Mom said don t marry poor, do I listen?

As a parent, I am afraid that if you marry a poor person, you will suffer hardship, and your parents hope that you can be good, this is what your parents want, and you can make your own decisions.

You can sometimes communicate more with your mother, the salary is not high now, maybe she will be very promising in the future, no one can say well, and don't look at the immediate benefits.

The old man has eaten more salt than we have eaten noodles, I think there is nothing wrong with listening to my mother's words, because I have a friend, the day before yesterday I also came to complain to me, she just because she did not listen to her mother's words, married to a far away mountainous area, especially special regret, every day to give me WeChat, crying while crying while living in her helplessness.

Parents may be talking about this problem from a realistic point of view, so at this time you should also consider a parent's mentality, because at this time material is the basis of a person's survival, so at this time you should think about it.

You're only seventeen years old, and you're not old enough to get married, and I don't think he's coming at the right time for this child.

You have a long way to go after you are only 17 years old, don't marry yourself casually, discuss it with your family.

Mom said don't marry poor, I think you should listen to it, not only parents are good for themselves, then I feel like listening.

In fact, your mother said this for your own good, the most important thing is to decide for yourself, if you think you and your boyfriend are really in love, you can decide for yourself.

Hello! Of course, you have to listen to your mother!

Besides, what my mother said is not wrong at all.

I really hope you can remember what your mother said, don't marry poor.

Listen, the social experience of the two people, the economic level is close to the happiest time.

First of all, I have to say that my parents don't want you to marry a poor boy, it must be for your own good, he is afraid that you will suffer in the future, because our parents almost came from a very difficult era, and they all know how uncomfortable it is to have no money. So it is very reasonable to want a child to marry a rich person, no matter what your parents think, I believe that most parents in the world do not want their children to marry a very poor person. My parents used to talk to me about this issue, but they analyzed it to varying degrees.

When they were talking to me about it, I asked them, what if I like him very much? From their answer to me, there is no material love, everything is empty talk, I couldn't understand this point of view at the time, but now that I have entered society, it seems that I am more and more sure of their words.

They said that if the boy was not very wealthy, but very capable, there would be no problem in marrying himAfter all, he can rely on his own strength to drive the whole family in a few years, maybe the first few years will be relatively hard, but the later life will be more comfortable.

But if you want to marry a boy that you like very much, but who doesn't provide you with enough material guarantees, 70% of the time, you will regret marrying him. Because behind the marriage, there must be a strong material guarantee to continuously inject fresh vitality into the relationship, so that two people can live more and more happily, instead of being bound by money. It doesn't matter if you marry a poor child, but you must marry a poor child who is self-motivated.

Then I think it really should, poor couples mourn everything.

Of course, you should listen to your parents and don't marry a very poor person.

I think we should listen to our parents, because after all, my parents are from the past.

I think it's better to listen to your parents, because your parents' eyes will see people.

It's better to listen to your parents, or you'll have a miserable life.

This requires you to make your own choice, whether you are willing to suffer for love.

Your mom doesn't like you marrying a poor kid, and I think you should listen to your mom. After all, she is her own mother, she has her own life experience, and she has encountered many more things than you, so when she tells you things, she has her reasons and her merits. Your mother doesn't want you to marry a poor boy because she's afraid you'll suffer if you marryAnd marrying a richer man, no matter how you say it, there is a material security, and the poor boy doesn't even have a material security, how can your mother bear to let you marry and suffer?

After marrying a poor boy, you have to make money with the poor boy to support the family, this poor boy is more motivated, knows how to care about you and loves you, if this poor boy is not self-motivated, and does not know how to care about you, then you marry to suffer and suffer, and you have to run around for your life every day, and the gap between the rich and the poor between your two families is too large, this kind of family conflict will also affect the relationship between you,For all sorts of reasons, your mother won't let you marry a poor boy, there's no doubt about it.

Marrying a poor boy is the equivalent of a gamble, betting on the poor boy's future. If his future is good, then he wins, if his future is still poor, then you lose, and your mother can't bear to watch you gamble with your youth and your timeMothers all over the world love their children, how can the flesh that falls from their bodies look at and suffer? So your mother won't let you marry a poor boy and suffer, no matter what she says.

Of course, it's not that all poor boys can't get married, it's just that this poor boy must have his own fighting spirit, and a poor boy who has no fighting spirit and no potential will be a poor boy for the rest of his life, he can't even give you basic material security, can he still give you a happy life? Your mother didn't like to let you marry a poor boy because of that.

Your mother, she is worried that you will suffer with the poor boy in the future, so she will fight back, empty regret does not mean that you have to listen to your parents completely, but you should also think about it, you like this poor boy, is he a person worthy of your life? Does he have what it takes to make you live a good life in the future? If he is very hardworking, skilled, and able to make you feel secure in all aspects, you can still choose, because if he is very good, he will work hard in the future to make money to support his family, improve his life, and make the family happier and happier.

You have to consider your parents' opinions, because your parents care about you and love you.

Mother's original intention is good, I don't want my daughter to suffer from life, marry a poor child, the living conditions are very limited, what you want in the future, you have to do your best to fight and get, the mother feels sorry for her child, is out of love for the child, it is understandable, but I personally feel that this problem needs to vary from person to person, can not be poor and love rich, as long as this man is hardworking and reliable enough, poverty is only temporary, we are all ordinary people, our parents have not been able to give us anything, Don't bully the poor youth, wealth can be accumulated, there is no money when you are young, the rich are the second generation of rich, that is not obtained by their own strength, it seems that there is nothing to envy, if your object is not in good condition at home, you don't work hard, then you marry the past, life may not be so good in the future, the key is to look at the silver to see me, it varies from person to person, not to say that you can't marry if you are poor, the daughter of my neighbor next door, grew up with me since childhood, looks very beautiful, and fell in love with the poor boy in the township, When she wanted to get married, her mother went on a hunger strike, beat to death and disagreed, and finally people knelt down for her, and she was also very angry, and now she bought a house in our local area, had a stable income, gave birth to a son and a daughter, and made up a good word, and now she is very happy, and some women are married to poor boys, and they pin all their material desires on men, and they don't work hard, and men are overwhelmed in the end, and they are not happy after the divorce, and one day they fall down the stairs from the home without decorating the guardrail, and his mother heard that she fell from the building, and she fell down in a panic. All of a sudden, the family is ruined, and remarrying with a daughter is still this mentality, and in the end it is the poorest one who is clearly arguing, and will never be happy, so we women want to be happy for a lifetime, many times they rely on themselves, of course, if you can marry someone with good conditions, be good to yourself, and you can enjoy happiness, that is the most ideal, but unfortunately things in this world are often unsatisfactory....

Hello, in fact, your mother considers, of course, you have to consider the opinions of your parents and you, if you marry a man who is too poor, you will have a hard time in the future, you will feel very tired, when the time comes, your mother reminds you, you don't listen, of course, it is you who suffer from it, so you should consider many aspects when considering the marriage object next to the exam, find a suitable person to get married, and the future will be happy jujube pants. You should also take your parents' words into account.

And after the Hui Dynasty, it is this poor child who accompanies you to go through the jujube for the rest of your life, not your mother who accompanies you for the rest of your life. As long as two people love each other, nothing can stop you.

Mom, if you don't want it now, you can get along with your boyfriend Shouque for two more years, if after another two years, you still insist on marrying, I believe my mother should be able to understand, don't be in a hurry to get married, if he works very hard, he can earn money, even if he is poor, he may have money in the future, if he can't wait for you for two years, it means that he doesn't love you so much, then it's not worth it to shout to marry him and be poor.

Personal point of view, a person's character, assertiveness, ability, willpower, as well as a healthy body and a willing heart to work hard for you, such a man, regardless of his current state, can marry, because, he will not let you live the same life for the rest of your life, getting better and better is visible, and the most important thing is that you love each other.

At present, a good person, or a person with a good family background, if the individual lacks the aforementioned men, it is just sitting on the omen to eat the empty mountain and passively celebrate the chaos. If you lack assertiveness, everyone follows others, and how happy is it as a wife. If all the sins are classified to the wife who is not a prosperous husband, then the reputation chain is wronged and aggrieved.

My mother didn't want her children to suffer. If this boy is self-motivated and is wholeheartedly devoted to you, then you can consider it. Be self-motivated, and your life will be a ruined mess after that, so you still listen to your mother.

There is a certain reason for the parents' consideration, the economic conditions are comparable, and the marriage is relatively long-lasting. Of course, it is not necessarily that a poor child is not motivated, if he is motivated, it is not impossible for Zheng to take a few Li to think about it.

Answer, from the description of the analysis, the advice is to listen to your mother's opinion.

Your mother has been from the past and has experience in life.

A marriage without a feast scum and a material foundation is not broken.

Marrying a Yinzhou individual is not to see how much money Yezen has, but also to see how strong he is, how he treats you, how he treats his own parents, what kind of people his parents are, how his family gets along, and how he treats your parents

No money is a pretense that will not work, money alone is not enough, the economy is the foundation, but it is not the whole file of life, so this relationship must be handled well, if it is too poor, the poor couple will mourn.

You yourself have to understand, why are poor children poor? Is it lazy or simply don't want to work to earn money? This letter is not the main problem, the main thing is the envy of the poor child's character, temper, and gentleness?

Don't look for a poor and grumpy one.,That's your no-brainer.,Mother's advice can be recognized as a real reference.|

First of all, you have to have a wise eye, choose your own life, and never regret it, so that you can not listen to anyone's opinion.

I think that I come to see it mainly to see what kind of boy he is, whether he is very self-motivated, whether he has considerable ability, mainly depends on what he does with the jujube, not what Sakura Ji listens to what he says, whether it is good for you or not, ...... split