Confused, how can I change my life?

In a word, this is the last thing you said: I don't want to be looked down upon.

First of all, we should look up to ourselves, and we should always have the most basic belief in ourselves, right? I think that's just right, and it's not too much at all.

So, let's go back and look at our current objective environment:

I am in a different place, and I have been graduating for two years, and my work has not improved for the time being.

Let's start with being in a different place, the disadvantage is that there is no advantage in interpersonal relationships Then look at it from another angle, I have been alone in the field for two years So how can I say that you also have the ability to live independently, which is much better than the peers who still point to their parents for everything Moreover, two years after graduation, although it feels like a long time, it is just the beginning of the cycle of starting a business alone. I believe that through these two years of tempering, you will have some gains and experiences in work and society, and I hope you can learn to accumulate and use them to pave the way for your future.

Taking a step back, only if you have a motivated heart, you can do it even if you find a different way now. If you have time, don't be unnecessarily melancholy, think about something practical, and really grow in life.

Friend, you are maturing, and it is not easy to see such things. No one else can help you, and besides, the four seas are home, and there is no home everywhere, which is what modern youth do.

Always do good deeds and accumulate virtue to improve your destiny. Such as release. Help comfort the poor and the elderly.

Satisfy your soul with action. Check the dark stuff inside. And improve it.

Many people hate fate for the miserliness of their lives. In fact, I can only blame myself for never doing good. Accumulate yin virtue.

The treasure of fate is actually right in front of you. It is the treasure of your soul and mine! The ancients.

Think of it. Think about it again. I can't think about it.

Ghosts and gods will pass it. Non-ghosts and gods. Sincerely, too.

Life in the world. Do not linger sentimentally. There is no need to retreat.

Auspicious wishes often arise in the heart. Do it without being known. That is, to live up to this life.

It depends on how you look at life.

A man who is entangled in a high-performance stock!

When you are confused and anxious, you should return to the present moment and do what you have in hand well, to the extreme. Naturally, a new way out will be seen.

Personal perception: 1. Don't think about the past, don't fear the future, and focus on the present. In fact, the manuscript is to solve the current anxiety and confusion, don't let yourself be affected by this emotion.

2. It cannot solve the problem of personal life orientation. For example, what should I do if I don't like to do something under the old twigs?

3. When you are confused and anxious, solve the emotional problem first, and don't think nonsense, because it occupies the brain bandwidth.

Walking on two legs" to solve the problem of choosing the direction of life.

Getting rid of confusion is not an easy task, especially for freshmen. Here's my personal advice:

1.Self-awareness: Take time to think about your interests, values, and goals. Know your strengths and weaknesses and set some long-term and short-term goals. This will help you to be more clear about where you want to go in the future.

2.Ask for help: Find a mentor or academic advisor to help you plan your academic and career development. They can provide you with guidance and advice, and talk about failures to help you better understand possible options and opportunities.

3.Explore extensively: Participate in a variety of school clubs, activities, and extracurricular projects to try out different areas and roles. This will help you discover new interests, meet different types of people, and broaden your horizons.

4.Take small steps: Don't worry about finding the perfect answer or direction all at once. The important thing is to take action and gradually understand yourself through trial and error. Try new experiences and opportunities, every step is part of progress.

5.Maintain physical and mental health: Stress and anxiety are often felt when you are confused.

Make sure you take care of your physical and mental health and maintain a positive mindset. Exercising, practicing good sleep habits, and building support systems with others are all important factors in helping you maintain balance and cope with difficulties.

You have to know what you like, you have to develop a hobby, and you have to find a job that suits you, so that you can slowly get rid of the confusion.

We must learn to adjust our mentality, do not escape when we encounter difficulties, believe in ourselves more, strengthen ourselves more, learn to overcome difficulties, do not be confused, calm our minds, believe in ourselves more, and encourage ourselves more.

Find the direction you want to develop in the future, make a plan for your life, get rid of the bad people and things before, and go to a new place to start your life again.