If you can t be someone else s counselor, you will say that you treat someone else like a trash can

First of all, when you have a problem that others can't solve, you confide in him, it's useless, and sometimes it may attract the ridicule of the listener. Learn to eliminate troubles by yourself, or use other methods: for example, when there are troublesome things, you can go outside to breathe fresh air, listen to soothing ** and other ......Then come back and solve your troubles.

Only when you solve it yourself, you will mature.

In fact, everyone is unhappy at work, but you have to distinguish people when you find someone to talk to. If I am with you I can only hear your complaints and no praise, I have to privately message you to think about whether you will say the same thing about me with others, in fact, people must learn to be generous, complain less, my friends often talk to the tip of the tongue to leave three points. Find a way to decompress, in fact, singing is very good, go to KTV with a good effect, you can try it.

I know the saying "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and we must learn to regulate our own mentality.

People get along with each other as much as they get along with each other.

Du respect each other's zhi, you treat others as the object of confiding in daoxiang, but you can't take this back.

The answer is that the subject said that it was a trash can, and when people saw the word trash can, they would think that you were belittling her. Anyone needs self-esteem and the recognition of others, you can praise her for her careful companionship and patient listening, enlightenment really helps you, and gives you great comfort. Remember not to be so analogous to others in the future, you have to learn to express your recognition of your friend in the right way, and remember to repay her kindness as well.

I think anyone who hears this will be angry, if I use a trash can to describe you, will you be happy? What's more, a person who is always there for you, who is willing to listen to your troubles, who is by your side when you are upset, who cares about you, how chilling it is for you to say this.

Do you still think that trash cans are a good word, it's really funny, you call people trash cans, it's not normal if you don't get angry with you, normal people don't talk like that, do you think, do you have the heart to scold people?

Because you're comparing people to garbage cans.

Then he is not a man worthy of your respect.

Friends enlighten each other and make each other better! Learn to help others and not let yourself be burdened.

It may be that you are a good listener, a strict mouth, and less rejective of others, so some people love to confide in you when they encounter emotional problems. But these emotional outpouring can be a burden for the future, and if you want to change the situation, you can interrupt him often the next time he says to you, and you can also tell him about your emotional problems and see how he reacts.

If he does treat you like an emotional garbage can, then his desire to confide in you about his emotional garbage will be drastically reduced or even stopped after a few times.

If that doesn't work, he still treats you like an emotional trash can, you can try what he tells you, you turn around and tell the other person, whether it's added or not. As soon as he tells you something, you pretend to be interested and keep asking for details. When he leaves, you immediately go to tell other people about him, and when he realizes that you are not strict and everyone will know what you tell you immediately, it is very likely that he will not talk to you again about his garbage emotional problems.

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This is obviously a spare tire for feelings, just pick it out and make it clear, just do it, don't waste everyone's time if it doesn't work.

And everyone at work, life will encounter a lot of unsmooth, unsatisfactory things, there is a need to confide, it is okay to say, but it depends on how to say, if the topic of each chat is always full of negative energy, if the other party is also in a bad mood, it will be infected by your negative emotions, not only will not give you the comfort you want, but make both of them feel bad.

I suggest you get away from him, because you're not obligated to bear the rubbish that will be poured on you without reservation, and the rubbish will just mess up your life.

Maybe he was hurt emotionally, or he couldn't find the right person to talk to about his troubles, and he may think that you have a good relationship with him, so he told you about his emotional problems.

What he needs is an audience, what you need is a friend, he doesn't really care about you, why should you care, just listen to him if you're happy, if you're unhappy, you won't be upset, if he's not stupid, he won't bother you.

He is directly communicating with you, which means that you are her most worthy friend and his most important friend.

I've had that experience too. If you have emotional trouble, come and tell me. Nothing else usually has anything to do with me.

He's just venting his negative emotions and doesn't care about your mood. Your dissatisfaction directly tells him that if he continues to do so, he will be blocked.

I guess which boy is treating you as a spare tire, or don't drink this kind of boy interaction.

If you feel that you can't accept it, take it slowly, and don't associate with him.

You are more empathetic and understanding of others. Be able to put yourself in someone else's shoes!

And then you say something sad, things go straight back to you, and now it's annoying, not in the mood to listen to you say this.

Maybe by the time you talk about you, she's probably just playing with her phone.

Maybe he thinks you're a good listener! This kind of thing is still up to you.

Friendship is based on mutual respect.

Maybe it's just that you are the one who speaks when you are dissatisfied.

Stronger than me! They all call me ** air conditioner,