Why after having children, everything changed

Well, the child gets a portion of your ......

Since having children, I have slowly noticed some changes in myself.

1.Arm strength is strengthened.

This is probably a change that will occur for every parent who often holds a child. When the child cries, he has to be comforted, from a very young age, to grow up day by day, the arm muscles are gradually strengthened, and by the way, the back, waist, and abdominal strength are also strengthened.

2.The level of humming rises.

Holding a child, especially at night when the baby is crying, you should keep comforting, sometimes talking is not very effective, but humming softly, it will become quieter. As I hummed more and more, I still wrote my own lyrics, old songs set new words, messy nonsense, sometimes it rhymes, holding the child, reminiscing about the words I made up temporarily, and being a little proud. It's a joy to feel like.

3.It's no longer so annoying when it comes to, pee, and fart.

When I didn't have children, I never thought that I would one day face and pee and fart so calmly, and now I often change diapers for my children, and it's not so difficult to accept when I see, and I occasionally joke with my wife. What's more, if my son doesn't excrete for a long time, I'm still a little worried, and I suddenly pulled, and I was very happy to change the diaper for the baby.

4.I like to shoot on the top**.

My son is very cute, so I often take pictures of him, patting and patting, I always want to shoot better, and then I will want to shoot other things to be more beautiful, and unconsciously find that I like to take pictures, and now I go out for a run, and I often take a few pictures when I have nothing to do, and occasionally when I classify them, I am full of memories, which is really blessed.

The child is growing up day by day, and it is also changing me little by little, and I hope that when he grows up, I can be a competent father for him.

1.No longer afraid of being alone.

My husband and I are in a different place.

When I don't have children, when I come home from work, I can experience nothing but quietness.

Every day before going to bed, I check that the windows and doors are closed. After you are sure, you dare to go to sleep.

After having a child, there will always be a little person who sticks to me to talk, and this feeling of loneliness has never been felt again. <>

2.There is no time for yourself.

Along with no longer being alone, I no longer have my own personal time and space.

When I go shopping at the supermarket, I always take a list with me, and when I buy what I want, I go home immediately.

Occasional gatherings with friends, but also to arrange the baby, and ask the baby for leave, in order to go out with peace of mind.

3.I don't dare to mention divorce easily.

When I first got married, I was very troubled, and when I had a conflict with my husband, I was very extreme when I thought of the sad place: how do you live this life? I can't get by, divorce! It's easy to say these two words.

With the baby as a connection, my husband and I are not only husband and wife, but also the baby's relatives, and we dare not be as impulsive as before. <>

4.There are more worries than before.

Raising children is a big system, involving many aspects such as health, learning, and morality.

The child is an independent person who has his own ideas. It is impossible for us to do what we want our child to do, and this leads to a lot of family conflicts.

He is sick, sleeps late, bites his nails, doesn't tidy up his belongings, does his homework, and doesn't eat well are all my troubles.

5.There is not enough money.

In the past, my husband and I earned our own money and spent it ourselves, and we could still have the money left. Now after having a baby, the money is moonshine. After having a baby, I feel that worries and growth go hand in hand. <>

With a baby, time is not enough, I learn time management.

With a baby, I don't have enough money, I work hard to earn money, and I aspire to one day become a knowledge IP and be a role model for children. With a baby, I became aware of my growing flaws. So I was my own parent again to raise myself, learn to love myself, improve myself through learning, and truly feel my own growth.

Come to think of it, it's still sweet and superfluous!

Thanks to the appearance of the baby, I can meet a better version of myself.

I'm Orange Xiaohui, and I'll walk with you on the road to parenting.

When I first arrived, I was very happy to have a friend who liked it.

Don't be scared by me, in fact, it is a very pleasant and fulfilling life to have a child busy.

What is the purpose of having a baby? A mother said this: I don't have a child for anything, he is just the crystallization of my relationship with my husband, and he is a testimony of our love.

My husband was a soldier and he rarely came home, but he gave me a child. With this child, I can be stronger to wait for my husband's return.

Children make parents better.

It is undeniable that before becoming parents, most couples were child-minded. And once they have children, parents will naturally have a sense of responsibility. A friend of mine, before he got married and had children, had no fighting spirit, and he only thought about how to spend the day every day, and he had no intention of working at all.

Later, he got married, and the woman gave him a lovely son, and he seemed to be a different person, more active in his work, and had hope for life.

And the children also count silver is the bond of the family. When parents feel tired after working outside all day, they come home and see their lovely children serving tea and water, and feel that the troubles of the whole day have disappeared, maybe this is the meaning of having a child! And some couples may not have a very good plan for the future before giving birth, and they may not be gentle.

Never underestimate your parents' explosiveness.

Whether to have children or not is actually the freedom of every couple. If you want to figure out why you have children, some parents have children just to pass on the lineage.

Children are the continuation of life, and after a hundred years, you have left this world. No one in the world will remember your stories anymore, but the child will, and he will tell those stories to his own children, generation after generation. Isn't it a very meaningful thing for parents to accompany their children to grow up, and for children to grow old with their parents?