I m afraid of death, I m afraid of my parents getting old, I m twelve years old

No. Seriously, I'm scared too. So sometimes I listen to my parents.

But one day my teacher said that. People will die eventually, and when people die, they just go to another world. When my parents are old, I die and go to another world, and when I am old and die, I go to that world, and I am still with my parents.

After hearing this, I feel a lot more comfortable, and I hope this will help you too.

Death has not yet come to us when we exist, and when we die, we are no longer there. If a person correctly understands that there is nothing to be afraid of ending life, there is nothing to be afraid of being alive for him.

The following assertion is, in my opinion, the most perfect and scientific assertion about "death".

Regarding death, the ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus used this statement to combat the fear of death: "On the habit of thinking that death has nothing to do with us ......You have to get used to believing that death is something that has nothing to do with us, because all good and evil are in the senses, and death is nothing but the loss of the senses.

For this reason, the correct recognition that death has nothing to do with us makes us happy about the fact that there is death in life, and this understanding does not add endless time to life, but liberates us from the desire for immortality. If a person correctly understands that there is nothing to be afraid of ending life, there is nothing to be afraid of being alive for him. So the most terrible of all evils, death, is insignificant to us, because when we existed, death did not come to us, and when we died, we were gone.

Death is leaving a great deal of grief and pain for the living. The dead, of course, don't know and don't care anymore, while the living realize its horror because of death. That is to say, man dies not for himself, but for the bystanders.

No, everyone will have this idea in every process of growing up, you don't have to worry, this is normal.

You can do something more for your parents

As long as you live your life upright and don't violate morality, what's the point of dying?

Summary. One, dear, it seems that you have been separated from life and death. For example, the grandmother who is very dependent suddenly dies, which is a big blow to you.

Dear, in fact, it is normal for people to die of old age, sickness and death, and they will not die for no reason.

Second, the main thing is that you are a worried girl, you have something on your mind, you think things are very extreme, and you don't know what to do.

I'm 12 years old and I'm always scared of death. Fear of Mom and Dad dying. I'm afraid that I'll not know anything when I die.

OK, what if I'm always afraid of death? I'm 12 years old.

Hello dear, your situation is caused by your own heart too heavy. Let me help you analyze it.

One, dear, it seems that you have been separated from life and death. For example, the grandmother who is very dependent suddenly dies, which is a big blow to you. Dear, in fact, it is normal for people to die of old age, sickness and death, and they will not die for no reason.

Second, the main thing is that you are a worried girl, you have something on your mind, you think about things very roughly, and you don't know what to do.

Third, you may lack confidence in yourself, in fact, it is also the characteristic of a little girl of your age, at this time, you must first believe in yourself, the old-school believes in your family, so that slowly your mentality matures, and the imaginary rolling god thing is naturally not a big loss.

As a child, it is normal to worry about the health of your parents and longevity. However, excessive worry and anxiety can affect your physical and mental health and quality of life, so you need to learn how to soothe your emotions.

First of all, you can communicate more with your parents to understand their health status and lifestyle habits, remind them to pay attention to their health, and seek medical attention in time. At the same time, you should also maintain healthy lifestyle habits, such as eating a healthy diet, exercising moderately, and maintaining a good night's sleep, so as to maintain your health.

Secondly, you can learn and think about how to properly fulfill your filial piety to your parents. Filial piety is not only about taking care of your parents' health, but also about your parents' mental health and their living conditions and needs. Learning how to be filial properly will give you a deeper understanding and reflection, which will reduce your own anxiety and worry.

Finally, you can help yourself with your emotions and stress by asking for help, such as talking to friends, asking for help from a teacher or counselor. Sharing your feelings with others can also help you become more aware of your emotions and needs and find better ways to cope.

Remember, there will always be various challenges and difficulties in life, but as long as we learn to face them correctly, we can overcome them and become stronger and more mature.

It looks like you've grown up, and that's good.

Now that you have grown up, you have to think about what you should think about and do what you should do like an adult. As long as you do what you have to do, you can live happily and easily, and don't worry about what didn't happen in Hail Tomb and what happened in the future. Because, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge.

Put your best mind and energy into your studies and do your best, and you will always get the best opportunity to earn a lot of money in the future and give your parents the best care, who can say that they can't live to be 110 years old! In this way, you will have 60 years to stay by your parents' side and do your filial piety!

Usually, take care of yourself and keep your body healthy, which will save them a lot of worries. Doing a good job in their own lives reduces their workload and allows them to rest more. Tell them more about their happiness, they will be happier than you, know that happiness is the most beneficial to health.

If you have time to help them do something, they will reduce psychological pressure because you are sensible and sure that you will have a great future career, and they will live a more relaxed and happy life, and they will live longer.

Do you know what to do?

Analysis: Hello, your current situation is a psychological manifestation of phobia, which is mainly manifested in your excessive fear and irrational thinking about objective things or when interacting with people, so you want to try your best to avoid objective things or situations that cause fear, therefore, you often feel anxious and uneasy, which affects the patient's mood and life situation.

Suggestions: It is recommended that you should give a reasonable ** for this symptom to prevent the occurrence of phenomena such as deterioration and aggravation of the condition, and you should usually maintain a good attitude, communicate with people more, rest well, enhance your physique, and face the correct outlook on life, you can find a psychologist to give a reasonable **. For severe cases, drugs such as diazepam, vitamins, gamma oryzanol, etc. may be used**.

Hope it helps.