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This question can only be turned to yourself? Ask your heart!? Don't make judgments without being calm? It is recommended that you go for the mountain climb first! You know the moment I think of the top of the mountain???
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If you really love and hate, don't let go.
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I'm about to face this question as well.
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Brother: It's up to you to see what you do, you can't listen to others, it's a lifelong thing, be cautious.
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It's good for young people to have ideals, and there's nothing wrong with you thinking that way.
The concept of inheritance in the countryside is more prominent, and you are the only child in the family, of course your parents want you to get married as soon as possible, let them hold their grandchildren, hehe, besides, you have reached the marriageable age. Your parents have a reason for urging you to get married.
If you are determined to start a family after starting a business, there are many ways, you can take a coping style, your parents tell you to have a girlfriend, you say okay, ask you if you have made it, you say no, ask you to go on a blind date and you will go bravely. When I came back, I said it wasn't appropriate. (Maybe you will meet what you like, not necessarily}, your parents will nag you in and out of your left ear.
See what they do with you. Ha.
But you also have to set yourself an age for marriage, because if the ideal thing is successful, it is an ideal, and if it is not successful, it will become a dream. If your career is not successful, will you not marry for the rest of your life?
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Now pay attention to starting a business and starting a family, support you to start a business first, and then consider finding a girlfriend.
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I recommend; Since you want to concentrate on your career now, you are under pressure from the elders of the family; Then your career vision has arrived**; You will first locate your eyes on finding a wife**; This way you can tell your parents that you are trying; The career has not been left behind! Come on! You can do it!
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I'm also a rural kid, but I'm still in school. I deeply sympathize with your question, because I am also twenty-three this year. The same problem plagues us at the same age.
My parents are different from yours in that they don't approve of me getting a girlfriend. I'm also helpless. But how to put it, we are all adults now, we have our own thoughts, and the opinions of our parents are just references, and if there is no suitable one, we will definitely regret it after we find it.
Career love must grasp the scale, so that even if we do wrong, we will not regret it, you just need to enlighten yourself well, according to my estimate, you are now very confused and don't know how to do it. This is a big problem.
I remember that at the beginning of Alibaba, Ma Yun said that the company's age is 101 years, that is, to praise the three worlds, and also gave a warning to those who are impatient, don't come, our company is a collective of people who can sink.
There is also a general account in life, and momentary confusion is not a problem at all, if you already have a long-term plan. Like you said, have your own business.
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Fate is destined, let it be, you just tell your parents that you will only get married when you meet a girl who truly loves each other. You're only 23 years old, so you're young! Seize the time and work hard!
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While fighting for his career, he is in love, 23 years old is still young, take his time.
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Big husband, you have to fight the country first, and then hug the beauty.
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Then work hard and let it be
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With a home, you can work hard with peace of mind. relieved the worries of his parents, and had the motivation to fight. But before you meet the person you like, you can't settle, and life is going to be a lifetime.
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Don't worry, our situation is too similar, it's your man who stands in his thirties sooner or later, what are we afraid of when we're still young? Have a good talk with your parents, like I said, let me get married, I can't find it, and I don't want to find it, the most important thing for me now is to develop my career, even if I get married in a hurry, you let our family drink the northwest wind!
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I'll think of a way for you, you find a fake girlfriend to deceive your parents first. When you get married, you say you have a relationship first. It's like that drags on for time.
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As a man, it's still important to have a career, and then get married if you have a stable career, otherwise if you get married first, your whole life will be tied up!
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The ancients said: Start a family and start a business, so ah! You have to grab it with both hands, and you have to be hard with both hands!
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If you haven't met your beloved, you must not fall in love casually and get married, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't act blindly!
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The two don't want to rush, if you are not satisfied, then you give up, if you are not satisfied, you are still together, isn't it uncomfortable to find a lifetime, you can change your career if you are not satisfied, and how can you have a good mood to work when you are not satisfied.
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An authentic woman will choose love as her career, and watching the man you support succeed is also your achievement.
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In a word, women are better off on their own, unless you run into a traditional man.
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Get out for a walk and ask yourself what you want.
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What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.
Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?
How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.
Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."
When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.
Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.
Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.
The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.
There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.
He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.
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Poor couples mourn everything.
You don't have a career, and now in this society, who will really want to grow old with you.
Having a career does not mean that you will lose your lover.
That's a way to improve your own level, what kind of person, what kind of friends.
Your actions, which determine your status, treatment, life, can be almost everything. Naturally, there is love.
Now I think that the world is old, and time will be the best interpreter. Tell you everything you didn't understand and why.
Pursuing a career does not mean giving up on love. If the girl you love will only pull you back, then she is not worthy of your love at all.
Whoever pursues beauty, both men and women.
The economic base is the superstructure.
Whoever you fall in love with, you have to protect. But if you don't even have the strength to protect yourself. All the oaths and covenants were as pale as white paper.
At least that's what I think.
Career, and love, are not opposites.
They actually complement each other.
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I think career may be more important for men, love may be more important for women, some women may live a lifetime to find someone she loves, and money is the dignity of a man's life, and money can be dignified only when there is money! can also have dignity in front of women! And life is not like a TV series after all, **!
There are not so many ideal and beautiful things, some people say that marriage can be beautiful as long as it satisfies sex, affection, and economy! I don't think it's possible to be beautiful without the economy if there are only the first two! Obviously, it is very rare for modern society to ignore anything for love!
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This is not a question of love and money, it is a question of how to solve needs, even if you get love without a career, it is unstable and will be lost. And having a career and then having love is the most important thing to let you have both. This is the idea of ordinary people, if you are really good, you can develop two at the same time, that is sweeter, your sense of accomplishment is stronger, and your love is stronger.
If God is playing tricks on you, make a choice.
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In ancient times, the emperor could be "more beautiful than he loved the country", that was because he was the highest level of people, and he no longer needed to worry about having no career, but not everyone was an emperor. It's a good thing for a man to have a career, in fact, you can think about it from another angle, the person you like has such self-motivation, doesn't it also reflect your good vision? Why bother, feelings are a matter of two people, career and love are not important, just rely on that man to balance well, a little more time, everything will be taken care of, and a very comforting person to say to him, most men start a family first and then start a business.
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That's because of the shackles of material life. If you really love each other, you will choose to wait. Maybe choosing a career is to give her a better life. Isn't it?
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Hello, let me tell you, the man that a woman needs to rely on for the second half of her life, she is wondering if you have potential, whether you have a future future, how do you say to behave, go for it, friend.
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In fact, the family is the most important thing for a woman.
Money, career, and love are all for the family.
The family here refers to finding a good person to marry and form a happy family, which is what women need most.
Of the three conditions, which of the three conditions you think is the most helpful for you to have a family, then which is the most important.
The career is something you can control.
Love sometimes depends on fate, that is, on luck; Love is a kind of enjoyment, but also a kind of giving (loss).
Money is the wealth you save.
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In general, men focus on working the basis of family harmony, while most women focus on a good life on the premise of a smooth career, but women are not all the same. There are housewives and strong women, but they don't delay falling in love when they do their careers. I guess that girl is more realistic, waiting for the conditions to be good.
Women usually look for good existing conditions, which is the safest, people with potential may not be able to develop, and now this society is not capable of making a lot of money. So I don't think you have to wait for her, if she doesn't meet the right one, she may consider you, but I don't know what year and month it will take. Even if you're together, you'll often be unhappy because of financial problems, and maybe she'll leave you again.
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