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True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.
True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.
True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.
Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.
If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.
Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.
Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.
If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.
Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.
It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.
It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.
In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.
With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.
It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.
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Kind, hehe, but until he did something that disgusted and hated me, I only loved him, and after the breakup, I would forget about him immediately, and then I would be able to fall in love with one again in a very short time.
It proves that you have a romantic young heart, and according to the pure physical concept, it is also possible that your hormone secretion is different from others, and you are easily impulsive.
It's okay, just enjoy it.
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I believe you are more emotional, and you will be a very romantic person in the future.
If you really like it, then chase it. Don't regret it later.
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It shows that we are emotionally rich and a sensual person.
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It's easy to love, but it's also easy to forget.
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I haven't met my true love yet.
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In fact, you don't like them, it's just that it's hard to make friends because of your introverted personality, and as long as someone is willing to be your friend, you rely on him a lot.
But introverts are generally very sensitive, and some small things that the other party does for you will also feel that the other party likes them, and they will be sensitive to find that the other party does not like them because of some small things. As a result, you continue to be conflicted and painful in your discovery, and as a result, you hurt yourself again and again. But it's not "love", it's just the result of being introverted.
Don't worry, you shouldn't be that old now. Introverted girls are suitable for older girls to fall in love.
In an impetuous society, introverted and quiet girls are more respected and loved. As long as you control yourself and keep your innocence and pride, you will definitely wait until the man who truly loves you and cherishes you, and then the love is the real love.
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Lack of love, if you are a little nicer, you will think that it is love or like.
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There are several possibilities.
One is that you are distracted.
The second is that it is too easy for you to have a good impression of a person, and you feel that this feeling is love, and the third is that you lack love and desire.
Thank you for your adoption.
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It is easy to love someone, which means that you have too shallow understanding of love and do not demand too much of yourself.
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The reason why it is difficult to fall in love with someone may be that your fate has not yet arrived, and you have not met a person who really makes you like when two people fall in love, chat must be one of the best communication tools, as long as there is time, two people can chat from morning to night without feeling tired at all.
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That's because you haven't met someone who makes you like and makes your heart flutter, so this person doesn't meet your requirements, so it's hard for you to fall in love.
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Generally speaking. It may be that you have experienced too little emotionally, or maybe you have experienced too much and have been hurt, so it is difficult to like someone again in the future. It is also possible that you have been single for a long time, and it is difficult to accept another person to your side.
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Maybe you have better requirements for the person you love, so you haven't been able to find the right person.
It's also possible that you have a cold personality and think that it's good to be alone, and it's tiring to love someone, so you don't want to try.
I think the main reason is because you haven't met the right person, and if you do, your love must be wholehearted.
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Look at the problem from two perspectives.
1. I need too many requests from the other party, and I have a higher judgment on the degree of love, resulting in inability to love.
2. I don't want to love only one person in my heart, I want to be wet with rain and dew, and it is difficult to find a belonging.
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It's always hard to fall in love with someone, and the main reason should be that you don't really give and are not willing to pay for others. In this way, it is difficult to get the love of others, so you must be brave to give and love others.
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It's always hard to fall in love with someone.
It is probably because I haven't met the right person yet, if I did, it wouldn't be like this, or it may be because I was influenced by my relatives or friends around me, and I felt that they were not very happy, so I had a fear of marriage.
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Well, if it's always hard to fall in love with someone, it's definitely because you have another person in your heart, and when you have another person in your heart, then it's really hard for you to fall in love with another person, and you can't replace him at this time.
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It's hard to fall in love with someone, which means that you must have been hurt a lot before or have a special and deep love person in your heart, so it's hard to fall in love with someone else. Or maybe you haven't met someone who is truly worthy of your love. That's it!
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Reasons why it's hard to fall in love with someone. It's you who are too picky. You always want to find someone who is beautiful, kind, gentle, considerate, and obedient, and there is no such perfect person in the world. By your standards, no one can find a match.
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Maybe you are the kind of person who is slow to heat, and you belong to the kind of person who is not very easy to be tempted, you may see through the red dust, or you may not have the heart to fall in love, so it will be difficult to fall in love with someone.
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It may be that you have been emotionally hurt before, and then you will no longer trust any boy who chases you, and you feel that people are not sincere about you.
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This means that there is no love in your heart, no longer trust, love has developed resistance to love, and there is no confidence in love, so it will be difficult for you to fall in love with someone.
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Because you are a person who loves yourself more, I think it is difficult for a person who loves himself too much to love others, always self-centered in everything, does not want to give, only wants to get something in return.
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It's always hard to fall in love with someone, and I think it's just two things, the first of which has been hurt. The second point is that you haven't met someone who really appeals to you.
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When a person is hurt in his love, he will show a kind of self-defense, and in the end, the self-defense is that he will not trust anyone, he will only wrap himself tightly in a skin, so in this case. She doesn't have the strength to love if she wants to love.
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It's always hard to fall in love with someone, what is the reason, it should be that I have been hurt emotionally before, and now it's hard to trust others anymore, and it's hard to fall in love with others.
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That is, you haven't met someone you like, and in one case, you miss that person, maybe that person is better than anyone you know.
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Maybe it's because you're asking too much and always feeling dissatisfied. The longer the contact, the more you can find fault with each other. tend to ignore the good in the other person.
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Maybe it's because you're too demanding of others! Ordinary people can't meet your requirements!
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When a person is very fragile, he will naturally think of all the good things in the past, and then think of his attitude now, of course, he will be even more sad.
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It's always hard to fall in love with someone, what is the reason? If it's hard to fall in love with someone, you haven't met someone you really like.
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In fact, I think that if we want to fall in love with someone, we must first distinguish whether this person is our confidant, lover or friend, if we can't distinguish these three relationships, then it is really difficult for us to fall in love with someone.
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Maybe it's because I haven't met the right person.
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Hello, first of all, thank you for choosing to know and ask, I am Liu Bigang, a national first-class psychological counselor and a registered senior psychologist, and the following is my hope and praise for your question.
First of all, we need to understand what is the root cause of a person falling in love with another person? Is it appearance? Is it character? Or is it a position of power? Or is it wealth?
To understand this truth, we can draw on a story from the book "The Little Prince" by the French writer Exupéry to deepen our understanding: The little prince lives on a very prosperous planet, and one day, a delicate rose suddenly blooms on the planet. The little prince had never seen such a beautiful flower, so he took care of it carefully and carefully every day.
At that time, he felt that this was the only rose in the universe, and all the flowers were not as beautiful and moving as it was. Later, one day he came to Earth and found that there were several almost identical roses in just one garden. At that moment, he finally understood that what he had was nothing more than an ordinary flower.
This discovery made the little prince very sad. But despite this, I don't know why, he still can't let go of the rose he took care of carefully. Until one day, a little fox said to him:
It is precisely because you have spent too much time and too much effort for your roses that your roses have become so beautiful and moving. "It dawned on the little prince that although there are countless roses in the world, the one on his planet is always unique.
Because he watered her, protected her, loved her, spoke with her, was silent with her, and grew up with her ......So she is his one-of-a-kind rose.
In the same way, on the earth on which we live, we human beings are like many stars, just like the sand of the Ganges. Ask yourself: Which of us is not an ordinary member of the tens of millions of human beings?
Which of us is a hailstorm, and what we love is not an ordinary one of the thousands of roses? The reason why the roses in our hands can become a standout in our minds is not because of how dazzling and dazzling the roses themselves are, but because we have poured all our attention into this rose. The reason why we can laugh at our loved ones is not because of how charming he (she) is, but because we have given all our feelings to each other.
When you understand that the encounter between people is random, and the fact that he and her acquaintance is casual, you really understand that the essence of love is that two people are better together than when they are alone, not because love kidnaps love, and comforts yourself because of love.
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1. Admiration from the other party.
We tend to fall in love with someone who looks up to us. For example, "admiring your talents, etc.", at this time, you will feel that the other party admires you, which not only makes you confident, but also thinks that the other person is excellent, and you will fall in love with the other person.
2. The tenderness of the other party.
We will always encounter a lot of setbacks, at this time there is a person who is gentle with us, we can easily fall into it, such as "quietly accompany you, listen to you, etc.", not only let you get emotional release, but also feel that the other party is very warm, and slowly you will like each other.
3. A person is empathetic.
Life can't be smooth sailing, and we will always want to find someone who understands us. Share worries for ourselves, when there is an empathetic person around us, we are more happy to communicate with him in front of him. The other person can not only enlighten themselves, but also understand themselves, and love will arise over time.
4. People who support and understand each other.
We will always need support and understanding because we cannot be disliked in life or work. If there is someone around us who has always supported and understood us, we are more willing to trust the other person"Collaborators at work: "Because like-minded people are not only supportive and understanding, but they will easily fall in love with each other."
5. Can't stand the silence.
We humans are always afraid of being alone, and we see that everyone around us has found a partner. Why should you be willing to be silent? will keep looking for it, because it can't bear the silence, not only is it easy to travel emotionally, but it is also easy to love someone who shouldn't be loved.
6. Fall in love with someone after a long time.
It's not a day or two, some people have a dependence on each other because they have been together for a long time, such as "the relationship between superiors and subordinates at work", etc., which is not only easy to spark, but also fall in love with each other because of mutual understanding, which is easy to fall in love with someone when they are in love for a long time.
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There is actually no reason to fall in love with someone, just someone who meets each other at the right time, in the right place, and brings you an inexplicable feeling. Therefore, you are gradually occupied by her and lose your original consciousness. That's happiness.
Asked not to understand what love is, to answer what love is, love is in the cold winter night, quietly referring to the sentence "Is it cold or not?" that he is full of concern. "What is love, love is the cup of green tea she silently brews for you in the hot summer. What is love, love is in every morning, his tender kiss.
What is love, love is her cup of milk containing happiness before going to work every day. What is love, love is his humorous and spoofed text message when he is bored at work every day. What is love, love is when she comes home from work every day, she prepares your favorite meal for you.
What is love, love is the warm embrace when he suddenly appeared at the airport after half a month of hard work and business trip. What is love, love is to be sick and bedridden due to alcoholism, and she has not slept all night and boiled medicine for you. What is love, love is the "I'm sorry" that he laughs at when he unintentionally makes you angry What is love, love is her words of encouragement when the company doesn't go well and returns home.
What is love, love is when every night falls, he warmly hugs you and accompanies you to watch Korean dramas that he doesn't like. What is love, love is every hot weekend, she wears a thick layer of sunscreen to accompany you to fishing. This is love, and love is actually the little things in life.
A simple gift, a comforting word, a warm gesture are all expressions of love. There is no need for a beautiful rose, and there is no need for an oversized house, love built on money is always only the lowest love. This is love, and love is to make the other person happy, the joy of life.
With a simple look, the other person knows what you are thinking; A simple action, and the other party knows what you are going to do. This is because love binds each other's hearts together and makes us feel refreshed. This is love, love does not need to swear to each other, and it does not have to be separated from life and death.
An affectionate look, a warm hug, and a sweet kiss are enough to prove your love for him. In our lives, as long as we learn to care about the people around us who love you, then you will find that love is not far away from you, maybe it has already silently embraced you, and you have become the happiest person.
That's when you'll find out that love is really simple.
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