Just got together with my girlfriend and couldn t find topic 20

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You must know that she is an ordinary person like you, and she has no superpowers, so maybe she is still nervous. It's also important to have time to hang out together, and to have shared experiences! Feel free!

    Don't be nervous during this period, you don't deliberately look for topics! Show your truest self, otherwise you will be tired later! When you don't have time, you can talk about your favorite stars, classmates, and teachers.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can start it this way: I used to have a friend of mine, a woman, who had this hairstyle (pointing to a woman on the side of the road), but she had a little longer hair. Looks average, not as beautiful as you, wearing those big earrings, those earrings are better than her.

    I don't know if you look good on it, do you want to try it? (In the same way, you can take her to try on shoes and bags, not to use more).

    Or like this: the weather is a little hot today (cold, windy, etc.), will you feel hot (cold). The weather has changed so much in recent years, and I remember when I was a child, whether it was windy, rainy or sun, it was very regular, and I knew it by looking at the sky.

    How were you when you were a kid? (In the same way, you can talk about prices, environment, demographics, quality, etc., childhood is often an inexhaustible treasure trove when chatting).

    You can also ask her what her plans are for going to ** next time she comes out. Or ask her questions like whether she is tired, thirsty, thirsty, hungry, or not.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't find a topic, mainly because I haven't opened my heart to each other, since we are in love with each other! You should be honest, don't have to be too restrained, man, take the initiative.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Memorize more jokes, just tell jokes once in a while, and laugh at everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    See what to say, such as seeing a dress, you can ask her if you like this style? The topic is chattered.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are all introverts? Hey... You always have a common love, starting with a hobby

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feel free to chat but be careful not to brag.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be embarrassed to talk when you have no topic to talk about with your girlfriend. Having nothing to say will only make it more awkward for two people to get along. The best way to do this is to get to know your girlfriend's hobbies. Based on his hobbies, he may have more to say to you.

    Every couple gets along for a certain amount of time, and there will be a period of time without talking. It's more embarrassing at this time. Because when we first got along, we must have been chatting all day, and sometimes I even told my girlfriend what I had to eat.

    Slowly, I seemed to have said everything I could, and I didn't know what I was talking about. Don't be sad when you don't have a topic to talk about. Because you're talking about ordinary things now, you probably won't talk about it again after you've talked enough.

    I recommend traveling together if you don't have a topic to talk about, because you will meet different people along the way. Two people will have a common topic when they go through something together. You can watch some movies often, and by discussing the plot of the movie, you will find that suddenly there is something to say.

    Two people will definitely go from the hot love stage to the cool down stage, and then fall in love again. Every couple comes through this process. So don't worry too much because your girlfriend might be looking for a topic to talk to you as well.

    Sometimes girls say everything to you, which means that they don't know what to talk about.

    If your girlfriend is a snacker, take him to taste a variety of delicacies. This will spark a lot of enthusiasm in your girlfriend, and you will find that suddenly there will be no more awkwardness to talk about. If your girlfriend likes lipstick, you can learn some lipstick knowledge, ** the color number with him, and he will have a topic to talk to you at this time.

    If your girlfriend likes which celebrity, you can also find out about the celebrity. Then talk to your girlfriend about this person, and at this time you will find that you also have something to say and she has something to say.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no topic to talk about with your girlfriend, and you can develop common interests and hobbies to create a topic.

    Tell me about my experience:

    I'm a quiet person who doesn't usually like to talk, so the overall feeling of me and my boyfriend is that kind of quiet state. It doesn't need much to talk about, but it is tacit. Later, as time changed, the boyfriend became irritable, and even sometimes reluctantly got on the topic, but every time it ended up embarrassing.

    Later, the boyfriend said, "Honey, there is no more topic for us to talk about. I said

    We can establish common interests, such as playing a couple's game. Or, don't deliberately create a topic, just go with the flow, talk about whatever you want, and don't use it as a formality. ”

    Yes, the topic is endless, because something happens every day, any little thing can become a topic, bits and pieces of work and life, what you encountered, and then talk to your friends, etc., these are all good topics.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no topic to talk about with your girlfriend, it is recommended that you try to do this:

    1. Deepen each other's feelings. There are always endless topics to talk about between couples, and you have nothing to talk about, which means that your feelings for each other are not deep, and you should increase the opportunities for contact with each other and deepen your feelings for each other.

    2. Find common ground. To put it bluntly, there is no topic for each other, in fact, there is no common language. Be good at discovering each other's interests and hobbies, as well as cultivating common ground with each other, so that there will be a common language and more common topics.

    3. Enrich your knowledge. To enrich one's knowledge in all aspects, a knowledgeable person has endless topics to talk about. Then there is the usual reading of books and newspapers, paying attention to current news, and paying attention to the anecdotes happening around you, which can be used as topics for you and your girlfriend to chat together.

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