I ve tried my best, but in some places I m still not liked by everyone, what should I do?

It seems that in addition to being introverted and shy, there is also this simplicity. Maybe what you say is the truth, but many times the last thing people want to hear is the truth, or the relationship is not good enough to accept your outspokenness, so it needs to be tactful, and it needs to be called side-knocking.

Sometimes it doesn't have to be necessary to express one's opinions, at least not until you are sure that your views will be accepted by others. Listen to what others are talking about to understand what they are thinking. If you disagree, don't speak, just listen; If you have the same or similar point of view as you, it's okay to share your opinion, but it's better to wait for someone to finish, and it's rude to interrupt someone.

Good luck.

Some advice for you.

1) Learn how others talk. demeanor, etc., pay attention to how to deal with some topics that you encounter when communicating with others that are memorable or will hurt the other person. This aspect is to be learned.

2) Change your personality to be more easy-going and cute. And understand the characteristics of different personalities, so that you don't get stuffy somewhere, maybe their actions are unintentional or determined by their personalities. I suggest you take a look at "The Power of Character: Beyond the Exceptional You".

Books that generally introduce different personalities and their behavioral characteristics will make you understand why others treat you this way.

And then there's reading some books that talk and do things. Lots of bookstores.

3) Improve their professional and business strength. This is the core of making others like you and even fear you**.

For the first time with other people, it is best not to talk too much about your own opinions, you should ask the other party some questions appropriately, and the other party is happy with your questions, such as hobbies, etc., remember not to talk about privacy, you can also be a faithful observer when other people are talking, at least let others think that what they say is listened to, this is a sign of respect, in fact, what you say is not necessarily wrong in some occasions, but it is not necessarily what others like to hear, sometimes "white lies" are also a way to promote communication And if it were you, there would be a new person to talk to you about how you would feel, so talking is not about "force" to say, but to look at the environment and the substance of the conversation, in addition, in terms of work and study, try to do not understand and ask, and then when talking, it is best to smile, look directly into the other person's eyes, listen to the other party's words, you can repeat the other party's language from time to time, show that you are listening to the other party's speech, in addition, you can also observe the other party's reaction a little when talking, if you seem impatient, it means that you have to change the topic immediately And be careful, try not to interrupt other people's conversations, anyway, just treat everyone with care, and others will treat you with the same care, don't worry, you can do it

Don't deliberately disguise yourself, be true to yourself, live for yourself, don't always watch others live, that will make you very tired of life, learn to delete, delete a day, and throw away unhappy things as soon as possible, everyone has ambitions, there will be no one who does not like a person, work hard, find happiness from work, that will make your work life more exciting!

Pay more attention to what others say. Of course, it is recommended that you keep yourself simple, but people always have to grow up, and social interaction will become very important, so you can listen more and talk more. Talk to people who really know you so they don't mind if you don't mean it"Joke"However, the joke should not be overdone.

It doesn't matter, as long as you are honest in your heart and sincere to people, everyone will understand your character after a long time, and it will be better. It's important that you don't speak too straightforwardly, as you'll mature as you get older!

Try to communicate with people and take your time! Start with a good friend around you.

Looks like a lot of people are helping you......Dealing with people is indeed a ...... science

Take your time......：

Go to the IQ Academy to learn it, it can help you deal with interpersonal relationships!

Buy some books and read them!

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First, you need to determine the cause. All engaged. Furthermore, pay attention to the possibility of testing whether you really love or not, make sure that you really don't like you and then you can only try your best to move him, if there is a junior, then, you should drop him in advance, because he is not worth it. If you are really reluctant, the only way to move him is to move.

The relationship is 2 people, no matter how hard you try, you will not have the desired result! It's better to let go and start again! Good luck. Hope it helps!

Marriage is a matter of two people, and the love maintained by one party will eventually collapse, think about how you got to where you are today, if the two of you struggle together, this relationship will not be easily lost.

It's not okay to be reluctant, or you can keep it.

The twisted melon is not sweet, so even if you get married, you will get divorced, and a marriage without love will not be happy.

You ask why? Did you fool you?

In fact, sometimes saying that breaking up doesn't necessarily mean that you really want to break up, maybe it's implying that you don't care enough about her recently, but at this time, you haven't contacted him for a few days on a business trip, if you don't want to break up with you, you have to break up, normally if you really don't want to separate, just try your best to redeem it, do better than before, such as often texting "Have you eaten, miss you,", you have to let him know that you think about him all the time, no girl will hate her boyfriend and send him a text message to send him care, Maybe it's because he doesn't feel that you're nervous about her, even if you're not around, you don't care about her, you think you're doing a lot, but we girls need more, every day I want to hear your voice, your text messages, your greetings, your concern, when the classmates around her ask "Didn't your boyfriend call you today, didn't you have a text message", and the other classmates are eating with her boyfriend and shopping together, how will she feel in her heart?

Don't be confused This kind of woman who is in the blessing and doesn't know the blessing It's really unbearable The first floor is right He doesn't like you enough Maybe people have a new goal 3 months doesn't mean anything at all Can you put it down or let it go When you are constantly interrupted, you must suffer from the chaos This sentence you should know.

Just imagine, if you marry her in the future, she is still not satisfied with this, dissatisfied with that, can you stand it? I believe that everything you do to her now is voluntary, but in the future, you will not be able to stand this kind of thing that only blindly gives and is exchanged for cynicism, and I am as good to me as you are, but in exchange for those lukewarm words, I have been like this to her for 3 years, and I feel tired now!! Everything is centered on her What does he like to eat I don't want to cook for her when I come back from work, but she's still happy to say a few words to me If I'm not happy to say ten words, she shouldn't have heard me If she hasn't changed, I'm going to end the relationship, because a bad relationship that is not good for anyone will hurt two people, and you're only three months, and I'm three years old, and I'm a person compared to you.

Don't talk about it, I drank a little too much today, I have a terrible headache, I wish you to get out of the confusion as soon as possible, if you don't break up, she can change, then I bless you even more!!

Did you ask her what she wanted? What kind of affection is needed? Sometimes boys are too self-conscious and feel that what they are doing is right, but in fact, some are not the kind of feelings that girls want.

After reading your story, I think you still care about your girlfriend very much and don't want to break up and lose her. I'm also a girl, and my boyfriend is also very busy, and he doesn't come to me very often. I can understand him.

Your girlfriend, like most little girls, likes to rely on you and feels that being together every day belongs to campus love, and it is not something that can withstand long-term separation. Did he think you were too busy to ignore her? I used to be like that, thinking he didn't care about me.

In fact, I think your girlfriend doesn't seem to have a good understanding of the nature of your work, and thinks that you are too dedicated to your work and snubs her. Try asking her ...

It's important to have mutual understanding. It's also important to get a good grasp of how often you like each other. Communication + time + persistence, and the premise is that you are truly in love.

Hmmm......She's too sensitive, you're too naïve. Or maybe she's waiting for you to do something to show your sincerity.

Mood syndrome, calm down and then look for her, if you want to ignore you again88

I guess she doesn't like you enough!

In fact, it is really embarrassing and embarrassing to encounter such a situation.

I think that no matter how good I do, my girlfriend's mother just doesn't like me.

I think it will take some time to change his opinion of you, and although your girlfriend's mother doesn't like you very much right now, you two must not give up on your love because of this, and be strong to face it together.

Not accepting you now doesn't mean that you won't accept you in the future, maybe it will take a while to get along, and I'm sure his mother will think you're a good person. Just keep at it, and one day his mother will change her mind about you. Come on, don't be discouraged...

Your girlfriend is so nice. For her sake, what do you care about others. It is you who will really live together in the future.

Throw the nourishment for the elderly with all your might, don't call you wife.

It's better to take it yourself.

Hehe, the mouth must have that.

Then you can do some work in the future, and generally mothers-in-law like sons-in-law to work. Don't go to your girlfriend's house empty-handed, if you want to go, you have to bring something, or don't go! Now seniors love it!

I can only try my best to please my mother-in-law.

Don't embarrass your girlfriend.

Hold on, parents want their daughters to marry better.

Slow run-in, not a matter of one or two days. Only by working hard to do a good job in your own career can you be looked down upon by others. In this day and age, if there is no money, there is no status.

Then you'll have to think of some ways to please him.

1. Don't complain to your girlfriend:

The girlfriend took herself to see her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law didn't like herself, and she shouldn't make a fuss, let alone complain to her girlfriend, saying that she was wronged, saying that her mother didn't like herself, and so on, complaining shows that she has no stomach, and if her girlfriend doesn't say it on the surface, she will be unhappy, and often complaining will make her girlfriend feel uncomfortable, after all, it is her mother, and she should understand the psychology of the old man more, and her mother-in-law doesn't like to explain that she still has something bad.

2. Understand the reasons for not being liked:

Sometimes it's not that if you do well, someone will like it, no one is perfect, some people will be jealous if you do well, and some people will dislike it if you don't do well, there is no one in this world who can make everyone like, and it is good to agree with it more than denial.