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It's all with you, and I haven't forgotten the man in front of me. She values her feelings.
It's a little unfair to you.
But, do you think you're doing well enough? Why hasn't it been a year, and she doesn't have you in her heart. You should look for your own problems. You don't just have to love her, you have to take a lot of practical action.
If you're better off than her previous boyfriend, is it still necessary for her to be nostalgic?
Work hard, even if it will be hard! But don't give up, it's worth it to be able to give for your beloved.
You also have to believe that over time, she will slowly forget about that person.
May one day you fulfill the heart of her that you can fully receive!
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You stupid, you don't want such a dedicated girl, you will definitely regret it. She can't forget that he means that he has a great influence on her, and it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you! Time will change her, you have to be patient.
Wait until her heart comes back to yours. Huh....Good girls should cherish it, don't think about that stupid thing. Have a good time with her, and slowly she will get better.
I wish you all happiness!
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So why break up if you love your ex-boyfriend, why spend time and mind thinking about it since you have broken up, no matter what, her mentality is not right. It is irresponsible to start a new relationship without actually ending one.
If you really don't want to lose her, then you can talk to her, if she can't treat you as hers, then you should let it go, save time.
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One is that the first love is unforgettable, in that is, she can't break up with her ex-boyfriend, he must have suffered a lot, and needs someone to be by his side to comfort him, if you leave him, he will collapse, maybe he did something unexpected, killed someone and committed suicide, and ruined him.
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She is a person who does not know how to respect.
If you put your former girlfriend's ** in the space, on the phone, how will she react?
Turning a blind eye: she has no feelings for you, you are jealous, she doesn't eat?
Enron was sad and furious: she didn't understand, or didn't want to respect your feelings.
Ask her, do you understand that love is selfish? I'll find another woman, can she accept it.
If she still doesn't know the situation, breaking up is your only choice.
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Since he doesn't have you in his heart.
Why do you bother dwelling on it?
Let him go. Also give yourself a chance to get to know your friends again.
And so on.
Neither of them is necessarily happy
There is a limit to human patience
Don't grieve yourself.
People in this life.
There's not a lot of time
Be fair to yourself, too
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She doesn't love you, break up, otherwise there will be pain in the future
Believe me, I know that you are in the same situation as I am.
But now I've found something better.
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It's best to have an honest meeting with her once and see what he has to say. Let's decide. Otherwise, you may regret it later.
It's really not a good thing to go on like this.
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Break up, she doesn't have a place for you in her heart, and the two of you are only perfunctory and the pain of not getting anything in return after paying
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A person who can't give your heart to you, is it worth your care, talk to her openly and honestly, and if it doesn't work, say goodbye.
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Find someone who loves you, don't be attached to her! Go ahead! Make yourself happier!
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Whatever, just make it nice for yourself anyway. If you have money, marry her as soon as possible, and don't care about her feelings.
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...There are a lot of answers, and it is said that it is in vain. In fact, you know best what to do in your own heart.
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Stuffy. You should have broken up with her a long time ago.
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1. There is a problem with your intimacy itself.
There is a good saying: "A hundred causes must have an effect." ”
You think that he can't forget that his ex is the "cause", and that there is a problem in your relationship as the "effect".
In other words, if you are like glue with him every day, and he loves you in every way, you will not have the leisure time to care about his past, but when you find out that he has changed, you will not prescribe the right medicine, and you will assume that "he is thinking about his ex in his heart".
This is selective believing in psychology. Because people are seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, they will always find an acceptable and reasonable reason for themselves, but this is not necessarily the truth.
So you might as well think about it, how long has it been since you had a deep communication with him? When did he change and what was the trigger? Do both people lack care for each other? What can you improve?
Focus on the two of you to really find the key to the answer.
Second, the desire for control is too high, and the sense of security is too low.
Your current state is that you are "all soldiers", you see everything wrong and hurt yourself, especially the high-risk creature like your predecessor, there is a great hidden danger.
So you are eager to control your other half in the relationship, hoping that he will report his whereabouts at any time, and be more loving and tolerant of you, in order to make up for the uneasiness in your heart, but this is a vicious circle, because the past ex is obviously uncontrollable, and you will lose control because of it, and stage countless idol drama plots in your head, imagining that you are a substitute, and you will definitely be abandoned, resulting in a lower and lower sense of security.
3. Inferiority complex is at work.
Whether this ex is beautiful or not, whether you are excellent or not, when you think that your ex will never forget it, it means that you have an inferiority complex.
Because people with low self-esteem like to compare, but the result is often - I lost, I am not as good as her.
You play out a bitter drama in your heart, treating yourself as the weak side, with no real opponents, but you start to raise the white flag and surrender.
In this way, even if the ex does not exist, anyone around your partner may become a new "imaginary enemy", and you are still an unloved "third party".
Summary: No matter how many years his ex has been together, he has not entered love, no matter how beautiful they have been, or separated, you are his present and future, as the current to be confident, to have self-love and lover confidence. You must also have the ability to handle the relationship with your boyfriend in order to stabilize your future relationship, and secondly, you must also see if your boyfriend has really come out of the previous relationship, and whether he has the courage and confidence to start a new relationship, after all, love is not a matter of one person, but a matter of two people.
If he comes out of the last relationship, he has the ability to love and the ability to accept being loved, and he is also very good to you, and you also like him very much, so both fall in love, after all, meeting people who like each other is also a kind of fate.
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The answer, from the description analysis, is only temporary, after all, he is with you now, if you get along, you will cherish you now.
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