Asking for help Now how am I going to get close to her?

Updated on society 2024-04-19
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Bear with her for a while, don't look for her for a while, about 5 days or a week, ask her out, it's best to have a lot of friends, it's best if everyone knows, and find a reason to play together. Then act like normal, don't be too enthusiastic about her, don't be cold to her, just like everyone else.

    The most important thing is to exercise your eyes in the few days before meeting her, so as to prevent your fiery gaze from betraying you when you meet.

    After that, it's bland, and when she gets used to you and feels that she can find a boyfriend, she may choose you, don't put too much pressure on her, otherwise she will run away.

    Feelings are like fine sand in your hands, the tighter you hold on, the faster it will drain.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say what you think! Maybe things will get better!

    You're only going to get yourself and him into trouble!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sincerity will definitely be able to dissolve the shadow in her heart, you have to insist But don't be overly enthusiastic, this will bring pressure to her

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A young and beautiful girl who doesn't want to fall in love is traumatic. She was afraid of being hurt again to close herself off. You don't have to confess to someone in the first place, but you have to ask yourself if you're really ready to love her.

    If you really have your heart, remember who the girl who makes your heart move. Then you should boldly chase the girl you love! Step up your game!

    It's actually fragile. Be careful!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Take your time, don't be in such a hurry, help her heal well, but don't please her too much, otherwise she will be disgusted.

    Go with the flow!

    I believe she will feel that you are worthy of her sincere dedication

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'd rather. I'd rather have you stay with me for a few more minutes while I'm alive than you wait for me all night after I'm dead.

    I'd rather have you hold my hand tenderly while I'm alive than weep on my body when I'm dead.

    I'd rather you call me even a ** while I'm alive than you come to see me often after I'm dead.

    Cherish the present!

    Let's be with our loved ones at least today!

    Dedicate a poem to her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Haha, you don't have an opinion, do you?? First of all, it's about communicating, it's funny, it's funny, it's funny, it's about it, it's going to be funny, it's going to be funny, it's going

    The main thing is to communicate and pull

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then speak generously and chat... Ordinary friends! Why is she avoiding you? Is it because she senses that you like her a little? You don't have to have the same attitude towards her as you do towards other ordinary friends. Haven't heard of it?

    Ordinary friends --- good friends --- socialize.

    Start from the beginning.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Care about her everywhere and impress her with your sincerity.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everybody spoke. Then I'll take the points. Ha ha.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that she is a woman of power.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    。。。Obviously dislikes the poor and loves the rich... When you lose everything... She'll leave right away.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What an obvious thing, even if she really loves you now, you don't believe me when you say it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you use your goodness, you have to be generous, to win her sincerity, and when two people get along, the most important thing is trust.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you have to do better than him to attract her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men should take the initiative and confess boldly.

    The girl I met on the train is which one I prefer, but it's a pity that I missed such a good opportunity, and when God gives me a chance, I will take the initiative to confess.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Lots of play with her....What is the romantic atmosphere under the mouth of her....The premise is that you like her very much....Don't hurt anyone! That's how you can be happy....

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Take the initiative. Don't be so shy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1 All haha, didn't you see that this mm put the classification of this problem in "love"?

    This is to say: she thinks about spring.

    Sichun's women will become fools. I forgot how to fall in love.

    Do you want to go to a cram school for love?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Communicate with the person sincerely and tell him about your advantages.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's the same as approaching ordinary people, sincere

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Brother on the top bunk, why are you level seven, so tall.

    I met an old man, and in order to cater to him, I asked him to talk to me for a long time about "borrowing scriptures", his own books. Nothing is impossible with your own work!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You have to fish for customers, it's too ruthless.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Keep your distance for the time being, and you can send her a text saying that you will definitely improve and develop in the direction she aspires. Then work silently and prove that you love her with your actions. If after a while, she affirms you and proves that she loves you.

    If she is still indifferent, either she dislikes you, and this kind of person doesn't have to pursue it too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Slowly and gradually infiltrate.

    It's better to come to QQ

    That's better than a text message.

    Of course, don't be in a hurry**.

    If you want to make yourself feel that she is also interesting, she will fight.

    Also, it's best to write about your happy thoughts together on the Internet.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Sometimes at the beginning of love, it seems that there is this situation as you said: I like someone very much, and I want to get close to her (him), but I am afraid of approaching her (him), maybe I am worried that I am close to the other party, and I am worried that the other party is not satisfied with me and will lose the other party, right?

    This psychological experience is a beautiful experience, and it's good to have it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The situation you mentioned exists, it's normal, people, often the more you care, the more afraid you are of losing, but you still have to overcome this mentality. If you love her, tell her loudly, say it simple and popular, if you don't say it, she doesn't know, even if she knows, she will pretend not to know, it is equivalent to no chance at all, this is the same as sales, to take the initiative, and occasionally to surprise; If you say it, she may accept it or she may refuse, but no matter what the result is, at least you have done what you should have done, and you will not leave yourself with any regrets. And to say it, at most, she doesn't agree to be with you for the time being, it doesn't mean that you are no longer friends, take your time, and don't make the division too embarrassing, digest the phrase "get together and disperse" well.

    If you have time, let's fight a long game.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Friend, you didn't make it clear about what happened between you and her, but I think you don't understand her, you are nervous, you are afraid of rejection, you pay too much attention to feelings. I assume you didn't become friends, I don't know, did you. You still make friends with her like an ordinary person first, and after a long time of contact, the spark will slowly grow.

    Don't be nervous. Calm point.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well, I want to get close, but I'm afraid that once I touch it, I will lose even the current state.

    So, the more you like it, the more you are afraid of losing.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone wants to show their best side to the people they like. So every time I see someone I like, I feel nervous, normal.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's just a different personality, I'm just like you, I obviously want to get close, I obviously like it, but I just want to hide.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes. What you can't get is the best, and after you get it, you're afraid of losing. That's how contradictory people are.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Be bold or you will be preempted by others.

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