The hard work of a long distance relationship, alas

Emotional matters, either cut through the mess quickly, or stick to the end. Looking at the words you wrote, I felt your mood"Our relationship has always been the same, and we all cherish the relationship that we have nurtured from school, it is the first time, but I also hope that this is where each other ends. "Don't give up, because even if you do break up, it will be an eternal pain in your heart for the long journey ahead!

There is a song "A Love Called Giving Up", I don't like to listen to it, give up, can you be sure that the other party will definitely find better happiness?

In this materialistic society, even if a person has not experienced feelings before, it is too difficult to find an unforgettable true love, not to mention that your heart has already been occupied by each other, are you sure that you can still put your heart down and love another person so devotedly?

So, don't mention the word breakup anymore, it will only add to the shadow and unease. What you have to do is to strengthen your beliefs and face the real problems well.

If we insist on whether we are sinners?! "

No, absolutely not! If you say that people stay with their parents, but they experience pain and unhappiness in their hearts, I believe that your parents will also be sad in their hearts. Parents want you to be happy, although now for the practical problems in front of you, your parents will try their best to persuade you to go on a more practical path, but this trade-off is only for you to consider!

Seriously, I feel like you subconsciously want to be under the protection of your parents. But how many of them are iron rice bowls these days? Or are you all civil servants?

Let's go out to the society to experience it, As long as I have the ability, there is no place for me in the worldIf you feel that feelings are more important, then it is necessary to change the thinking of working steadily and steadily.

Okay, that's all, of course you have to communicate with your parents and try to influence them as much as possible to make them feel how important you are to each other. If your parents are reasonable, you can sit down and discuss it together. It is also important to make yourself more self-reliant, to be less dependent on your parents, and to reassure them.

Also, you said that you are not too far away, so you can consider staying at both sides of the home for a period of time in the future, and when you have financial strength in the future, you can get a home that really belongs to the two of you in a compromise place.

Take advantage of it, bless you. ~~

In fact, true love is not about possessing him or being by his side forever, maybe sometimes letting go is the best for both parties

You love him silently, he silently blesses you, the feelings of the two people are forever tied together, and bless each other with sincerity!

It's not that miracles won't happen, but miracles are definitely for those who are prepared

I've felt your feelings, too.

I didn't go to college in the same place as my girlfriend.

It's been a long time.

Suspicion gradually increased, and communication decreased.

Now it's broken.

Long-distance romance. It's really hard.

I think you're very emotional. This one is rare. And you have a good relationship.

Many people have worked hard after graduating from college, but if you still insist, you feel that the relationship between the two of you is really valuable. It's been 4 years since I graduated, and I've been working far away from home, and I've seen the same or similar situations as yours somehow far. My feeling is that nothing is impossible.

It depends on how hard you try. You are very filial, but you must know that many only children work in other places, and their parents persist at home. You will say that the situation is different, but note that the essence is the same.

So I think the time has come for you to make up your mind, and whatever you choose, you should decide as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will torture yourself and your family and friends.

Might as well.. YOU AND YOUR ONE ... And your parents. Your parents ...

Take some time ... Together.. Let's talk about it. How is it..?

Don't worry too much. Just annoyance. It's not going to solve the problem. Why don't we sit down together and discuss... Maybe there will be a miracle.

It's better for you to transfer over! My boyfriend and I have been for 6 years, and now we have not seen each other for 5 months and are about to break up, and I said that I would go to him and he would not be able to do so, saying that we should not affect each other. So I really envy you, don't give up, marriage is a lifelong thing.

You can work first or something, as long as he's good to you, nothing else. I think your parents also want you to be happy, and when you settle down there, you can take your parents over, how many people go to other cities for their lives! The most important thing is your happiness.

Since you cherish your true love, then take advantage of it and wish you happiness!

It's so hard to understand your feelings, it's so hard that I gave up mine, but it's still painful.

Although the long-distance relationship is hard, it makes us experience the bitterness of lovesickness, understand the sweetness of getting together, and let me accompany the tent raiders to want to be a better version of themselves to embrace each other, so hold on a little longer, your chat history will become the tenderness in your ears, your ** good night will become a cheap kiss, your ** comfort will become a warm hug, she endures loneliness for you, that's because the person she loves the most is far away, it's you, behind the sadness is love, and getting through time is forever, So don't lose each other.

Actually, the thing that broke me down was very simple.

It's the tone of your voice and the impatience on your face.

It's a message you don't reply to for hours.

It's your ignorance.

It's your ignorance.

It's what you want.

It's you who forgot what you said to me before.

It's those hopes and disappointments that you've given me.

It's that you never considered my feelings.

It was those words you said to me and Lu that made me fall to the bottom.

It's your incomprehension, and it's you Brother Lu who thinks everything is wrong, and everything you say to me.

I believed it from the moment I said it, but you didn't.

Although a long-distance relationship is very hard, it is the test of true love.

I love you, it's just three words.

This topic reminds me of my first love, my first love was online dating, at that time I met a southern girl through QQ, in fact, I didn't think about online dating at first, I just felt that the two of them had endless topics to talk about, and they talked late at night almost every day. Later, during the summer and winter vacations, I would run south to look for her, and she would come to me at the time. The deepest impression was in our small county town Kuanyu stuffy, the first time she came, I took her to walk the pedestrian street, eat all kinds of northern snacks, and take her to climb the mountain.

But in the process, she suddenly disappeared! I panicked at the time, no one answered the **, and I couldn't find anyone in various places. So I searched like crazy and almost called the police.

While I was at a loss, she showed up at my door with a present. Tears immediately fell from my eyes. It's not that because of her gift, the first thing I said was:

I thought I'd never find you again. She said: Is it a shame, still crying?

But then we separated, in fact, now that I think about it, it's not that we don't love each other enough, but that we love too much.

A long-distance relationship requires strong conviction on both sides.

Many times long-distance relationships are alone, and all kinds of grievances and grievances in our lives need to be borne by ourselves. This time is a strict and cruel test for our hearts. A lot of times we need to find a shoulder, find someone to talk to.

But for long-distance relationships, all this seems to exist in our own minds, and in our imagination, it seems that this so-called boyfriend and girlfriend are just a virtual image of ourselves. So at this time, we must give ourselves a "firm belief" Since we love each other, we must insist, we must give ourselves a belief in feelings, love belief, after all, this is the driving force that supports us to go on!

A long-distance relationship requires a lot of trust from both parties.

A long-distance relationship requires the care and reassurance of both parties.

We need to feel secure, and we can't wait to be tied to each other all the time when we are in love. But we can't do this in a long-distance relationship, so we can only reassure each other. The so-called peace of mind is to learn to take care of yourself, and you need to be strong in everything you do.

We can stay in touch, communicate positively, and share our trivia. But the main thing is to send a message of "I can take care of myself, please rest assured" through these. Of course, while reassuring the other party, you should also let the other party feel that you care about the other party.

But this kind of care is not a day a **, all the time you need the most thoughts about what the other party is doing, and careful care does not let the other party see it as a heavy burden.

In fact, I have always felt that a long-distance relationship is the biggest test of the relationship between the two parties, and only a long-distance relationship can comprehensively examine a person's temperament, personality, thoughts and human nature. So when you choose a long-distance relationship, you have to make a series of preparations. But long-distance relationships are also not suitable for too long, and many long-distance couples are separated and cautious because of too long.

Long-distance relationships are cool, bitter, and difficult, if you love, please cherish them!

As long as the other party likes each other very much, I choose a long-distance relationship. Young people should focus on respecting work, and only the relationship between men and women can be cultivated, and two people who like each other, talking about a long-distance relationship can also be regarded as a kind of fun.

No, it won't. This kind of relationship is very unstable, there are a lot of uncertainties, and I will have nothing.

No one will change anything for whom, everyone has their own life, everyone's lifestyle is different, only experienced, will you know, in fact, sometimes if two people are often together, it may be that the upper lip meets the lower lip There will be a lot of contradictions.

There are many things that are unexpected, when I first fell in love, I could meet every day, and then in order to develop better in the future and have a better direction, I had to choose to leave the city of the person I liked and started a long-distance relationship.

Some people say that they get married after a long-distance relationship, but a long-distance relationship is not so easy to survive, and only those who have experienced it will know. Long-distance relationships are very hard, if it were me, I wouldn't choose a long-distance relationship, I can't stand to fall in love with my mobile phone every day, and I want to have him by my side all the time.

Friends who are in a long-distance relationship, you must remember to trust each other! You must have your own life, because of a long-distance relationship, it is impossible for two people to be together all the time like they are locally, so you must focus your life on yourself.

Only by taking care of himself can he not worry about being far away. Don't pay too much attention to the other person when you are in a different place, because you can't see each other, so paying too much attention to the other person will make the relationship worse.

When you can't see each other, you must become better and better, share positive things with the other person, don't always complain and doubt, if the other person has a good character, give more trust, and don't think nonsense.

I don't want to be in a long-distance relationship, but I'm in a long-distance relationship, and in June this year, he chose to work in a city far away from me, and I really wanted him to stay, but I was relieved to think that he was also for the future.

Friends in long-distance relationships must persevere, communicate in time if they have problems, and strive to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible.

It is the fighters who persist in long-distance relationships until the end

I have seen many long-distance couples on the Internet finally happy together, what a happy thing it is! They have overcome the distance barrier of thousands of miles, endured the pain of seeing each other several times a year, and withstood the polish of time, which is an enviable and painful thing at the same time.

But in real life, most long-distance relationships end up breaking up. The best result is that the ex becomes a friend, and the sense of distance is full from then on. It is really difficult for a long-distance relationship to continue, and it is impossible to last long with a lonely heart.

But this mode of getting along for a long time is also very uncomfortable, both parties will have each other's lives, and at the same time, the time to play ** may also be disturbed by work or study, and what makes people even more powerless is that the other party needs their own help or even comfort, and they can't do anything. There are too many empty words in **, as if on the InternetChicken broth can only be a tranquilizer for a whileAfter a long time, you will still feel very pale and powerless.

If you were in a long-distance relationship, would you probably make it to the end?

I think the answer for most people is yes, but the reality is very cruel, and there are very few people who end up together. There are many real examples around me, and there will always be one side who can't stand it and claims that he doesn't feel it.

Choosing to break up in a different place is not necessarily a matter of attitude, just respecting reality

A friend who may be reluctant will always comfort the other party that he is a scumbag or a scumbag. It means that the other party must have someone you like again, and it is not worth your sadness if you are not loyal to your feelings. But I think this is just a comforting reason, and we can't conclude that the other person is emotionally unfaithful or has a problem with his attitude based on this alone.

Everyone's view and way of treating love is different, and not everyone is willing to waste their beautiful and precious youth on someone who has not seen each other for a year. It's hard to live at the moment, but there's no thought about the future.