The outward and inner perceptions of men and women

I think it's the opposite of what you said before you got busy, men look at the inside first, women look at the appearance first, everyone likes beautiful women, but her heart is also very important, so then again, it is better to look at the quality of the heart first to decide what kind of person this person is.

Haven't you read a story...

Men and women want to test women... As a result, the woman who was chosen in the end had nothing to do with the results of the graduate school entrance examination and was the one with the largest boobs.

A woman's decision has nothing to do with the outcome of the test... I chose the one with the most money, of course, I'm not sure about it, I haven't lost faith in all men all over the world, and people are different, and the ultimate idea of men is to have both appearance and heart, because contact between people must begin through appearance, whether it is a man or a woman.

Some men want to marry a woman, but the more beautiful the daughter-in-law, the better.

And some men just don't have any inner principles, as the story says, it still depends on what kind of person you're targeting.

You can't try to understand him or perfect yourself in general.

It varies from person to person, there is no fixed one, the views of men and women are similar and different, some people value the outside, some value the inside, some like to be easy-going, some like the cool, etc., it depends on the individual's interests and hobbies.

In fact, everyone is different and cannot be generalized. Some people value appearance, some people value the heart, and some people value economic strength.

That's not true. This involves a question of maturity or immaturity, and if the views are different, the places that are naturally valued will be different. Truth or say.

In real society, men look at women: 1 appearance, 2 body, 3 temperament.

Women look at men: 1 money, 2 status, 3 taste.

I'm a man, but I look at my heart first. I don't know about women.

Yes, women with contrasts are particularly attractive, sometimes they are particularly pure, sometimes they are particularly cute, sometimes they are particularly rational, but sometimes they are also very emotional, and men like such people very much.

Yes, because such a woman makes men uncontrollable, she will always give men a fresh feeling and is quite attractive.

This depends on the personal preferences of men, some men like women who are consistent on the outside, and they also like to be gentle and generous.

Just as girls pay attention to boys, boys also have a unique perspective and concern for girls. Specifically, the most important concerns of boys to girls, or the most attractive traits of girls to boys, are appearance and figure, personality and character, and the unique state of the girl.

1. One of the most attractive traits of girls to boys is the girl's appearance and figure.

In the interaction between boys and girls, the most attractive trait of girls to boys is the girl's appearance and figure. ......When two people meet for the first time, the first thing they pay attention to is each other's appearance, and the most important thing is the other party's appearance and figure. And for girls, this aspect of the trait is more important, and boys pay more attention to girls' appearance and body than girls pay more attention to boys' appearance and figure.

2. The most important trait that boys pay attention to girls is their character and character.

For a person, what kind of personality and character are the most decisive factors. Only people with a kind personality and good character are more popular. ......For boys, the character and character of girls are one of the most important contents.

Those girls with gentle personality and good character are more concerned by boys, and girls with such traits are more concerned and popular with boys.

3. The state of a girl is another unique trait that attracts boys the most.

In the interaction between people, their words and deeds will be seen by the other party, remembered and stopped in their hearts, and make corresponding evaluations. Therefore, the state of a person's conduct in the world is the key quality of whether or not they can be attractive in the eyes of others. ......For girls, they are more attractive to boys if they are elegant and generous in their speech and demeanor, steady in their work, and sincere in their manners.

Boys will pay more attention to this kind of girls with higher quality and are more likely to be attracted to them.

As the saying goes, everyone has a scale in their hearts, in the relationship between men and women, men are never stupid, they will appreciate those good-looking women, but what really attracts them is never the appearance of women.

In fact, the most attractive thing about women to men is not their looks, but these aspects:

A woman's personality charm

A woman's personality charm is far more attractive than her appearance charm, and that kind of personality charm that goes deep into the bone marrow is difficult to gradually decline over time. A woman's appearance will grow old sooner or later, but her personality charm will become more and more attractive as she grows older over time.

If a woman attracts others by virtue of her beauty, then over time, her face will slowly change, and she may become less attractive. However, if a woman has a charismatic personality and has her own shining point, she will shine at any time, and men will be very interested in women, because such women are excellent and unique.

A woman's conversation and cultivation

A woman's conversation and cultivation are inseparable from a woman's inner life, and a woman can only make herself speak extraordinarily only when she has a wealth of inner wisdom. A woman with a broad vision is different in what she says. She always brings a "sense of luxury" to people and makes men admire this woman.

Similarly, women's cultivation is also very important, some women only know how to pursue superficial things, flashy, but she is not enough inside, and if she does not have good cultivation, she will also make herself cheaper. Only a cultivated woman will let herself have a noble temperament and make men truly favored.

A woman's behaviour in dealing with others

A woman's performance in dealing with others will leave a deep impression on a man. What men like is a woman who is generous and decent.

Respectful and courteous, tolerant and generous to things, women can truly be "knowledgeable, virtuous and dignified", and always maintain a kind heart, then it will really attract men. For example, in public, women must not behave very strongly, let alone show themselves very deliberately, but learn to make themselves more decent, so that men will really appreciate women.

Women have no good qualities

The word "kindness" seems ordinary and simple, but not everyone can afford it. In this society, there are fewer and fewer simple and kind people, and if a woman can keep a sincere heart and treat the people and things around her with a kind heart, it will definitely make the man very touched.

So, what men really see is not only a woman's appearance, but the appearance is too superficial and doesn't represent anything.

What you should do is to improve your quality in other aspects, you have to make yourself good enough, and that man will be with you for the rest of his life.

If a man can't forget a woman in his heart from beginning to end, you say that there must be something about this woman that attracts him deeply, goes into the deepest part of her heart, and makes him remember it deeply. Every man has a woman in the deepest part of his heart who he loves deeply and can't forget about it, and generally this kind of woman has four characteristics:

One, will be coquettish. If a woman is coquettish at the right time and releases the unique charm of a little woman, this kind of woman is generally fatally attractive to men, so that men can't extricate themselves from you and are hopeless.

No matter how bad a man is, when he meets a woman who is coquettish in front of him, he will stop the anger in his heart and smile at him. A coquettish woman can enter a man's heart and make a man obsessed with him.

Second, a woman with an independent personality and a person in charge. If a woman has an independent personality and can take charge of these problems independently, then such a woman will make the man remember it deeply, and will slowly enter the man's heart, so that the man will fall in love fiercely.

A woman doesn't have to rely too much on men, that will make men feel suffocated. Only a woman who is alone and in charge can be unforgettable and win the hearts of the people.

Third, a good-looking temperament woman with connotation. This kind of woman stepping past a man will make the man pay attention to it and will impress the eyes of many men. If a man is honored to understand and get along with this kind of woman, after a long time, he will be reluctant to be obsessed with it, and will go deep into the man's heart, so that the man can't resist it.

A woman should not only be beautiful and beautiful, but also have a great meaning. Because of the deep meaning, women can have a common language with men, go hand in hand with men, and build the future hand in hand with men! Good looks may make a man's eyes shine, but a woman who can really enter a man's heart is still the kind of temperament woman with connotation.

Fourth, a woman who knows how to show weakness. Now most women are very strong, maybe they earn more money than men, maybe they are more educated than men, and they have always looked down on the men next to them.

Timely forbearance in front of men's eyes is one of the ways that women really enter men's hearts. A man generally doesn't want his woman to be strong, he likes a woman who is gentle like water, because this kind of woman can make him feel relaxed and will not feel tired.

Therefore, in daily life, as a woman, you not only need to dress yourself stronger, but also need to constantly improve yourself. You have to learn to show weakness, but you also need to have independence and ideas, and you need to be handy. Let the man look at you differently, and don't get tired of looking at you, if one day you leave the man next to you, it will also make you remember you and will not forget you.

If a woman really walks into a man's heart, then this man will always care about her and be good to her.

Not coquettish, not pretentious, stay true to yourself. A woman doesn't have to imitate the appearance of others, just be herself, have her own style, her own characteristics. Live your own way, have your own unique personality, and behave and talk to make a good impression on others.

They are generally very talented, very attractive, and very experienced and visionary, so they can attract men.

I picked it up from the Internet, so I don't have so much time to write about it. Ha ha.

I said why is it so cold, I thought the boss had become yin.

The one upstairs, you're thinking too badly.

Different people will have different opinions on different things, no matter what you feel good about, why should you care about other people's opinions. The adage says, "Don't care too much about what others think."

When you care too much about "what others think", when you are too careful to please others, when you are too sensitive to what others are really imaginary and unwelcome, you will have excessive negative feedback, depression and bad performance, and most importantly, see what you can do to be meaningful. ”

ps: Boss, did you write so much of it yourself? The cold died

I know that's money!! Whoever has money, he will give it to whomever he wants!!