The father concealed his illness in order not to drag down his son, who was working outside, and the

The father concealed his illness in order not to drag down his son, who was working outside, and the son knew that it was too late, what do you think?

Everyone wants to be by their nearest and dearest person when they are sick, even if it is their father, who is the pillar of support. However, in order not to drag down his son, who was working outside, the father chose to hide his illness and endured the pain silently, and by the time his son knew, it was too late. This father's approach is understandable, after all, parents love their children and do not want to add burden to their children and reduce the pressure on their children.

However, the author believes that this approach is not advisable for the following reasons.

01, children need their fathers to say that their father's love is like a mountain, and their father's love is heavy. The father is not good at words, and he is not as careful as the mother, but the father's love is no less than the mother's, and the father has always loved his children silently. And children also need their fathers, even if their fathers are sick, they are also their closest people.

It is said that parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life. Parents are a symbol of a home, where there are parents, there is a home, even if the father is sick, the son is willing to do his best to save his father. Children need their fathers, even if they can't do anything for themselves, but when they look at their fathers, they feel at ease and know the meaning of their struggles.

02, the son will blame himself for the rest of his life This father is understandable that he is sick and does not want to drag down his son, but he has not considered his son's thoughts. The son must have wished that he would be able to be by his father's side and heal his father. The son will blame himself when he knows that his father is sick, and he will think that it is because he did not do his best and did not discover his father's illness in time, which will cause his father's illness to be delayed to the point that it cannot be treated.

In the future, as long as this son thinks about it, he will always blame himself, blame himself for not spending more time with his father, and blame himself for not treating his father's illness. The father died and didn't remember anything, but let his son blame himself for the rest of his life, which is also what this father doesn't want to see.

03, leave regrets for my son, my son must want to accompany his father at all times, but he has to go out to work in order to live. Every day he was out there, he would miss his father, who would leave him with regrets by hiding his illness. He would regret why he didn't stay with his father, and if he had been with him, he would have known that he was sick.

He will regret that he did not repay his father's nurturing kindness, and in the days to come, he will always regret it.

My father was excusable for doing so, but he didn't think about it comprehensively. The son definitely wants to be by his father's side, if the father tells the son in time, maybe the disease can be **, and the father can also be cured. But the father was afraid of dragging down his son, leaving his son with a lot of regrets, so that his son was in self-blame for the rest of his life.

In life, everyone can't help themselves, they are all for each other's considerations, parents' love for their children is heavy, but children's love for their parents is also immeasurable.

The father concealed his illness in order not to drag down his son, who was working outside, and the son knew that it was too late, I think this is the true feelings of parents all over the world, and this kind of love is very great and bleak.

It can only be said that the hearts of parents in the world are pitiful, and the children will always be put first in the hearts of parents, but they forget that they are equally important in the hearts of their children, so concealing the illness leaves too many regrets and regrets for their sons, and the sons here are too concerned about their fathers, and they should often call ** to care about their fathers.

The father also doesn't want his son to worry, but if he could have been cured, but because his father concealed it, he delayed his illness, missed the best ** period, or his father left, this should be the regret of his son's life! In any case, the family should discuss and solve it together, not alone.

These are some very realistic and sad things in China. The father felt sorry for his son and concealed his illness because the family was not wealthy, and the father was afraid of making the family worse; My son knew that it was too late, and I thought that if he delayed his father's illness, he would be heartbroken, and he would also complain that he was not capable enough.

This is the idea of most parents, in order not to cause trouble to their children, but it often causes more trouble for their children.

Not to mention that the most worthy of this life is the parents, and you must keep in touch with your parents and pay more attention to the long-term physical examination. This tragedy will be avoided. Parents are afraid that their children will be sad and don't want to say that the children really don't know that they are one step late, it is too uncomfortable, and they will be separated forever.

The family's economic situation is definitely not good, and poor families always have too much helplessness and sadness. No matter what kind of family, as parents, they always don't want their children to be dragged down by themselves, and the father's love is like a mountain, which is not false at all.

I think this is a very sad thing, the father is also for the good of his son, but it also makes his son very sad.