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It seems that you are an impulsive person. You've made that impression on her. Change doesn't happen overnight.
Don't go to her in person these days, so as not to annoy her! First of all, analyze what is wrong with you? You can send her a text message or write an email to her, and the wording should be sincere.
If she can forgive you, you should also avoid repeating similar mistakes. If you are always sincere and do not change your teachings, everyone will lose confidence in you! She will also observe you from your other behaviors, especially the attitude towards your family is the attitude towards your friends!
In addition to redeeming her, you also have to pay attention to your relationship with your family! Good luck!
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Good! What a bad way!
But I don't know, your confession is to get her real forgiveness and confess, or do you really like her, don't do this kind of stupid thing that although you like each other, there is always a distance difference in the relationship!
You like her, and she likes you. And this kind of liking is not a universal like, nor is it a liking between sisters and brothers, so what are you hesitating about?
You know, after this village, there is no such shop. Take advantage of this opportunity and cherish it. If not, it is likely to be given by a third party"The fisherman profits"Yes.
And your confession must be as sincere as possible, so that you can win her in one fell swoop.
Well, I won't talk nonsense, although the practice, how can it be done in one go, I believe you know better than me. After all, you're the party. Heha!
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I support you, this is equivalent to giving her a surprise, as long as you sincerely apologize to her, there will be times when the iron heart is moved! Support you! Bless you!
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Believe in yourself and love her, and tell her that if you have too many scruples, you can't do anything.
Note: When confessing, pick an environment that is romantic, and say less sweet words, but now this trick doesn't work. What is needed is action, a little bit of care in life!
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Self-confidence is the guarantee of success...
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Okay, support, girls, it's easy to be soft-hearted, hard, and the landlord .........
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If he has a little conscience, I think he will accept it
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He will forgive you when he sees it.
As long as you don't mean to lie to him.
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If he loves you.
He will accept it.
Because I love you. He will forgive you whatever you do wrong.
If he doesn't love you.
Even if you don't do anything wrong, he'll be picky.
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Be sincere. It should be!
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Everyone will make certain mistakes in his life, it turns out to be a lover's relationship, even if he makes a mistake and apologizes immediately, it is enough to show that he recognizes his mistakes, be more tolerant and forgive him! Your tolerance will make him feel very guilty, and with a guilty heart, he will be more free to fall in love with you. Seriously, you'll lose.
If he really loves you, you apologize to him, and he will forgive.
You, why are you so inferior when you fall in love? Everyone has their own social circle, and he limits you. Hasn't he ever hung out with a female friend?
Maybe you got angry because you didn't tell your co-workers that you have a boyfriend. But so what? A male colleague kindly asked you to play with you, and you told them that I had a boyfriend?
Doesn't that look awkward? People don't explicitly say that I like you, and they just treat you as a good friend.
To put it mildly, how much do you care about him that only you know, so does he care about you? If he cares about you even if he's angry, it's okay for you to apologize to him, right? If he really cares about you, he won't make you sad.
Since the young lady has come here to ask this kind of question, you should ask yourself in your heart how much he cares about you. Is it possessive or really loves you. When you apologize to a friend who has hurt you, I don't think you should be forgiven easily.
Because only by respecting and loving oneself can we gain the respect of others for us. For those who have hurt us, even if we want to forgive him, let your tolerance and generosity have weight and value. In this way, others will learn a lesson, change themselves, and take you seriously.
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, but we can't avoid being hurt by friends, some are mentally hurt, some are physical, in short, these injuries will bring us pain. When we are faced with harm, each of us will respond in a different way. Some people endure in silence, and some people fight back, which also reveals their own personalities and ways of dealing with the world.
There is a good saying, what others do to you is what you do to others. If someone hurts you, you can easily forgive, for someone who knows gratitude, he can also perceive your tolerance and generosity, for a heartless person, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in your heart for being stupid and cowardly. For your kindness and your generosity, such people will not care about you and hurt you with greater harm.
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To analyze the matter, if he has done too much, it has reached the level of hurting you, you have to think about it carefully, and you should also think about it appropriately, to see if your behavior is also wrong, to understand and understand each other, if he makes the same thing wrong, repeatedly does not change, but every time he commits it to you apologizes, then you better not be soft-hearted, the most important thing is to wish you happiness, be yourself.
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Beibei, who is caught in a contradiction.
I have a very good friend, we have been inseparable from kindergarten to elementary school and then to middle school, and my classmates envy us.
But last month, we had a conflict. I was so angry that I was angry with her in front of a lot of my classmates, and she shook her head angrily and walked away, and she hasn't spoken to me since that day.
Later, I realized that I was wrong to blame her, and I regretted it and missed the old days.
I wanted to reconcile with her, but seeing her stubborn appearance, I thought, why should I take the initiative! Of course, I'm also worried that even if I apologize, she won't forgive me, which is so shameless.
What should I do now?
Conversation with Doubling:
In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to have such a person, who is inseparable from you, shares pain and happiness with you, and walks from kindergarten to middle school!
The friendship between you and your good friend reminds me of a good wine, which only the lucky can have!
Of course, no matter how good a friend is, there are times when there are differences of opinion, and even if the communication is good, there are times when misunderstandings occur.
Therefore, it is very normal for good friends to have conflicts with each other, and the key is what we do after the conflict.
Judging from your letter, you have actually realized your mistake, but you refuse to apologize for the sake of face.
Face is important, but what is more important than face is, for example, precious friendship. What's more, you think it will hurt your face, but in fact it may not be.
Now let's think about it from another angle, if you take the initiative to apologize to your friend, it means that you are taking the initiative to guide the direction of your friendship, and you are taking the initiative!
With such a responsible attitude towards friendship, don't you think that the act of apologizing to your friends is very valuable?
In fact, the value of recognizing your mistakes and taking the initiative to apologize to the other party is more than that. Some psychologists believe that apologies are also a useful form of psychological catharsis.
Generally speaking, after doing something wrong, people will form a feeling of guilt and shame in their hearts, as you said, "I regret it in my heart, and I miss the old days", if you let this negative emotion stay in your mind, it will be harmful to your physical and mental health.
And once you apologize honestly, this heavy burden on the soul will pass away.
In addition, you have the fear that your friends will not forgive you.
In my opinion, your worries are unwarranted. Come to think of it, you've formed a friendship for many years because you both value it!
Now because of some misunderstandings, you feel sad, and I believe she is not feeling good. Therefore, as long as you can take the initiative to sincerely apologize, she will definitely forgive you and get back together with you.
Of course, if you find it difficult to express yourself verbally, it is also a good idea to write a letter and ask other friends to help explain it.
In short, as long as you have the sincerity and courage to apologize, you will definitely be able to regain this precious friendship.
Now, let's look forward to your good news.
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Hello, I can't accept it. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:
The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.
To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. ......Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. ......Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes of this hall are indispensable tests for laughter in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.
Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. ......The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own correct direction by exploring and making mistakes without pretending.
Hope mine is helpful to you.
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For the injured person, getting the forgiveness of the injured person is psychologically relieved and mentally relieved, but for the injured person, it can't be mentioned, it can't be said, every mention is a new injury, and every time it is said, it will eventually evolve into the story of Xianglin's sister-in-law, and most importantly, not everyone can reconcile with the past.
Every adult is responsible for their own actions, and you have acted even though you knew that you would hurt someone else, and now you have to make the person you hurt pay for their mistakes. Apologizing doesn't make up for the hurt, it happens when it happens. What's more, most of the hurters apologize just to make themselves feel at ease.
People who can hurt you without scruples must be consciously superior to you. In his mind, your existence is dispensable and insignificant. For example, if you are about to crash, QQ on the left, BMW on the right, which one do you say you hit?
What he did hurt you, and you asked him to do the same to his leader?
Too often, the thoughts and education we receive are to be tolerant and generous, and often ignore our own inner feelings, and even be cautious when rejecting others. But we often forget that the person who hurt you never put you on an equal footing, so why should we treat his apology as an equal? To put it another way, the person who hurt you is not embarrassed, why should you be embarrassed to refuse his apology?
You don't need to be surprised by my attitude, let alone stand on the moral high ground to tell me that I said "I'm sorry" to you, why don't you "don't me" "It's okay". You can apologize to me, and I can choose not to forgive.
There is a sentence in BoJack Horseman, no one has ever stipulated this, and an apology will definitely be forgiven.
Instead of being entangled in this whirlpool of hatred all the time, simply jumping out and trying to live better than him, what could be more relieving than seeing him live as well as you?
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Will you apologize? The question seems ridiculous. We deal with polite expressions such as "thank you", "sorry" and "please" from the beginning of learning a language, so why is there such a problem?
Now, please take a minute to recall whether you can calmly say the word "sorry".
Susan Jacobbe, an American public relations expert, once said that learning to apologize is an important social skill. And for a simple but important skill, it is seen by some as a sign of cowardice. Some people think that apologizing is weakness.
This sentence is really unbearable. If the front is a compromise, then what is strong? Is it only "the winner is king, and the loser is the villain" is the way to behave in the world?!
If this is the case, then what is the difference between the so-called civilization, demeanor, and politeness of human beings and the "law of the jungle" of animals and beasts?! Although I am small, I can tell these ignorant people out loud that a sincere apology is a sign of reasonableness and politeness!
Someone once told me that he had never said the word "I'm sorry" when he was so big. In fact, not apologizing to others does not mean that you have not made a mistake, on the contrary, it is a mistake in itself.
A sincere apology makes a person feel good'affection, and to be closer and cherish the relationship and friendship between each other. A person cannot guarantee that he will never make mistakes, "people will always pass, and then they can change", only the courage to face up to and admit their mistakes, will there be the motivation to move forward. Otherwise, he will never be able to close the zai
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