I would like to ask you for advice on the problems of life

This question is like this, there is a saying that people are expensive and self-aware, as ordinary people must be down-to-earth, face the reality, people must work and have income to live, now there are many jobs to do in various industries, you have to do what you can according to your own conditions, you can learn to drive if you have conditions, and then buy your own car to operate or drive for others; You can also learn a skill, be your own boss or work for others, etc., the key is to be able to endure hardships, use your brain diligently, only willing to work, life is no problem, pay attention, there will be no pie in the sky.

I think the chef is good, the salary is quite high, and if you learn well, it will be good to open your own restaurant in the future.

Learn a love one, since you have chosen, you must make unremitting efforts to persevere, tired is tired, even if it is not very good, you have to persevere, and perseverance to the end is victory,

Every profession will have the troubles of each profession, you don't have to think about which profession is good and which is not, programmers work a lot of overtime, and being a boss is also very troublesome, civil servants are okay, but there are also many people who can't stand to resign. So there is no perfect career in this world, only the profession you are interested in, ask yourself from the heart what you want to do and what you don't want to do. It's hard work to be a cook, but it's okay to raise a family.

If you want to change technology, I think that Internet technology is the most profitable now, of course, it is very hard, but the salary is very considerable, such as this programmer. You can look up that programmer pay is still very good, but it is also very hard and mind-wracking. That's some of my advice, hope.

Have a goal and set out towards hope. And so it enriches.

According to your description, you must not have a high degree of education, for people with low education, I think it is best to learn to cook and repair cars, because you don't need to learn to have an academic threshold, if you really don't want to do this, you can consider doing sales.

Life's problems. It's the arrangement of fate. Man's fate is predestined, and it is useless to think wildly.

The eight words of human life are the same. What should be yours is yours, and what you want cannot be forced. Nine out of nine lives, it's hard to shake up.

Perfect. Those who are content are always happy. You're going to live a very chic life.

I want to change jobs and learn something else, and I ask you for advice, I don't know now.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, there will be confusion, think about what you like, and then work hard.

After entering the society, no matter what work you do? You must concentrate and make a little achievement with your diligence and hard work. Don't face three.

I think the chef industry is still very good, and now there is a lot of money, and chefs are usually busy for a few hours.

Hello, life is indeed hard. There are difficulties in facing life. Keep fighting. to be successful. I think you should go to Meituan, either as a rider or as a courier.

If you have to endure hardship, you will become a master, and it is recommended that you still have to suffer a little more!

If you are a Chinese chef, you are indeed tired and the smoke is heavy, you can learn pastry, because you have a little kitchen foundation after all, and learning pastry is clean. The health treatment is not bad.

It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, but it's a sadness.

Finally, one day, when the indifference and selfishness of human nature are exposed, you will only be bruised again and again.

1. Who am I?

A: Why am I and who am I? I can also be no one, and no one can be me.

It doesn't really matter who is left with me, they are both the same thing. "I" is just a concept of the consciousness of the human mind, and "I" itself does not exist. Since "I" does not exist, then "who" does not exist, and how can we talk about who I am, it can only be empty to empty.

So am I empty, nor am I, "I" is just a concept of nothingness. Selflessness is not the absence of self, selflessness is the origin of the universe, the subject of all laws.

Second, I came from **?

Answer: "I" exists in the consciousness of the human mind, and it seems that this problem is solved. However, this is not the case, and it is better to ask what the real self is before asking this question.

If there is no false self, how can there be a true self? The false self is just a concept of nothingness, and the true self is the permanent self, i.e., the true self is impermanent. Therefore, the true self can be a mountain, it can be water, it can be a flower, it can be a grass, it can be everything in the world, and everything in the world is the true self.

So where does the real self come from? From the void, from nothingness, from emptiness, from that one.

Three, I want to go to **?

A: Do I want to go to**, I can** not go. I'm in the same place and I'm not digging in a different place, it's actually the same thing.

I haven't changed because I went to **. I just need to go inward, and inward is the only channel to connect with the main body of the Ten Thousand Laws. Therefore, I need to go to **, I need to get rid of me, return to my true self, be with nature, and go with the flow; Same as the avenue, walk with the road.

The above three questions are of great importance, not just for the saints and philosophers, and the answers are certainly not their patented inventions. If we don't understand these three questions in this life, then it is stupid and ridiculous to do what we do and what we want to become. That's why none of these three philosophical questions about life are secrets of what I want to do or what I want to become.

In fact, when you understand these three philosophical questions of life, you will naturally know what you want to do, you will naturally know what you don't need to be, you will be what you are. You will find that you are so complete, so full of wisdom, so divine. What is there in the world that you can't do well?

So it's best to be yourself.

Life is an accident.

Death is a necessity! The process of being alive.

That's life! Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

Life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her! Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word:

The ideal is your own, the dream is to find, the goal is fictitious, although there will be a struggle if there is a goal, but if your goal is too empty, it is equivalent to being worse than a person without a goal. As long as you take every step of your life in a down-to-earth manner, I believe that success will always come to you.

Don't get caught up in daydreams, that will only lead you to disorientation!

Regarding your question, I want to say that in fact, ordinary is of course life.

Meaning: When life is proud, you should indulge in joy, and don't let this golden cup be empty to the bright moon.

Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon. "From the great poet Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty "Will Enter the Wine".

"Will Enter the Wine" is not long, but it has five tones and an extraordinary atmosphere.

It is full of pen and ink, extremely sad and angry, and extremely arrogant and calm. For example, the poem repeatedly uses huge numbers ("Qianjin", "Three Hundred Cups", "Ten Thousand Cups", "Ten Thousand Wines", "Thousand Golden Qiu", "Eternal Sorrow", etc.) to express heroic poetry, and at the same time, it does not give people a sense of empty and exaggerated, the root of which lies in its full and deep inner feelings, the surging depression and anger under the underlying wine talk.

In addition, the whole article has ups and downs, the poetry is flickering, from sadness to joy, to wildness, to anger, and then to wildness, and finally to the "eternal sorrow", responding to the beginning of the article, such as the river rushing, there are momentum, there are also twists and turns, vertical and horizontal, and the strength can carry the tripod. There is a pregnant writing method in his songs, and there is a magic workmanship, "no pen and ink path", which is neither deliberately portrayed and carved to learn, nor can it be achieved hastily.

This question is a good question, you should carefully analyze, is it your reason, or your friend's reason, the most rare thing in life is to communicate, more contact does not mean that their relationship is very good, not contact does not mean that they will be strangers in the future, the real friend is that the two of you are together Although there is nothing to say, but still do not feel embarrassed, what you have to do is: be the best yourself, treat every friend around you sincerely, and believe that time will be the best witness. You may be lonely and bored, but you have to overcome this psychological problem, loneliness only belongs to lonely people ......Set a goal and find to pursue your life.

Hope it helps.

In fact, the so-called popularity is just a manifestation of social ability. I don't think you're looking for this kind of purposeful popularity, you should want that kind of relationship with a real hardcore buddy. Actually, it's very simple, among the people you fancy and want to date, when they need you the most, you can show up in time and do what a hardcore buddy should do, then, you will win the heart.

However, I would advise you. To be a friend is to have the consciousness of being a friend, not to be timid and afraid of things, not to suffer from gains and losses. If you do, I'm sure you'll get something.

After all, people's hearts are made of flesh. Whoever really cares about whom, can definitely feel it.

Popularity is so useful! But you have to have friends! Get in touch with others! Be proactive! But don't talk too much! That's going to be boring!

First of all, you have to recognize the reason why you have few friends and are not popular enough, what is the reason? Change yourself, expand your circle of friends, know more people, communicate more, understand others and let others understand you, in order to find friends who are suitable for you. In addition, don't always think about old friends, old friends will always have to separate, they have new friends, their energy is limited, it is impossible to be as close to you as before, so you also need to meet new friends and keep in touch with old friends.

You have to be cheerful, usually pay more attention to current affairs or something, and be able to pick up the conversation when chatting with others, don't want people to say that you don't know, how to talk to others.

Treat people sincerely, and you will get sincerity!

Also, don't feel inferior because you have few friends, because it is the low self-esteem that leads to bad popularity, when communicating with others, you must be neither humble nor arrogant, lively and cheerful, and broad-minded, don't be angry because of a friend's words or two, such a person wants to be friends with him.

Signs of pure soul: gratitude, praise, piety, trustworthiness, honesty, kindness, diligence, simplicity, agility and liveliness, cleanliness, innocence, modesty, modesty, modesty, tolerance, openness, selflessness, positivity, optimism, enthusiasm, humor, love and kindness.

See if you're caused by mental imperfections. Strive to make yourself perfect!

Praise is a symbol of the abundance of a person's soul, and praise God, nature, and others are signs of spiritual beauty.

Gratitude is the first element of sublimation life. Repentance is the most effective way to purify the mind.

Gratitude is the source of happiness and the basis for living in harmony with God's natural human masses. As long as you have a grateful heart and a humble heart, you can shape it into a great tool, and you can obtain the "Anuttara Sambodhi", and you can achieve the greatest wish, once you lack gratitude and humility, it is "rotten wood cannot be carved".

Praise makes a person perfect, and fastidious makes a person incomplete. Only those who are rich in heart will praise others, and those who are poor in spirit will never praise others. People who are perfect in themselves often praise others, and people who are ugly in themselves often find fault with others and belittle others.

In order to make others happy and happy, the Zen Monastery advocates turning a blind eye to people's flaws, but praising people's bright spots, so that over time, people will become kind and compassionate, they will become beautiful, they will become grateful, and they will become reasonable.

If you say good things, you can say it to your heart's content, the wind and rain are smooth in He, and sweet words are conducive to love.

Look more at the strengths and strengths of others, and focus less on the shortcomings and shortcomings of others; Think more about your shortcomings and shortcomings, and less about showing off your strengths and strengths.