other.

Parents must do three things in the education of their children:

1. Give your child all your love - unconditional, spare no effort;

2. Give your child the best possible educational conditions - within your ability;

3. Set an example for your children - what kind of person you want your children to become, you must work in this direction yourself.

You can take a look at "Calvert", this book is good, it will be inspiring.

The parents' education is stricter than that, teaching the doll how to behave, to be a good person, to be a good person. This is bound to make the doll feel scared and difficult to accept. The love of mother-in-law and grandfather is actually to give the doll a haven.

Gives the doll a buffer zone. If you think about it, if there were so many people who taught you to do this and that every day, you would be crazy.

Doting, not guiding the child's wrong behavior in time, and protecting the child when the parents testify. When children do not respect their elders, they do not give correct guidance, and the leaders blindly follow the children.

The educational concept of the grandparents is still relatively backward, so if the educational concept of the grandparents is used to educate children, it may have a certain impact on the physical and mental development of children. Moreover, many families now have only one child, so there will be a situation where grandparents spoil their children too much, resulting in a decline in the child's ability to take care of himself.

Intergenerational education is very easy to produce doting behavior, which may have a very serious impact on the healthy growth of children, let children develop some bad habits, and will have a very serious impact on the formation of children's healthy and independent personality.

The impact of intergenerational education on children, parents must pay attention to these 3 points! "Mom was born, grandma raised, dad came back online, grandpa went to the farmers' market every day, grandpa went to enjoy it. "It's probably prevalent these days.

I always hear people say that intergenerational education is very easy to cultivate ruthless presidents and superb women, is this the truth? Does intergenerational education jeopardize a child's personality? Let's take a look.

With the underworld forces of grandparents, babies will always clearly put forward the need for "indulgence". That kind of willful love makes the baby delicate, domineering, and selfish, which has an extremely bad impact on the baby's future development. For example, it is not easy to get along with babies of the same age; Once their wishes cannot be fulfilled, they will cry and make a fuss.

When grandparents take children, it is easy to have such a picture: if the child can walk, the grandparents still need to carry it; The children's toys were scattered all over the floor, and the grandparents cleaned them up. The baby is in the stage of cognitive ability, learning and training, and exploration, and loving so deeply can only deprive the baby of the opportunity to learn.

The teaching method of doing everything instead of doing everything shapes that babies are usually dependent, lack of consciousness, and can only wait for others to deal with things.

After staying with the elderly for a long time, the child will gradually be assimilated, and the good habits of the grandparents' generation will slowly transfer to the child. Some children are adults when they open their mouths and close their mouths, while others have a narrow vision and are not good at touching new things. This kind of "geriatric disease" makes children lose their liveliness, cuteness, curiosity and individuality, and may also make children narrow-minded and aging their psychological state.

Don't spoil too much, adopt old-fashioned education methods, fail to cultivate children's self-care ability, shirk responsibilities when encountering problems, and make children lose their sense of security.

Do not give custody and education to grandparents of their children. This is an irresponsible practice for children. This is a dereliction of duty!

At the same time, as children of ancestral parents, parents should communicate with their parents frequently to talk about their children's education, which will contribute to the success of the next generation's education.

domineering president cultivation; dependence becomes a disease; "old people's disease" is riddled with diseases; There is a high probability that there will be serious antagonism between the child and the parents, which will lead to family conflicts.

For a long time, in Xiao Liu's mind, his parents were very harsh, but after Xiao Liu's child was born, Xiao Liu's parents' attitude changed a lot. Xiao Liu's parents used to be very harsh, but in front of their grandson, Shou Que knew that it was different, and Xiao Liu's parents became very amiable. Whatever the child wants, the grandparents will fulfill the grandson's wishes.

What the child wants to eat, even if it takes a long time to buy it in the car, the grandparents are willing to take a long time to buy it for their grandchildren, which can be described as a hundred and smooth for the child.

Grandma prefers children, and when she goes out shopping with her children, she will buy whatever toys the child wants and go home without saying a word. The child likes the toys in the hands of other children, and grandma will not hesitate to buy them home.

From these things, it can be seen that the child's grandparents love their grandchildren very much. Once, Xiao Liu's parents' house was about to be demolished, and Xiao Liu heard his parents say that in the future, they would leave all the money for the house demolition to their grandson, including some gold, silver and jewelry from his grandmother, so that the grandson would not be afraid of not being able to marry a daughter-in-law in the future.

After listening to what his parents said, Xiao Liu felt that his son who was not a few years old was rich, Xiao Liu said, who is the son in the end, I am a little jealous.

The elderly should not spoil their children too much, which is not conducive to the growth of children.

1. Parents' education will become ineffective.

When the child's parents are educating their children, the elderly will feel very sorry for their grandchildren and will intervene. Although this is a very normal thing, the old man feels sorry for his grandson and must have a degree, and he can't take care of the child in everything.

When the elderly take care of their children, they are often soft-hearted and reluctant to say that the children are not. In fact, this practice is very wrong, which will make children feel that their parents are bad people.

2. The child's perception will be affected.

The best teachers to educate children are parents, and parents are the best educators for children. Whenever parents are educating their children, if the elderly are involved, it will affect the parents to educate their children. Especially after the child makes a mistake, most parents will punish the child somewhat, but the old man feels sorry for the grandson and does not let the child's parents punish the grandson.

After a long time, the child will develop a sense that as long as the old man is around, the child will make a mistake himself. The child will think that this is nothing, anyway, the parents will forgive him, in fact, this practice of the elderly will cause the child's growth to be greatly affected.

3. Disharmony will arise in the family.

Children's education will be affected by the next generation, and the child's parents will not talk about the elderly on the surface, but in fact, there will be a lot of dissatisfaction in their hearts. I can't help but tell my children that there are some things that can't be listened to by grandparents.

If the child's parents do this, there will be conflicts with the elderly, and it will also affect the relationship between the elderly and the child. After a long time, there will be disharmony in the family in the future, and there will be many crises.