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Whether you like this school or not, since you are a high school student, you should focus on your studies.
High school is the most important period to study, because of our Chinese exam-oriented education, the college entrance examination is the only way out for ordinary people. That sentence is very good, "Without the college entrance examination, can you fight for the rich second generation", so even if you come to a place that everyone doesn't like, what you should do is still study, not consider other external factors.
I'm like you, I really wanted to get into the first middle school when I took the high school entrance examination, but I overestimated my strength, and I didn't get into the exam when I played normally, so I had to retreat and go to the third middle school.
There was no learning atmosphere here, and there were no good friends with me, so I indulged myself and spent three years playing around with them every day. Every day is muddy, there is no goal, and naturally I also failed the college entrance examination, and I only got one or three books. But I didn't want to repeat the mistakes of the past, so I started studying hard at the university and didn't want to be an ordinary college student in the future.
After a long time, you will forget that you don't like this school, and you just remember that you want to go to a good university. So be sure not to think about other unimportant things, and study hard! As a person who has come before, the only advice I can give you is to study hard.
At the age of seventeen or eighteen, it's easy to be confused by novelties, but I hope you can keep your original intention, you know what you want, and you should try to change the status quo and make yourself better.
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At this time, you should first calmly think about whether you have some prejudice against this school, or whether there are indeed some problems in this school, which makes you not want to study in this school.
If you just have some prejudice against this school. You know some of the shortcomings of this school from other people's mouths, but you don't really know about this school, you don't really understand the environment of this school. At this time, I suggest that you still relax your mentality, don't let this emotion affect your mood of learning, you can try to integrate into the school and the group of your class.
At this point, you may change your attitude, and you will be very glad that you didn't leave the school on impulse. If you find that you really can't learn better in this school environment, then you can tell your parents what you want so that they can help you solve such problems. You have to trust your parents, in order for you to go to school so that you can have a better learning environment, to have a better learning atmosphere.
When they find out that your environment is very bad, they will definitely do their best to help you get back to it.
Don't allow yourself to stay in a bad environment either, as this will affect your own learning. In the end, it may affect your life. If you have a problem, try to find a way to solve it, and if you can't solve it yourself, find some.
Capable people to help you out, such as your parents. They love you very much, although they will complain about you when they first learn the news, but you have to believe that they will pay attention to this problem in private, and they will also understand your living and learning environment. And then help you.
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Each of us begins our education from childhood to adulthood, starting with six years of elementary school, three years of junior high school, three years of high school, and finally four years of college. We always go to different schools and get educated, but before we choose a school, we all have the school we want to go to. But what do you do when your wish doesn't come true and you end up at a school you don't like?
First of all, in terms of mentality, you have to accept this reality and understand the truth that what comes is safe. Now that you're here, you have to learn to accept it. Although the reality is sometimes very cruel, you have to accept the reality, and only by accepting the reality can you live a normal life.
No one's life is smooth sailing. No one's life is free from troubles. You have to learn to accept reality and change yourself, so that you can become better and better.
Secondly, in terms of doing things, you have to take your time to make yourself. Do something that is good for yourself and good for this school, even if you don't know some aspects of this school. You can't always talk about it and think about him all the time.
You have to learn to accept that since you can't change this fact, then you can only change yourself. Be sure to let yourself go to school when you're in this school. Learn to get used to some of the systems of this school.
In the end, there is no gap in either school? It's just your own attitude towards learning. As long as there are books, there are teachers, and there is knowledge in the gymnasium.
Now that you have come to this school, you should calm down and study hard, so that your knowledge will become richer and richer, so that you can meet the college entrance examination in three years. Ten years of cold window, just for that day, work hard, you will always be the best.
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We can only force ourselves to adapt, and we can only accept it calmly, because we can't choose it, and we can only accept it calmly.
There are so many things in this world that we don't like, but we almost all have to do them. In the face of many things, we have no choice.
These things are already things that we can't change, but we can change what we can change, and that's our own mentality.
Only by truly accepting and letting go of unnecessary emotions will we be better able to engage with what comes next. Besides, after all, it is a school, a place to teach and educate people, whether it is good or bad, every school has the capital to teach and educate people, we are to learn knowledge, not to go on vacation, so just get by.
I have had this experience before, but the difference is that I attended two different schools in high school, because I experienced the failure of the college entrance examination, the first three years were one school, and the fourth year was another school for a change of environment.
The first three years can be said to have lived a heavenly life, the high school I attended at the time was a private school, the conditions were very good in all aspects, the dormitory had a separate bathroom, there may be no difference in summer, but in winter the dormitory was very warm, the environment was also good, and our food was also very good, many people from outside came to our school to eat.
But in the fourth year, it was a hellish life, it was a world of difference, the environment was poor, the dormitory was dilapidated and old, people could freeze to death in winter, the food in the cafeteria could not be eaten directly, I was not used to it at first, almost every day I had a stomachache, I really wanted to go back to my old school, but I had no chance, so I could only accept it slowly.
Putting one's attention on studying is to train oneself in a difficult environment, in fact, there is nothing wrong with it, the key is that we have to figure it out ourselves.
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If you don't like this school, you must not be used to the environment here, you have to learn to adapt to this new school, and don't have all kinds of resistance because you don't like it, which is not correct and is a negative mentality.
Take the initiative to take the first step, to make friends who talk to you, with the company of friends you will not feel lonely, good friends can also help you in your study and life, they will be in high school for three years in order to bring laughter, you will gradually fall in love with this school because you have true friends here, fall in love with the people here!
Divert your attention, no matter which school you go to, your task is to learn, but the quality of teaching in a good school may be better, but not necessarily, many secondary school teachers are also very good, you have to focus on your own energy, when you study well, the teacher also likes you, your classmates envy you, you yourself also feel self-confidence, and you will find that this school is not as annoying as you imagined! <>
Actively participate in school club activities or class activities to enrich yourself, as long as you stay in this school for a long time, you will not think about whether you like this school or not. Because, you're starting to get used to it!
Through various ways to learn about the history of this school and the famous sisters and brothers, you will find that in fact, this school is still "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon". Maybe I will have a lot of respect in my heart!
You will encounter a lot of things in your life that you don't like, but you are powerless to change, you can only encourage yourself to adapt, otherwise you will be overwhelmed by the pressure of the society in the future, resulting in a heavy burden in your heart, unable to gain a foothold in society!
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At different stages of our lives, we will encounter different new and unfamiliar environments, so we must adjust our mentality at this time, and we must learn to adapt to this new environment, so that we can live a true self in life.
High school is a particularly important stage for us, so we should hit me well at this stage of high school. In your case, you said that you came to a school that you hated very much, and at this time we have to make an adjustment in our mentality. First of all, I think what you have to do is not to think about the disadvantages of this school tomorrow, what are the things that make you unhappy, and you can try to think about the good side.
You have to keep a positive and optimistic attitude. You have to see what is good about this school, so that you will find that this school is not so bad. The most important thing is not to let this bad mood affect your studies.
If you really hate this school, then I think you can find what you want to do in this school, and you can try to go out and ignore the things that make you unhappy in this school, for example, you can calm down and concentrate on studying, as the saying goes, you can ignore the world and only read the sages. When we are obsessed with learning, we ignore how we feel about our environment.
Of course, in this school, we also have to make some friends who are like-minded with you, these friends will reduce your negative emotions, and now they will also help you in life, so we must take the initiative to communicate with classmates and make some friends. That way you won't feel lonely in this school and you won't hate it so much.
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I'm a college student now, and I've also experienced going from junior high school to high school, and I didn't like the high school I was admitted to at that time, but in the end I got used to it, no matter what I went through, I know which school you entered, it must be fate, it will make you experience something and then meet the people you should meet, if you don't like the high school you were admitted to, I think you can choose the following methods to solve.
The first method is to adjust your mentality by yourself, and you will be safe when you come to it. Each of us will experience a lot of things in this life, these things are not as we wish, many things are making us feel uncomfortable, so we have the right attitude to face all kinds of unsatisfactory in life, life will not change us because of our unhappiness, so the only thing that changes is ourselves, we have to learn to adapt to the high school we don't like when we enter the high school we don't like, the environment is there, no matter what kind of emotions you have, there is no way to change this fact, tell yourself that you are safe, Let yourself take your time to accept this place.
The second way, if your home is in good condition, choose to go to other schools to interpret it. If you have money in your family, you can choose to go to the school you like to borrow, this borrowing is a thing, I used to have a lot of high school classmates choose this, and now they are very good, and they are admitted to two books, borrowing is more than paying more money than normal high school, I haven't borrowed it, so I don't know how much money is, since you have money in your family, don't think about this, go if you want to.
The third method is to exchange the regret of going to high school for the motivation to be admitted to college, and choose this kind of attention diversion method. If you don't like this high school, there is no way to change it, so let yourself focus on your own college entrance examination, the most important thing in high school on the test day is to take the university entrance examination, so every high school student is thinking that he is going to be admitted to a key university, you can turn your annoyance into motivation and not let yourself be sad about going to college.
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High school is quite important for the development of our whole life, and in my opinion, high school is a more important node in our life journey, because after high school is college. If you don't pay special attention to your high school career, it will directly affect the university we want to study in the future. So, we have to work very hard in high school.
But choosing the right high school is also crucial for us. After all, it is the place where I will study and live in the next three years.
What if you come to a school you don't like? Based on my high school experience, even if I come to a school that I don't like, as long as I have the right attitude, at least it won't have much impact on my high school grades. I remember going to a school I didn't like very much, where I had few friends, let alone acquaintances.
But I have no other choice, I can only accept it. Instead of being intimidated by the difficulties, I took pleasure in the midst of hardships and lived my high school career with an almost obsessive optimism. Fortunately, the final college entrance examination results were not very bad, and they were worthy of their efforts.
If you say that after you get to a high school you don't like, you still have a choice, such as changing schools and so on. Stay for a while, if this school really doesn't match your own characters, and you really don't like it, then transfer out as soon as possible, so as not to regret it later.
Once you're in a school you don't like, it's best to make a decision as soon as possible whether to stay or leave. It's good to make a decision early, don't hesitate to be afraid of the wolf and the tiger, you can stay or go. If you do this, you don't have to worry, the rest of the questions will be very simple.
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