Can t love arise between colleagues? Is it true that only distance can produce beauty?

Why can't there be love between colleagues, and distance sometimes deepens feelings, and sometimes fades feelings, not necessarily.

People often say that distance produces beauty, but I feel that "distance sometimes does not produce beauty", and that being together every day can produce good feelings and intimacy. There must be a premise for the so-called distance to produce beauty, that is, two people have had too much close contact before, and they have already developed a good feeling, and they will feel particularly beautiful when they are separated once in a while, and when they get together again. Missing is a kind of torture, but if you miss for too long, your longing will deteriorate.

Therefore, the distance between the occasional separation should not be too far, the time of "small farewell" should not be too long, and "the distance is too far away to produce beauty".Because feelings are estranged with separation, feelings are completely unable to stand the test of time. This is true of friendship between people of the same sex, and even more so of love between the sexes!

Can distance really produce beauty? I often hear lovers who have been separated for various reasons, saying that distance produces beauty, and that a long absence is better than a new marriage. But I've always felt that distance creates a crisis, just like Mr. Motoyama said

The distance is there, but the beauty is gone'.I think that man is a fickle animal, and after being separated for a long time, the relationship will naturally be indifferent. Maybe distance will produce longing, but after a long time, you will feel that longing is also bitter.

Some people say that people who truly love each other will not be swayed by the distance, but will have a strong longing and a strong desire to see each other, and they will try to shorten the distance between them. It's a beauty of love! A strong longing for beauty!

But because of the inability to meet for a long time, there is a substitute for new psychological thoughts around you, and love will become bleak and even strange! Some people also say that distance itself cannot produce beauty, but with distance you are not so easy to find shortcomings, so you will feel beautiful, short-term distance produces beauty, long-term distance produces forgetting! If you want to produce beauty between you and her, leave her for a short time; If you want to make each other forgetful, leave her for a long time.

Others say that distance is not an issue. The key is the feeling between the two! If both people have a good relationship, then distance can produce beauty.

Because you will feel that you are concerned about each other and miss each other, and this feeling is also very sweet. But if the relationship between two people is not good, there is only distance, and there will be less and less beauty! Beauty is not in the distance, but once there is a distance in the relationship, there will be cracks, and there are few feelings that are separated by thousands of miles that can last.

But I think that beauty is not produced by distance, but by longing, and as time passes, distance will play its essential role - estrangement; Some people say that if there is a distance, then talk about a spiritual love! Pure spiritual love is so otherworldly, but mastering the scale of distance is truly a masterful art. We have to understand that distance is a kind of beauty, and it is difficult to produce true love if we are not good at grasping the appropriate distance, and we all know the final outcome, but the reason for separation is also very simple, that is, there is a saying:

Rather than suffering emotionally from one side of the world, it is better to break up and give each other freedom, maybe love is like this, either forever or once had. Can distance really produce beauty? What do you think?

Yes!! Since there is love, but it will not last long

Not necessarily, if you have a dream, go chase it, I support it, you don't need a reason to love 1 person!