Work, school, love? 20

I agree with his parents that if his girlfriend insists on finding a university student, then I think there are only two situations: one is that his girlfriend is studying at a parallel university, and the other is that his girlfriend's brain is used to raise fish. Both situations can only illustrate one problem, this kind of woman can only be played profanely.

The older you get, the less time you have, if you can't go to school, you can take the time to enroll in a study class and you can learn to get a diploma, since your friend also has the desire to study, then go, the parents' consideration is only a part, I feel like asking the man to be the same, hehe, this is the era without culture, to be honest, it is not good, if you want to learn, hurry up, because time waits for no one, now is no time for work, what about the future? There will be less time.

Studying in college is good, I don't know if I don't read, and if I don't read, it won't necessarily be good, and if I don't go to college, let that woman see how beautiful you are, college is a diploma, you have to go to a good university, you can't go to a good university after graduating from junior high school, unless you have money, or you should work hard yourself.

Think about what your parents mean first, whether they don't want you to continue going to school or are they afraid that the woman will not be able to accept the status in the future, and she may just let you go to school because she is afraid that you will be out of touch with society in the future.

You can go to night school, but it's harder.

Let's make money. When he makes money, he is afraid that his girlfriend will dump him.

Reading is a good thing.

You can learn a little more.

There is a skill.

You can talk to his parents.

Isn't it just a woman, when you make a lot of money, you're afraid you won't find it?? Funny...

Putting all that aside, isn't it good to read some books?

If you learn to be old, you can live to be old.

Summary. If you really love each other, you will make long-term plans, you will plan your future, and your future is good or bad, and your studies occupy a crucial position, this is one of them. If the other party really loves you, they will understand you and understand you, and if they don't understand you, what else can they talk about loving you?

If I don't love you, why should you care? This is the second one. In addition, doing a good job in schooling is to improve yourself, and it is very important to improve yourself at any time, because you are excellent yourself, in order to attract excellent people, and only then can you have the ability and capital to protect love, otherwise your so-called love is a castle in the air, and it will be broken when you touch it, which is the third.

And I think love and studies can be taken into account, what is love? Tired of being together every day? This is not called love, a few days or a week is enough, love should be long-lasting, so it will not affect the study, this is the fourth.

How to balance study and love.

If you really love each other, you will make long-term plans, you will plan your future, and your future is good or bad, and your studies occupy a crucial position, this is one of them. If the other party really loves you, they will understand you and understand you, and if they don't understand you, what else can they talk about loving you? If I don't love you, why should you care?

This is the second one. In addition, doing a good job in schooling is to improve yourself, and it is very important to improve yourself at any time, because you are excellent yourself, in order to attract excellent people, and only then can you have the ability and capital to protect love, otherwise your so-called love is a castle in the air, and it will be broken when you touch it, which is the third. And I think love and studies can be taken into account, what is love?

Tired of being together every day? This is not called love, a few days or a week is enough, love should be long-lasting, so it will not affect the study, this is the fourth.

Study together, decide on a university that everyone will go to in the future, and then work towards this goal, and tell her that you must work hard in this direction in the future......She'll understand......Also, this trick is really useful, but because of the motivation of love, you will work harder to ......

I'm at school, he's at work, and he's away from home.

What to do. You must be academically oriented as a student at present, you must know that love is only a small part of life, not the whole story, don't see love as the only one, so that after a few years, you will find that it is a very stupid behavior.

The saddest thing in the world is that local tyrants have good looks, and academic tyrants have objects. The relationship between graduate school entrance examination and love is like a fish and a bear's paw, and it is difficult to choose. However, there is such a little couple in Huaiyin Institute of Technology, who have both fish and bear's paws.

The actor You Qing was admitted to the School of Communication and Information Engineering of Shanghai University for a master's degree after graduating in 2019, and this year, his girlfriend Liu Yuxin was also admitted to the same school as a graduate student.

Looking through the resumes of You Qing and Liu Yuxin, both of them are people who have won awards and "got soft". You Qing has won the National Inspirational Scholarship, the first prize of the Jiangsu Division of the National College Student Electronic Design Competition, the second prize of the National College Student FPGA Innovation Design Invitational Competition, the third prize of the 3rd Jiangsu Skill Champion Competition, the second prize of the TI Cup Jiangsu College Student Electronic Design Competition, and he also has a national utility model patent. Liu Yuxin won the National Inspirational Scholarship, the first prize A and the second prize in the Jiangsu Division of the 2019 National College Student Electronic Design Competition, the second prize in the 2018 TI Cup Jiangsu Electronic Design Competition, and the second prize in the finals of the 2017 National College Student FPGA Innovative Design Invitational Competition.

When two equally excellent people come together, the result is bound to be a master who makes a move and makes progress together.

You Qing was one year higher than Liu Yuxin, that year, he was a junior and she was a sophomore, and the two met by chance. Through conversation, I learned that the other party was a fellow countryman, so I was particularly involved. Later, I found out that the two were actually from the same high school, taught by the same Chinese teacher, had the same topic, the same interests, and fate was so wonderful.

There was no bitter pursuit waiting, no elaborate romantic confession, and they confirmed each other in this way.

Liu Yuxin said that at that time, You Qing was a top student in the eyes of her classmates and a leader in the hearts of teachers, and she was plain and ordinary, but she was not inferior, because there was no respect and humility in love. "If I'm not good enough, then I'm going to be better with him. In the past two years, the two have explored together and participated in professional projects such as the National FPGA Innovative Design Invitational Competition, the 2018 TI Cup Jiangsu College Student Electronic Design Competition, and the 2019 National College Student Electronic Design Competition, learning together and becoming better together.

Time passed in a flash, You Qing, who graduated last year, chose to be admitted to Shanghai University as a graduate student, and Liu Yuxin accompanied him through the most intense stage. In the year that You Qing went to Shanghai University, Liu Yuxin was also working hard, and You Qing became her professional tutor to encourage her to continue her studies. When she was lazy, You Qing always urged her to study; When she is stressed and in a bad mood, You Qing can always tolerate her little temper.

On the road to graduate school, they have always encouraged and supervised each other. Love for them is not only romantic and sweet, but also working hard for their dreams together, becoming a better person and having a more fulfilling life. Hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder, together towards the future that belongs to two people.

Since ancient times, "love" has been an eternal topic, and as a college student, it is even more difficult to choose between love and study. How to correctly understand the relationship between love and study? How to deal with the relationship between love and study?

In the face of these problems, only by making correct judgments and choices can we establish a correct outlook on love and love, so that love and studies complement each other.

Love is the greatest physical and mental right and freedom of human beings, and college students should have the right to love freely and healthily.

Love, study and life are not related to each other, and there is no priority or priority. You can't limit your love because of your studies, and you shouldn't delay your studies because of your love. If you are an independent, mature and healthy college student, you are fully capable of balancing the two.

It is fully capable of making love and study mutually reinforcing, intertwined without affecting each other.

The purpose of university is to improve one's own quality, acquire a skill, and realize one's life ideals. This ideal should include having a good partner. Therefore, strengthening learning is to let the partner appreciate themselves and make themselves love their partner better, so the partner should support, understand, and encourage the other person to strengthen learning.

Falling in love is a catalyst for better learning. It can motivate each other and supervise each other to fight for a common ideal.

In love, studies are necessary, and love is also necessary;

Not in love, studies are still necessary, but love is dispensable. On the premise of not delaying schoolwork, it is possible to fall in love, and if two people have the same goal, schoolwork can be promoted.

I don't think there is any conflict between the two in study and love, why do you have to divide whether studies are important or feelings are important? If a person is not academically accomplished, it is not necessarily affected by feelings, it can only be said that he is not working hard enough, if he gives up love for the sake of his studies, then he is really a person with little affection, not to mention his studies, even if he is born in society, he will not have much achievement.

Of course, we can have both, we need to divide our time and energy well, my boyfriend and I were testing at the same time, we would make an appointment to study in the same library, even if I did study, I would feel very happy by his side, and we would work hard for each other's future.

Learning and progressing together, my roommates all fall into this category. Towards the end of the semester, my boyfriend pulled me out of bed to study, studying day by day, from 9 am to 9 pm, I was really studying. My roommate's phone was confiscated by her boyfriend if she tried to play with it.

They ask each other questions very lovingly. My roommate will be told by her boyfriend if she doesn't study, and my other roommate is like this, going to the library together, sometimes they stay in the dormitory to study, and they will beat each other ** to urge each other to study. I don't see any grades falling because of falling in love, on the contrary, they all have high grades.

I think the key to falling in love will not affect your grades is to look at your own attitude, if you have strong self-control and want to study, then you will definitely not decline in your grades, and you can also bring your partner to study together.

College students falling in love do not necessarily affect their studies, as long as they have good self-control and grasp the scale of learning and love, it will not affect their studies. I have a few friends who are top students, and some of them have been in love since high school, and they have never delayed their studies. Many college students will fall in love during college, and some people will affect their studies, regard love as the most important part of their lives, and fall in love all day long and can't extricate themselves, abandoning their studies, resulting in very few grade points in the final exam.

But some people fall in love will not affect their studies, as long as they grasp the scale of love, usually take care of their studies, it will not affect their learning, and many people study with their lovers, two people learn to fall in love, not only will not make their academic performance decline, but also improve their academic performance.

This depends on your personality, if you are a very lively, big grinning person, then it may be less affected by love. But if you are a very careful and sensitive person, then you may be more affected. For example, I am a 211 freshman student, new to campus, and also looking forward to a beautiful college love, most of us who have never been in love have a very serious attitude towards love, and we are willing to win the heart of one person, and the white head will not be separated.

But in reality, many people fall in love with the mentality of having fun, and I have experienced a painful lesson when a senior tried to tease me and finally be with another schoolgirl, and those days were really sad, and I had no intention of studying, which really affected my learning. Fortunately, he came out later, and vowed not to easily like others until he was stronger. So if I'm not in love, I'm so sad when I meet a scumbag, so in love, you and your other half will inevitably have friction, and the sadness at that time must be unimaginable.

So if you want to fall in love, you have to be prepared for a decline in your grades, but this varies from person to person, and the above is just my personal experience, I hope to be happy as soon as possible.

After having love, people will have two manifestations, one is to indulge in the beauty of love and ignore reality; The second is to work harder after finding love, wanting to have a future with each other. It's all up to you, not what others do to you! Love is beautiful and you can pursue it.

Learning is important, and you can work on it! Anything is possible!

There are several major events in life, love and career are also in it, the shadow does not affect both, it depends on how you weigh it, in history, there are both those who love beauty and fame, and there are also beauty who have both fame and fortune! After all, everyone is different, and it is difficult to express personal opinions from the perspective of public love, and the college time is just a few years, how to grasp how to live up to the time, your own decision is very important! Feel free to read it and see how you sort and how you choose!