What kind of mentality is it to suddenly feel the world cold?

I was very pessimistic, very helpless, I felt that I was very powerless, and I began to slowly become complaining, looking like I didn't care.

The state of disappointment, when you experience something like this, you will feel cold and disappointed.

I think it should be to see through people's hearts, you treat me like this, and when you also end up with me, see how I treat you, there may be some sadness in my heart.

That's because you encountered something that disappointed you very much and no one helped you, of course, you will feel that the world is cold and human nature is cold.

I think it's a very sad state of mind, probably because I've become very disappointed with a lot of things in my life.

It feels ethereal. What feels good can also feel bad, and different moods will have different feelings.

The second is that my father partnered with someone else to do business, and in the end he was cheated, and all his money was embezzled by his partner. At that time, my family was in an economic crisis, and life was very difficult, at that time, I was in junior high school, and I used 25 yuan a week, and many times I felt that our family was gone in the next second. At that time, one of my uncles even cut the wires in our house, and my father was not home at that time.

Only my mom was at home with us. Later, my uncle wouldn't let us use tap water, and once we used it, he scolded him. In the end, we had to go far away to carry water to drink, and these things were only a hundredth of what they did to us.

At that time, their family still owed our family 10,000 yuan, because their children were in college, and my parents didn't ask him for it.

Many people feel that if someone apologizes to you, you have to forgive, hehehe. It's really interesting. You have the freedom to apologize, and I have the right not to accept it. It's not easy for everyone to live, don't fall into the trap, please live kindly!

The teacher kept telling us that the school was really a house, and although it protected us, it prevented us from seeing the real state of society. Maybe he was right, and it was only when I actually walked out of school that I understood this sentence. In fact, what I said was not really about leaving school, but in a social practice organized by the school, I felt the indifference of society and the coldness of the world.

That time, we went to Beijing. Because we are from Suzhou, the school arranged for us to go to Taizhou to sit in a sleeper. I've never been in a sleeper and I think it's amazing.

I'm looking forward to this trip. Although I knew from a young age that the sleeper must be very, very uncomfortable, and the quality of the people in the car must not be high, I still think it is excellent to experience it once.

Finally, we got into the green car that we had been dreaming of. We had a very, very awkward problem at the beginning. Due to school problems, the students we went to were all separated.

We had agreed that my best friend and I would sleep in bunk beds, but my good friend, this man has had very bad luck since he met him. Although we were scattered, we were in a carriage anyway, and he went to a remote place alone.

So we quickly thought of swapping with the people in our room. As we all know, the bottom bunk bed is naturally the best, which saves the time of climbing the stairs and does not need to put the luggage on the top. My good friend is the lowest bunk, naturally a very good condition.

But after asking several carriages, they were unwilling, obviously they were all going to Beijing, but they used any inconvenience to prevaricate us.

Really, after asking around and no one wanted to, we went back. But when he returned, he was surprised to find that his bed had been filled with luggage. Although I don't know who it is, my good friend and I may not dare to talk to strangers because of our cowardly relationship, so we can only watch silently and cannot answer.

I didn't dare to tell them to take their luggage away.

My good friend and I thought a lot about that long night. He sat alone in a chair in the hallway, intending to sleep there tonight. But I didn't think it was good anyway, so I slept with another girl's best friend and left my bed for him.

It's really not me saying that this bed is really small and pitiful, even for someone as small as me, I can't stuff two.

At this moment, I really understood the state of the world. No one will come to your aid when you are in trouble, especially strangers. We cannot expect a helping hand from others at any time, it is unrealistic and impossible.

We can rely on our friends in times of difficulty, but the main thing is on ourselves.

I don't know how long the car bumped, and we finally arrived in Beijing. Although the world is cold, I still want to keep a fiery heart.

Three people went to work together, and they had an awkward fall out with one of them, and then two of them quit their jobs together, and today I learned that I may have to work alone in the future.

A few years ago, I got sick and was admitted to our local cancer hospital. After tossing for a while, distant relatives, friends, and classmates basically had no contact, but fortunately, God favored me and did not make the condition worse, and now I am the same as a normal person, thanks to my wife and parents who have accompanied me all the way. Fuck the so-called relatives and friends.

My mother's cousin has no parents since he was a child, grandma has always raised him as his own child, grandma is better to him than to my mother and my own uncle, even the school is provided by grandpa, and later this uncle became a teacher, at that time often came to see grandma, New Year's holidays often come and go, but since this uncle became the principal of the school, and later transferred to the Education Bureau to work, he never came to my house again, the New Year's holiday grandpa grandpa hit ** said to celebrate the festival together, people either said that there was no time or said in the field, I haven't been to my grandfather's house for more than ten years. Last year, I suddenly came to my grandmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, and sent a bunch of New Year's goods, and then finally told the truth, it turned out that this uncle retired and his son was deceived by doing business with others, and their family house and car were sold to pay off their debts, this time I wanted to borrow money, my mother and uncle didn't want to borrow, and finally my grandfather still borrowed.

From being worth tens of millions to being in debt, I experienced the first big ups and downs in my life, and I don't blame others for their tendency to be inflammatory, people are like this, I only blame myself for being blind and looking at him wrong.

Looking at the opening point, it is human instinct to tend to be inflammatory, and it has been like this for thousands of years.

My grandfather had just passed away, and my mother and my two uncles shared the house and property, and they broke off the relationship and did not have any contact.

I don't think there are good people, my mother thinks they are all good people, my mother is an honest person, and I have to mix it up in the days to come.

When I was a child, my father died of illness when I was more than four years old, and I owed a lot of drug debts, my mother raised me and my seven-year-old sister and one-year-old brother alone, my grandparents took the lead in bullying us, several aunts and uncles rolled their eyes when they saw us, and they were deliberately difficult for us when they had nothing to do, and they partnered with others to bully us, because I was poor I dropped out of school at the age of fifteen and went to society, and now I am thirty-two years old, and the family has a van that pulls goods, a Buick SUV of more than 200,000 yuan, two suites in the county, and now my grandparents are old, When we are sick or something, we will take care of them, not to have feelings for them, but to prove that they were wrong to us at that time, and we will have a good day

When my father died on the day I registered for the first year of high school at the age of fifteen, my elders took me to kowtow from house to house, and when I came to a neighbor's house, he opened the door and said to me with a smile, "Kneel", and I felt so sad at that moment. I feel that in his eyes, my father's life is like a piece of grass!

When he was 18 years old, his father died, and he had three daughters and one son. The father died and left a bungalow in the village, a compound outside the village, and more than 20 pigs, the eldest daughter has been married, and the second daughter, son and old daughter are all studying. The 18-year-old son is facing the high school entrance examination (because he is greedy for fun in the first and second years of junior high school, he repeats a grade for a year).

From the death of his father in February to the end of the high school entrance examination, his son went to the yard of the field to feed the pigs and guard the door after dinner in the village after school. I went to the field at night, passed by the coffin of the person who died outside the village, rode by myself, and sang songs to strengthen my courage. After the death of his father, all the relatives on his father's side were basically cut off.

Then I was admitted to high school, and after graduating from high school, I went to work in other places. When the son was in high school, the second daughter worked in other places, and the younger daughter was still in elementary school. My mother worked hard to persevere, making tofu and doing handiwork, and gradually brought us up.

Then the second daughter got married. The youngest daughter goes to college. Then the son got married.

Married without borrowing a penny from relatives on his father's side. After struggling for a few years, I went home a year ago, and the eldest daughter, second daughter, and eldest son all bought a car and a house, and the little girl stayed in Beijing as a kindergarten teacher after graduating from university. It's really different.

The relatives on my father's side started to move around again, and the children of my father's relatives got married, and they specially called us ** again. I am really grateful to my mother, I am grateful to my mother, I want to be filial to her all my life, and I persevered in our family's most difficult time. Now, the eldest daughter accompanies her mother in her own small business, the second daughter does her own big business in other places, and the son works in other places, looking for his own career path.

The mother is at home, accompanying her daughter-in-law and coaxing her granddaughter. The next thing is to struggle, struggle, and struggle again to give the family a better life and a better quality of life.

There is a good side to human nature and an ugly side, and there are many hot and cold things.

I didn't have a job and I thought I had something to rely on, but I was told by my mother that I had to pay for food to eat, (because I had to pay her every month's salary when I worked) I was used to it, and suddenly I felt that there was really nothing but money.

When I was a child, my father was hit by a train in an accident and died, and from that day on, I became one of the people who were bullied by the whole village and the whole school, saying that my father had anointed the train. Due to the death of his father, there is no economy at home, and his clothes are also tattered, and he is often blocked from walking. Fortunately, with the help of my uncle and aunt, I have a place to sleep and eat.

When I was twenty years old, I didn't have any consent, I didn't hold a banquet, I didn't send anyone away, and I decided to marry in a different place Fortunately, my husband was still good to me, although the two people were thousands of miles apart, they were still relatively compatible. The child is also more competitive, and the two have nothing, so it can be said that there is no decent quilt. Just empty-handed, they formed a family!

Fortunately, my husband is also diligent, and in the past few years, he has been running around, suffering a lot, and slowly has some savings, bought a house, bought a car, and also broke some business for himself. Now people will be different to you immediately, the people who beat you don't fight, and you don't take the initiative to contact you and interact with them. People's faces are always, when you are incapable, the innocence of cats and dogs bullies you.

I have experienced many things that are so cold ,,, I can't put it into words,,, so now I don't have compassion

The husband is in prison, and the sister-in-law asks her mother-in-law to hide the money, is there anything more chilling than this?

In some cases, it is often from one's own relatives that can make people feel that the world is cold.

Zhang Boju, Zhang Lao donated cultural relics worth more than 100 billion yuan, but when he was old and sick, he was not even qualified to live in a senior ward.

Yes, it's what the in-laws' family did.

Relatives are the ones who make me feel the coldest of the world.

I often experience the heat and coldness of the world, but I also experience the heat and coldness of the world in one thing.