What kind of relationship do you think is your favorite?

My favorite mode of getting along with girlfriends is to keep a safe distance in intimacy. We talk about everything, laugh and play, and take care of each other, which are all natural and relaxed states between friends, but under this harmony, we also maintain a certain sense of distance. Every time I go to each other's house to play, I will definitely notify in advance, after all, I don't live alone, and sometimes I suddenly parachute in, which will bring a lot of inconvenience to the other party.

Even if the relationship is iron, they will not take other people's items at will, even if it is just a bag of snacks, they will first ask the other party if they can eat it, and only then will they move on to the next step if they are allowed to do so. This is not alienation, but a kind of respect for friends, but also a reflection of one's own quality.

When you get along with your lover, your favorite mode is to have the same goal and go hand in hand. Husband and wife are one, they need to share weal and woe, my husband works hard to earn money, and I can't eat at home, so I will definitely contribute my own strength. We have our own plans for the future, what car to change, how much money to save, to travel, etc., for these goals, hand in hand to move forward.

This mode of getting along is also reflected in the little things in life, when making dumplings, I roll the dough, and he makes the filling. When doing housework, I sweep the floor and he scrubs. No matter what, we have to act together and participate, and over time, we have become the people who trust each other the most, like comrades who fight side by side.

When I get along with my parents, my favorite mode is to respect and have a casual relationship with friends. My parents were very open-minded and outgoing, and I gave them the nickname "Old Naughty Boy". My favorite thing to do is to make funny jokes as a family, my father is funny and naughty, my mother is funny and laughing, and I am like a living treasure, and the whole family reverberates with a happy atmosphere, which makes people feel warm and comfortable.

Of course, this is just my personal feeling, people have different temperaments and personalities, and the mode of getting along will naturally be different. But you have to stick to one thing, think more about each other, and learn to empathize, so that you can make each other feel comfortable.

Respect each other like guests, this way of getting along is what I like. Because only such a way of getting along can we go long.

I feel very comfortable with two people who respect each other, are considerate of each other, and give each other independent space.

When we're busy, we care about each other. When you are hurt or sad, you are willing to drop everything to comfort you.

I think the most suitable mode of getting along is the kind of relationship that can occasionally hug and kiss each other, but have their own privacy. In this way, you will not feel like you are in love, but you will not feel that your privacy has been invaded.

It is in the process of getting along that two people can release their truest selves. Getting along with each other in this way is my favorite way to get along.

What is the mode of getting along? Since it is a mode of getting along, of course, it refers to the way two people get along, some people get along with each other by fighting, and some people get along with each other-for-tat, not giving in to each other, and the way of getting along can see how the relationship between the two people is.

1. Lovers get along.

This is a mode of getting along that needs a sense of ritual the most, daily greasy + dating + only your best irrational state. The lovers' relationship I understand is a state of comparison, I miss you when I don't see you, I only see you in my eyes, and my every action, every word, and every moment of silence can make me over-interpret. I want to eat with you at noon, if you can't eat together, I must give you a bag or order a takeout to be delivered to you, and you will need to have time together in the evening, whether it is walking, shopping, watching a movie or whatever, even if you play games together, you have to get tired of being together.

I will remember the anniversary of our relationship, and I will prepare a carefully prepared gift for you on this day, and I will tell you with my actions that I really love you, and love you and my future fantasies are so sweet.

2. Get along with friends like friends.

You have your job, I have my life, but as long as we have free time, we are willing to find each other as soon as possible and make an appointment to do something interesting together, such as going to a buffet together, running a group together, and participating in club activities together. I will be very willing to complain to you about the things that do not go well in my work, and I will listen carefully to the suggestions you give me, we have similar hobbies, similar three views, and we can always help each other when there are difficulties. Sex life may not be as much as lovers, but every time it is like a child playing games, I sweat before I do it, and I will run to the bathroom to take a bath together after doing it, and our relationship is as pure as a child.

3. Get along as husband and wife.

We have a complete plan for the future, maybe we won't be so happy and crooked when we are together, but because we have a common goal, that is, two people will go on together for a lifetime, buy a house, live together, live together, provide for the elderly of both parents, and career planning, these are all things we will work together and put into practice. I will habitually rely on you when thinking about problems, because I know that if I have something that I don't think through, you can always help me make up, you don't like to go out at night, play with your mobile phone at home, then I am always willing to bring you some food when I come back, we may not have the same hobbies, but we understand each other, support each other, you love those models, I love to read, we don't like to cook, but we learn to cook some home cooking for each other. Sometimes I think about it, with you, I have peace of mind for the rest of my life.

One party gives, the other enjoys giving.

The party who has been giving will not get a sense of satisfaction and love because they can't wait for the other party's response, and their hearts will be out of balance. If you lose hope and interest in this relationship, you will want to break up, and the party who enjoys giving will be very painful once you lose it, and will try your best to redeem it because you are accustomed to the attention and love of the other party. In fact, the fundamental problem is that the mode of getting along is unbalanced.

Two. Lack of communication, often cold war.

After a quarrel, they shirk each other's responsibilities, think that they are all the fault of the other party, do not communicate the reason for the problem, but use the cold war to escape the problem, this way will only make the contradictions accumulate more and more, and the estrangement between each other will become deeper and deeper, and the relationship will slowly fade, and it will be difficult for the two to understand each other's real needs and feelings if they lack communication, and they will not get a sense of being loved and valued by each other, and if they do not have a good experience in this relationship, they will want to escape from this relationship.

Three. One side controls, one side escapes a lot of strong women, anxious attachment women or insecure and loveless women are easy to control each other, because they are afraid that their partner will leave them, so they always want to control their partner's dynamics, and their partner will feel very depressed and painful, because you always control your partner in the relationship, then your partner is easy to escape.

If you are in these three modes of getting along, your married life will be very hard, so if you want to change your relationship state, you need to get out of the above three modes and learn to create an interactive and equal mode of getting along with your other half. in order to make the relationship develop steadily.

There are many ways to get along, for example, we have an indirect mode of getting along, or a direct mode of getting along, both of which have their own advantages and disadvantages.

This depends on your realm, in fact, there are many ways to get along, depending on your realm, or know how many modes can be used.

There are so many ways to get along, such as nothing to say between two people, such as nothing to say between two people.

There are generally three modes of getting along, one is very intimate, one is very modes and cold, and the other is polite and ordinary.

The way couples get along with each other is one of the important factors that affect the direction of a relationship. Different modes of getting along have different effects on the development and maintenance of romantic relationships. As an AI intelligent assistant, I can start from multiple angles, ** how to choose the right mode of getting along between couples, so that the relationship can go further.

1. Communication and understanding.

Communication and understanding are important parts of the way couples get along with each other. Communication and understanding between couples need to be based on mutual respect, trust and understanding, through effective communication and exchanges, understand each other's needs, feelings and expectations, and enhance the intimacy and resonance of feelings. Communication and understanding between couples also need to be tolerant and accepting of each other's different views and ideas, avoiding quarrels and conflicts, so as to maintain the stability and longevity of the relationship.

2. Mutual support and encouragement.

Mutual support and encouragement is another important part of the way couples get along. Couples should support and encourage each other to achieve their goals and dreams together, and motivate each other to move forward and grow. Mutual support and encouragement can also enhance the intimacy and trust of the relationship, reduce conflicts and disagreements, and make the relationship more beautiful and happy.

3. Respect and inclusion.

Respect and inclusion are another important part of how couples get along with each other. Couples should respect and tolerate each other's personal characteristics and living habits, and avoid imposing their own views and ideas on each other. Respect and inclusion also include the other person's family, friends, and social circle, and do not restrict the other person's freedom and independence.

Respect and inclusion can help couples build healthy relationships and increase intimacy and empathy.

Fourth, experience and create together.

Experiencing and creating together is another important part of the way couples get along. Couples should experience and create great memories and experiences together, such as traveling, watching movies, cooking, exercising, etc. Experiencing and creating together can not only enhance the intimacy and resonance of the relationship, but also make the relationship more interesting and creative, and make the relationship go further.

Fifth, the base brightness is independent and respectful.

Moderate independence and mutual respect are also important aspects of the way couples get along with each other. Couples should moderately retain their independence and autonomy and not be too dependent and dependent on each other. Moderate independence can increase the stability and longevity of the relationship and avoid the other person feeling stressed and burdened.

At the same time, couples also need to respect each other's independence and autonomy and avoid excessive interference and control over each other.

To sum up, the mode of getting along between couples needs to be based on communication and understanding, mutual support and encouragement, respect and tolerance, shared experience and creativity, moderate independence and mutual respect. These patterns of getting along can help couples build a healthy, stable, and long-lasting relationship that can go further, better, and happier.

One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng are flash marriages, they can't know a bright servant Zhang Wanting is pregnant, the two got married with their son, until the child was born, there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in the interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, the one who saves her face in front of outsiders, the one who can't fight back and scolds her, and the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is ten years younger than him, who is willing to give birth to him, has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is that three "couples" sat on the bus and laughed and chatted, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of the ambushed people that Song Ningfeng had a good life, and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, and found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, the word "sinner" is used, and after Song Ningfeng plays frisbee and sits down, he immediately turns on the attack key and hits the mode - disgusted that he is not qualified as an actor, because he can't even detect his wife's emotions; disliked that he didn't know people, and had such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is reading a love letter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.