I find myself never thinking about others, am I right

Try to think about others as much as possible, and you have a future.

It is not difficult for us to find that there are some people who have an overly strong sense of self-centeredness, who only want to satisfy their own desires in everything, ask everyone to be their own, but ignore the needs of others, are unwilling to make any sacrifices for others, do not care about the pain and itch of others, and are manifested as selfishness and self-interest. Ask all people to be centered on Him, and want the earth to revolve around His will and obey Him. As long as they take care of the collective and do not pay attention to collective discipline, otherwise they will feel aggrieved and unbearable.

However, they are unwilling to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of person has a strong desire for others to respect him, but he does not know that he has to respect others as well. In short, these people are full of self in their hearts, but there is no one else, and they believe that people are not for themselves, and heaven and earth will be destroyed.

The problem lies in the excessive self-consciousness and the extreme of self-centeredness, or the serious individualistic thinking How to overcome self-centeredness Interpersonal communication emphasizes the principle of reciprocity, hoping that others will be good to themselves, then they should also have the corresponding contributions. If in order to satisfy oneself in the relationship, maintain one's self-esteem everywhere, and cause confrontation with others, you can only close yourself off, isolate yourself from the outside world, and be in a state of self-isolation and self-isolation. For people with a serious psychological disorder such as self-centeredness, they should face up to social reality, learn to be courteous, and make some concessions when necessary.

Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can reap the rewards of others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation and learn to control one's desires, words and deeds. Self-centeredness is a personality defect that leads to depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses after hitting a wall in social interactions.

I sympathize with you, but I don't know how to say it, life is a matter of two people, and it takes two people to work together. Marriage is equal and should not be tolerated. Divorce is not the only way to solve it, after all, there are children, you must take into account the feelings of the children, and of course you can't be too wronged yourself.

Don't say divorce easily, it is a fate to be able to meet, and being able to get married and have children is even more of a fate in fate. There are many choices in a person's life, and it is sometimes difficult to make a decision if you want to figure out what the problem is, so you might as well think about it in a different way, and you will find that things are not what you think. Make a decision so you don't regret it.

There will be gains and losses, look at your choices, what you will gain and what you will lose.

Have you communicated with him properly? Maybe he doesn't know your inner thoughts, after all, tiger poison doesn't eat children.

No matter how you say it, it's also a father, and there is no way to do it many times, there may really be that kind of self-righteous elder in the world, don't think too much, I believe that he also loves you, but his personality is different, and the way he handles things is different.

You have to know the hearts of parents in the world. Someday you'll know. They care about you. Love you so much.

A lot of these people. But you have to be strong inside.

Then don't be like your dad in the future.

What did your parents say about you?

Doing what you like to do, listening to the warm **, going out for a walk, and looking at the scenery of life is also a comfortable and happy way. Go out with friends and exchange friendships. The days cannot always be sunny, there are ups and downs, sorrows and sorrows, depression and loneliness, and life is colorful.

Lack of faith, ideals, goals, opinions, with these you will have a direction, pay attention to details, strengthen logic, it will be fine.

Read more books on spirituality, are you tired of living like this?

My lover did the same to me. But we have two children, who are nearly 100 years old. The child is small.

I would love to end the marriage completely, for the sake of the child, to prepare for the child to grow up, I want to get rid of him completely. Of course, the girlfriend is not married, so in order for everyone not to suffer in the future, the relationship can be ended peacefully.

It's not worth it, you can try to ignore him for a while, and if it doesn't work, you're out of luck.

Leave it decisively!

This kind of woman who values men must not ask for it, otherwise you will regret it if you get married.

It's not worth it. If you don't look at you, it means that you are not respected, adopt.

It's certainly not worth your love.

Because love is a matter for two people.

And not a one-man show.

If it's not suitable, separate it.

This kind of girl is not worthy of your love, she doesn't understand feelings, let it go, find someone to share the responsibility, be reasonable, and you will be happy.

Love, it's good to have a girlfriend, I'm 30 years old, and I don't have a girlfriend ......

It's not worth it, you're dispensable to her, so you shouldn't invest in it anymore.

If you are used to it in the first place, it is worthy of love.

I think first of all, you have to do self-reflection and see if you have really done something wrong. If I really did something wrong, I should ask him to apologize to you and ask her for forgiveness, I feel that no matter what I do, I have to think about other people's feelings, think about your girlfriend's feelings.

You feel what you are wrong with, then you know what to do. My ex-boyfriend is the same as you, he likes to use big truths, and he doesn't consider my feelings, as a girl, I still hope that you boys can change a little, think more about girls, give her care and love, and give her your sincerity and love.

Girlfriends are to be spoiled, they can't listen to a lot of big truths, they are willful, you have to follow her when you are coquettish, girls are sensual, and they can't be treated with rational thinking.

Think more from the perspective of girls After all, female friends are to be spoiled Communicate more with girls Don't stay overnight if you have conflicts and misunderstandings.

Women want tolerance, men want understanding. This sentence is sent to you.

The more you get, the more you don't learn, you don't know how to cherish it, maybe in his consciousness, you already belong to him.

Use you as a spare tire, and if you have a better one, it will kick you right away.

I don't care much about you, maybe I have an idea in my heart.

It's all here, why should I think about you? Isn't it.