My family was against us, and I had a fight with my mom for him!

Updated on parenting 2024-04-27
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you are also one of the people who know your parents best, why would your parents object, believe that you will know very well about him, why she can't meet your mother's requirements, if he really loves you, I believe that he will try to do it for you.

    But we can't ignore the objective reasons, because there are some things that a person can't do at all, and how much do you know about him? If you really love him, I believe you will also make sacrifices for him.

    The family's objection is often because they just think about the quality of life from your point of view, don't blame them, try to talk to them, try to calm their anger.

    Difficult love requires two people to work together to solve it, don't let either party fight alone.

    Don't give up the love you get easily, and you can't give up the eternal family affection.

    Two people working together, quarrels will never solve the problem.

    Remember not to make a choice when you're excited, anything, calm down, and think about it.

    I wish you every success.

    May all lovers in the world eventually become married.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why is your mother against it I don't think what adults say is necessarily right Parents are also human beings and will be affected by life experiences and circumstances What they say is not necessarily right But you still have to think carefully Don't have that kind of rebellious mentality Say, Let's take pity on each other Come on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can calm down and ask your mother why she is against it, listen to your parents' opinions, sometimes what the elders say makes sense, and then think about whether this is the case, and finally decide for yourself how to deal with it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is some truth to the opposition of adults. You can also put your thoughts on it. Adults don't necessarily listen. So you must pay attention to your attitude when you speak.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Well, you have to persevere, and take him home to visit him more and help him say good things more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. In fact, many parents will scold their children when they have conflicts with their children, and even more seriously, and hit their children, do you want to comfort your classmates?

    My classmate had a fight with her mother, and then his mother scolded him, and he didn't understand.

    In fact, many parents will scold their children when they have conflicts with their children, and even more seriously, and hit their children, do you want to comfort your classmates?

    You can tell him not to be angry, how can there be parents who don't love their children, but their expressions are different, you see that my mother sometimes scolds me for leaking, so it is to use empathy to make him feel that not only he is scolded, but other people are also like this. ......The second is to stand in his point of view, let him feel that you are thinking about him, you can tell him: tell your mother how you feel, and hope that he can understand you, instead of scolding and blaming.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Hello dear! Everyone knows that home and everything is prosperous, but not everyone will do it, and then with the beautiful family, there are times when they quarrel!

    Home is a happy harbor, and a small family can be cast into everyone. Home is a warm and harmonious place, and the family is to harvest growth and happiness, rather than a few people worrying about each other because of some small things. But sometimes when you quarrel with your family, how do you ease the relationship with each other?

    If you have conflicts with your parents because you are not good, then it is very meaningful to cook for your parents and help them do what they can. When we grow up, we should not blame our parents for these things in the face of any pressure, let alone think about them. But in fact, the best way is to redeem the other party with warm care, and make yourself better, better, and become their good seedlings.

    Hello dear! Everyone knows that home and everything is prosperous, but not everyone will do it, and then with the beautiful family, there are times when they quarrel! Home is a happy harbor, and a small family can be cast into everyone.

    Home is a warm and harmonious place, and the family is to harvest growth and happiness, rather than a few people worrying about each other because of some small things. But sometimes when you quarrel with your family, how do you ease the relationship with each other? If you have conflicts with your parents because you are not good, then it is very meaningful to cook for your parents and help them do what they can.

    When we grow up, we should not blame our parents for these things in the face of any pressure, let alone think about them. But in fact, the best way is to redeem the other party with warm care, and make yourself better, better, and become their good seedlings.

    1。When we have a fight with our family, the first thing we should do is to try to control our emotions and not try to be tough. It's a very irrational thing to be tough.

    We can regulate our emotions by breathing deeply. At this time, we can also choose to go out for a walk to divert our attention.

    2。When we successfully complete the first step, the next thing we have to do is think about why we are fighting with our family. Is it because of a trivial quarrel, or because of some misunderstanding?

    We need to analyze the reasons for this. When we are able to calm our minds, we become sane.

    3。After completing the above two steps, the last thing we need to do is to think about how to apologize to the family or how to make it clear to the family. After all, we are family.

    Family is important to us. Let's not be embarrassed to talk to our families because of our own face. That's when we should find an opportunity to sit down with our families and talk.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not a pleasant thing to be in such a situation!

    In fact, this happens in ordinary families, and if you want a more harmonious family, you have to think about it!

    Every contradiction is caused by both sides, what we have to do is not to blame and blame each other, but to find out our own unfavorable starting point, the fault is in the **, what should be avoided, what should be done. Especially in the face of relatives, we must be tolerant and generous!

    Everyone makes mistakes at times, and it's understandable that our parents who have worked hard to raise us are no exception! When we don't make a mistake but are scolded, don't blindly quarrel with them, talk to them quietly, such an atmosphere will make the angry other party quietly calm down! If you are not calm, it will be a non-stop quarrel, you will not be able to solve the problem, and you will complain to each other even more!

    My mother also often quarreled with me, and sometimes even sprinkled unwarranted resentment on me, when I was a child, I always broke down, and I was very puzzled! But then, everything was different, thinking from my mother's point of view, why did she be like this, and what was the big deal about being noisy! They don't know how much they have paid for their children, they are the closest people, if they are not qualified to quarrel with us, then who else?

    Some people can't get even the chatter of their parents!

    It's not that parents can beat and scold their children, when they are angry, they will indeed do some crazy things, but afterwards, it is they who are distressed. In order to avoid this, we must try to reduce their anger! In addition, even if you are scolded by your parents, we can't fight back, you scold your mother's mother, how heartbroken she should be!

    She hit you because you were so lethal!

    Conversation is the medicine that brings each other's hearts closer, everything is open, and nothing is left. Have a good talk with your mom to explain that you really didn't steal money, and in addition, apologize to mom for your swearing!

    Don't dwell on it, it's not a big deal! What's more, it's still a boy, and it's necessary to let go. It's okay! What is the hurdle between mother and son that cannot be overcome! You tell me?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Treat your family calmly, after all, you won't have a lot of days with them in the future, life is just a few decades, do you still have to worry about them? They gave birth to you and raised you, and when you know the bitterness of their raising of you, you regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It seems that your mother and son have been grudges for a long time, and it is no fun for the two of you to talk directly. If you talk about it, you will quarrel, and if you quarrel, it will collapse. Now you can only use your father as an intermediary to reconcile the conflict between your mother and son.

    If it doesn't work, ask your uncle, aunt, and uncle to help reconcile. But first of all, you have to put your mind right, think about whether some of your usual behaviors often make your mother dissatisfied and take the initiative to admit her mistakes, and your mother is not an unreasonable person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Calm your mind. 2. Communicate well with your mother.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, I took my mother's money when I was a kid and was beaten up. My mom and I didn't get along more democratically until I was in high school, and when I was a kid, I seemed to get together at every turn. But family life is like quarrels, fights and whatnot, but there are some things that cannot be said, such as ugly words that scold each other, because it will be more distressing than a slap on the body.

    No matter who is right or wrong, our general rule is that children, first bow your head and admit your mistake is not ashamed, that is just our respect for parents as children. You can talk to her after you say I'm sorry. The conversation at that time was useful, really.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is something wrong with both sides. Still, you might as well talk to your mom.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Explain well, you have to talk to your mother well, there are too many things around you, and in many cases you are in a bad mood.

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