Is mom too much, what if mom is too much?

Child. Don't be burdened. And my mother is also a human being.

There are also joys, sorrows, and sorrows. There are emotions. Maybe she's in a bad mood.

It's not right to speak to you like that. But you have to think about why. Parents will always be your mountain.

They are also the people who love you and care about you the most in the world. Think about it, if you're in a bad mood. Isn't it emotional?

If you don't even have that measure. How will I get in touch with society in the future? You can look at the twenty-four filial piety.

Don't torture yourself with other people's mistakes. The one who makes the mistake is still the mother who gave birth to you and raised you. I hope you don't hold a grudge against your mother.

To put it simply, this is verbal violence, but if this is her usual way of language expression, then it must also be distinguished, in the early years, I had a certain verbal conflict with my relatives, and the reason was mainly that I could not accept the other party's linguistic predation, but I also understood that he was also using this kind of language expression in communication with others, so I sometimes might as well remind him when I am used to it, say no, and that's it.

Maybe your mother was in a bad mood, and she was saying that she was also your mother, you said, I know it's not fair to you, so what's it, right, your mother is a little stressed a lot of the time, you can just take it seriously, okay.

It's a bit excessive, but that's an elder, what can you say? There's something wrong with you, isn't it?

1.First of all, it is necessary to clarify whether the mother's approach is reasonable. If it is reasonable, then obey; If it is unreasonable, you should express your opinions to the mother in a reasonable and well-founded manner, respect the mother's impulsive opinions, and both parties can communicate frankly and seek a satisfactory solution.

2.If the mother's approach is extreme, then you can ask teachers, friends, parents, etc. for help, and they can give objective advice to help solve the problem.

3.Try to understand your mother's thoughts, if you can, you can work with your mother to demolish the town, communicate with your mother on an equal footing, respect your mother's opinions, try to communicate with your mother, and find the best solution.

Summary. Hello dear! Can you tell the teacher why you said your mother was too much? Mom is the greatest person in the world, isn't there a saying that only mom is good in the world, mom is too much because she loves her son, not really too much.

Hello dear! Can you tell the teacher why you said your mother was too much? Mother Duan Sui is the greatest person in the world, isn't there a saying that there is only a mother in the world, Duan Qi is good, and her mother is too much because she loves her son, not really too much.

If the teacher is worthy of your trust, tell the teacher and ask the teacher to help with the lead stalking, at least you are at school, and she can't bother. If you have relatives at home who you can trust, try to be with them, don't be alone with your mother, and don't give her a chance to bully you. You have to remember that she pinched your weakness in **, don't give her a chance.

Tell yourself to learn to be self-reliant, this is a skill that anyone must learn, and your mother may be one of the ways to live without self-reliance and self-reliance.

The most unreliable parents I have ever seen may be the parents of a friend of mine.

When I first fell in love, my friend's parents disagreed, thinking that this man had no job, low education, and poor family conditions. My boyfriend took his elders to ask for a kiss, and was beaten out by my friend's parents. But my friend wanted to marry him, and thought he was good to her, so she secretly eloped with him.

A year later, my friend's cousin came to her and said that her mother thought she was sick and begged her to go back, and her parents agreed to their marriage. Only then did she go back, and when she got married, her parents didn't give her a dowry, and said that it was a great loss for her daughter to spend so much money to marry this kind of man. After giving birth to a child at the age of six or seven, the parents never admitted in front of outsiders that their daughter's child was their nephew, and the daughter's husband was her son-in-law.

After a few years of hardship, when the child was six years old, my friend's husband went out to work. At this time, my friend's first love broke into their lives, and after a few meals, some rumors reached the ears of my friend's husband. Her husband came back and had a big fight.

After my friend's parents found out about this, they found out that my friend's first love had just divorced, and he had money and a good job, and he went directly to the boyfriend and said:"You like my daughter, won't you chase hard! Can't you beat her man!

You beat him away, beat him until he divorces for this!

It got louder and louder, and I couldn't live anymore, and my friend got divorced. Half a year after the divorce, my friend found out about all this, and my friend left the man he first loved, and left his parents to go to Yunnan to work. I haven't been in touch with my parents yet.

This kind of parents don't know what to think, whether their daughter's happiness is important or their own interests and face are important, it is incomprehensible.

Relationship between parents - family of origin.

Reading between the lines depends on the "relationship between parents" is not very harmonious, except for some exchanges over money, there is no communication in other aspects; The relationship between parents has developed to this day, not for no reason, but because there are certain reasons or the result of accumulated contradictions. No matter what the relationship between your parents is, you will always be their child and a part of the family of origin, which is a fact that cannot be taken off; Moreover, the parents are adults, and the things between them are indeed incomprehensible to children, Shen Liang! Let's wait and see, the adults' affairs are up to them to solve; It is enough to do your best for your mother and take care of yourself as you should do!

Mother's perspective - different perceptions of each other: there is no mother in the world who does not love her child, but later something that you never knew about will affect the mother and make the mother change her original approach to your relationship; Perhaps, in the eyes of the mother, the child has grown up, and will look at the problem from the perspective of an adult, and in the mother's psychology, the subject has grown up and should take care of herself; This is a difference in each other's cognition, and the perspective is different, which I hope the subject will look at from a different angle, or your mother has really grown up for you, and you don't have to take care of you like when you were a child!

Mother's behavior: You have tried your best to communicate, and there is really no result of conversion, and it is indeed not within your power to dominate or control; On the surface, there is really nothing to do, but it is not impossible, but there are some methods and opportunities to be lenient, so that you can communicate with your mother in detail and calmly, and you really need to think carefully and think twice.

Self-care and reflection:

1.Observe and perceive more about what the mother's behavior means and what it feels; Why is it bad temper and what causes it? Or when the mother is emotional, try to understand the mother's feelings, to feel how you feel in the same situation?

What would you do? Perhaps, such a perception will make you have new feelings and different perceptions!

2.The current state of your mother's behavior can be changed without your persuasion, so let it go for a period of time, during this time, you take care of yourself, do "solve your own things", make your own emotions, and are not limited and affected by the external environment, calm your mind, and in the awareness and observation, experience the ward and try to understand, you can also understand through your family, what happened in the past?

3.Try to understand your family, bravely take the initiative to warm, smile, give more, and try and communicate slowly, this is not something that can be solved in a hurry, it does require patience! Firmly believe in one thing:

Mom is the one who gave birth to you and raised you, is the only mother, and must respect him when she learns. If you do something wrong, try to communicate with him, talk to her about the facts, tell her what you want to do and how you feel. You are his child and the meat that fell from his pregnant body, slowly understanding you; Believe you'll get it done, come on!

You can try to communicate with your mother, express your dissatisfaction to your mother, and be honest about your own demands.

I think Ying Huiran should communicate with her mother well, but no matter how you don't have a previous life, you still have to understand them, after all, they are also very difficult, and the return of adults is even more cumbersome.

Then you should strengthen yourself, enrich yourself, make yourself better and better, make yourself very capable, and let yourself slowly get out of this family.